Amantombazane, ngaphansi kwesimo sokudalulwa, akhuluma ngokuthi yiziphi izici onguchwepheshe onekhono okufanele abe nazo. Ngaphandle kwalabo abaqeqeshiwe, kunjalo.
Kunoma yimuphi owesifazane, ukuvakashela udokotela wezifo zabesifazane kuyacindezela. Noma konke sekumi ngomumo, sihlala ngokukhathazeka ngaphansi komnyango womtholampilo wabakhulelwe bese silinda ukuhlolwa: kuthiwani uma bethi kukhona okungahambi kahle? Ingabe bayoba nolaka noma bahlekise? Cishe wonke amantombazane ayenamacala ambalwa engingafuni ukuwakhumbula. Sibuze abangane bethu, izintatheli namantombazane, lo mbuzo: yini okufanele ibe ngudokotela wezifo zabesifazane ofanele?
UMarina, oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala: “Izikhathi ezimbalwa ngihlangabezane nesimo sokungahloniphi - emtholampilo ungenza isikhathi sokubonana nanoma yimuphi udokotela wezifo zabesifazane okhululekile, kodwa ngabuzwa ngemibuzo ngothando lokuthi kungani ngingayi kulowo indlu yethu eyayikuyo okunamathiselwe. Futhi bengingazi ukuthi bakhuluma ngobani, ngoba ngangijabule ukufika lapho. Ngicabanga ukuthi udokotela wezifo zabesifazane ofanele akufanele adidanise amantombazane nemibuzo yakhe - mayelana namaphepha nangendlela abaphila ngayo. Yebo, owaphakade “Usuneminyaka engama-25 ubudala, uyozala nini abantwana?” - engacabangi nhlobo. Leli ibhizinisi lami, engingathandi ukulinikela kumuntu engingamazi.
Udokotela wezifo zabesifazane ofanele kufanele ahloniphe engikukhethayo kanye nemingcele yobuntu bami.
U-Irina, oneminyaka engu-16 ubudala: “Esikoleni samabanga aphezulu sahlolwa ngodokotela, futhi emantombazaneni kwakukhona ukuvakashelwa okuphoqelekile kudokotela wezifo zabesifazane. Vele, wonke umuntu wayesaba, ikakhulukazi labo thina ebesivele sihlanganyela ocansini. Yini owawuyesaba? Besaba ukungamukelwa yilabo abafunda nabo ngalokho udokotela azobatshela khona abazali noma “ikilasi” - izingane zinonya kakhulu futhi azisoze zaphuthelwa yithuba lokuncinza intombazane ebizihloniphile. Kwakunovalo - ngaphezu kwamagama! Kepha, ngokuxakile, konke kwahamba kahle - impela, noma ikuphi ukuphambuka kwakungumbuzo kuphela kudokotela nesiguli. Ngikholwa ukuthi udokotela wezifo zabesifazane ofanele akasoze axoxa ngeziguli nemvelo yakhe noma nozakwabo - lokhu kuyimfihlo yezokwelapha. "
U-Adele, oneminyaka engama-31 ubudala: “Angisoze ngikhohlwa ukuthi emtholampilo wesigodi wedolobha langakithi kwakukhona njalo izandisi zensimbi ezibandayo, okwathi ngemva kwalokho ingwenya yalimala elinye isonto. Manje ngisebenzisa izinsizakalo ze-gynecologist yangasese - zingamapulasitiki futhi azibandi nakancane, futhi ngemuva kokuhlolwa angizizwa ngingakhululekile. Ngicabanga ukuthi udokotela wezifo zabesifazane ofanele kufanele acabange ngenduduzo yesiguli sakhe. Ngale ndlela, kuleyo polyclinic efanayo yobuntwana bami, odokotela ngokusobala babentula ubuhlakani: “Ngubani okunikeze lesi sifo? Yini umbhedo? ”- futhi ngangivele ngizizwa ngaleyo ndlela, kwakuyimina owayenephutha, hhayi uzakwabo.
UMaria, oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala: “Ngokubona kwami, udokotela wesifazane ofanele kufanele kube ngumuntu osemusha nasesimanjemanje oqondayo ukuthi iyini impilo yedolobha elikhulu nokungabi nesikhathi. Isibonelo, udokotela wami uneminyaka engama-31-32 ubudala, uhlala elalele futhi emnandi ukukhuluma naye. Ngaphezu kwakho konke ngikuthandile ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuqokwa kokuqala wanginika inombolo yakhe yocingo wathi angonga isikhathi sami futhi ngithole imiphumela yokuhlolwa ngokumbhalela iSMS ezinsukwini ezintathu. Ngokubona kwami, lokhu kuyisipho sangempela sokudalelwa. "