Okuqukethwe
Abaqashi abaningi ngephutha bakholelwa ukuthi ukuba ngumama kuphazamisa izinqubo zomsebenzi: kuthiwani uma isisebenzi siphindela ekhefini lokuyoteta noma sithatha ilivu yokugula ngenxa yengane. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abanezingane njengabasebenzi bavame ukubukelwa phansi. Nakuba eqinisweni banezinzuzo ezibalulekile.
Inhlangano yezinqubo zomsebenzi
Ukuhlela kanye nekhono lokwaba izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu ezaziswa abaqashi. Kungenxa yokuntuleka kwesikhathi ukuthi thina, omama, sizama ukusebenzisa usuku lokusebenza ngokuphumelelayo ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba sidinga ukuqeda wonke umsebenzi bese sigijima ngemva komntwana ukuya enkulisa noma ukumlanda esikoleni.
Futhi wonke umama angakwazi ukuhlela ngokufanelekile, amakhono okuphatha isikhathi, nokwenza izinto eziningi phakathi kwamandla akhe ku-resume yakhe. Futhi uma owesifazane ekhulisa ingane yedwa, khona-ke lapho eya emsebenzini, cishe uzozibonakalisa eyisisebenzi esinomthwalo wemfanelo.
Ukuxhumana nabantu abanzima
Abaningi baye bahlangana nabantu “abanzima” endleleni. Isibonelo, uzakwethu ongasebenzi kahle, noma umphathi ongakwazi ukunaka nganoma iyiphi indlela. Okufanayo kwenzeka ezinganeni ezineminyaka ehlukene. Futhi wonke umama unezindlela zakhe zokuthola ukusabela okufanele kubo.
Ngakho-ke, omama abanezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyisikhombisa bayazi ukuthi ingane ibona ulwazi ngomdlalo. Ubani ozocosha amathoyizi phansi ngokushesha, wena noma umama? Ubani ongakhetha ukugqoka i-pantyhose engadini, wena noma umngane wakho? Le nqubo ingasiza emsebenzini. Isibonelo, ingasetshenziswa ukugqugquzela abasebenzi ngokubafaka emqhudelwaneni wesihloko esithi «Isisebenzi Senyanga».
Omama bayakwazi ukuba ngabakhulumeli ngisho nangezikhathi zobunzima. Inkinga yeminyaka emithathu yobuntwana isifundisa ukuthi sixoxisane nalabo, ngaphandle kwesizathu, abangaqamba amanga ku-asphalt futhi bakhale. Futhi uma ukwazile ukuthola indlela enganeni engahlakaniphile, kungani ungazami ukuxazulula izinkinga nozakwethu ohlakaniphe ngokucacile ngendlela efanayo?
Ikhono lentshisekelo
Abaqalayo, abanikazi bamabhizinisi, nabaphathi bokuthengisa badinga ukuheha abatshalizimali namakhasimende. Umgomo uyefana — ukuthakasela omunye umuntu ngisho nalapho isiphakamiso sethu singabonakali sikhanga kuye ekuqaleni. Ngezingane, izimo ezinjalo zenzeka njalo ngehora: noma akafuni ukufunda, khona-ke akafuni ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikole, noma akafuni ukuhlanza.
Kokubili esimweni esinengane kanye nomtshali-zimali, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuthi kuzoba nenzuzo eyengeziwe futhi ewusizo kuye ukuba asinikeze. Omama baye bahlakulela uzwela, bavame ukuzwa isimo se-interlocutor, futhi bayazi ukuthi bangadlala kanjani indima ehlukene. Kufanele uye kumaqhinga okulingisa ngendlela yokushintsha iphimbo nengane kanye neklayenti ukuze uhehe futhi uvuse isithakazelo. Omama, njengabanye abasebenzi, bayakwazi ukuhlunga ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene baze bathole okulungile.
Ukuqonda izidingo zamakhasimende
Ngezikhundla zabathengisi, abaphathi be-akhawunti, abathengisi ukuze basebenze nezingane noma abazali, abaqashi bayakujabulela ukuthatha abesifazane abanolwazi lobumama. Uma owesifazane ngokwakhe njengeklayenti noma umthengi ejwayelene nenkinga, kuyoba lula kuye ukukhuluma ulimi olufanayo neklayenti noma umthengi. Lokhu akusebenzi ekuthengisweni kuphela.
Kulula ngothisha onengane eyeve eshumini nambili ukuqonda abafundi bakhe, abalingana nendodakazi noma indodana yakhe. Odokotela bezingane bazi kahle ukuthi kujabulisa kanjani lapho ingane yabo igula. Uzwela olutholakala komama lubonakala emsebenzini abawenzayo.
Isimo sengqondo esihlakaniphile ngamaphutha
Akunakwenzeka ukuhlanganisa okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo bonke omama, kodwa ngokubukeka nokukhuliswa kwezingane, abesifazane ngokuvamile baqinisa amakhono afana nokubekezelelana nokuqonda. Ngokufanisa nokukhulisa izingane, owesifazane angakwazi ukushelela izinto, athethelele amaphutha futhi athuthukise umoya eqenjini.
Lapho ingane ikhula, ivame ukwenza amaphutha futhi ngaleyo ndlela ifunde, ihlanganyele. Lapho isisebenzi “sikhula” emsebenzini, senza namaphutha amaningi ochwepheshe. Futhi uma sinezingane, asikhohlwa ukuthi kujwayelekile ukuthi wonke umuntu aphambuke endleleni efanele. Ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho komama, abesifazane abaqondiswa kuphela imiphumela yabo kanye neyabanye emsebenzini, kodwa futhi baqinisekisa ukuthi isimo sonke seqembu siyavumelana.