Ukuphupha ngokufa kukamama - okusho

Ingabe kuyafaneleka ukuba ukhathazeke uma kwakufanele ubone isenzakalo esinjalo esibuhlungu emaphusheni akho.

Uma uphuphe ukuthi umama wakho ushonile, akufanele uwele ngokushesha ekucindezelekeni ukuze ubonise okubi kakhulu. Ngokusho kwezincwadi ezihlukahlukene zephupho, okubonayo kungabonisa izinto ezahlukene. Akubona bonke abalingiswa okudingeka bathathwe njengoba kunjalo. Izincwadi zephupho zizosiza ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ukufa komama ephusheni.

Ukufa komama ephusheni, ngokusho kweBulgarian clairvoyant Vanga, kuyisimo esishaqisayo. Eqinisweni, umuntu uzoba nezinkinga zempilo. Ngezibonakaliso zokuqala zokugula noma ukugula, kufanele ngokushesha ufune usizo kudokotela, uphumelele zonke izivivinyo ezidingekayo futhi uhlolwe. Ukwelashwa okufika ngesikhathi kuphela kungagwema imiphumela emibi. Noma kunjalo, akufanele ulindele uhlobo oluthile lwenhlekelele yomhlaba wonke kulokho okubonile ephusheni - ekugcineni, konke kuzophela ngenjabulo.

Ngokwencazelo kaMiller, akubona kuyibika elihle. Uma uphupha ngokufa kukamama wakho, empeleni umuntu othandekayo emhlabeni ngeke abe nezinkinga zempilo. Uma empeleni umama enesifo esibi kakhulu, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzokwazi ukubhekana naso, anqobe lesi sifo.

Ngobulili obuhle, iphupho livame ukuchazwa njengokubonakaliswa kokuhlangenwe nakho. Intombazane iswele ukunakekelwa nokunakwa yizihlobo nabangane.

Kuye ngemininingwane, iphupho lichazwa njengesignali yokuqala isenzo. Kuyafaneleka ukukhombisa ukuzimisela nokuzimela, ukuzidonsa ndawonye futhi wenze isinqumo esiqinile.

Ngokuvamile, ukuze uphumelele, kufanele ushiye indawo yakho yokunethezeka futhi uvele uye endaweni engaziwa. Ngaphandle kokuzifaka engozini manje, umuntu uzifaka engozini yokuphuthelwa yithuba okuwukuphela kwalo elinikezwe ukudalelwa ngokwalo.

Kungani uphupha ngokufa kukamama ongasekho? Ngokusho kukaMiller, iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu olubi. Eqinisweni, othile oseduze nothandekayo uzodlula ngokushesha. Imicimbi izoshesha umbani futhi umuntu ngeke akwazi ukusiza.

I-psychoanalyst ichaza lo mbono ngokuntuleka kokufudumala komndeni nothando. Ophuphayo akanakho ukunakwa nokusekelwa. Umuntu ophuphayo kumele naye asebenze. Uma uzifihla futhi uzivale emhlabeni wonke, khona-ke abantu ngeke badonswe kumuntu. Kufanele uqale ukuzisebenzela ngokwakho, uzame ukuvuleka kakhudlwana futhi ungabi nenkani kubantu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukulimaza noma ukukhohlisa, kufanelekile ukunikeza umuntu ithuba, futhi angamangala ngokujabulisayo.

Encwadini yephupho likaLoff, incazelo yesakhiwo icacile - izinguquko zizofika maduze. Abantu abangashadile bazokwazi ukuqala umndeni, balindelwe amadili anenzuzo kwezamabhizinisi, noma bathole ukukhushulwa emsebenzini. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kukhombisa ukubuyiselwa kobudlelwano nomuntu obengekho isikhathi eside empilweni yakho.

Iphupho elibonwayo lihunyushwa njengesiqalo sento entsha, izenzakalo ezizoshintsha kakhulu ukuphila. Futhi okungcono. Eqinisweni, isigaba sokuphila sizothatha indawo yesinye. Okuzokwenzeka ngempela kunzima ukukubikezela. Izinguqulo eziningana zivezwe encwadini yephupho, kuhlanganise: uhambo oluya emazweni akude, umshado, ukuzalwa kwengane.

Incwadi yephupho kaTsvetkov ithi uma umngcwabo uhlelwe ephusheni, empeleni uchitha isikhathi ezintweni ezingenamsebenzi. Esikhundleni sokuchitha amandla ngeze, kungcono ukuzizuzisa wena, izihlobo zakho.

Ngokombono wokuhumusha kwe-esoteric, ukufa okungenabudlova kubikezela isikhathi eside somama. Uma efa ngenxa yengozi, noma wena ngokwakho umbulele, empeleni lokhu kuthembisa ukugula okungathi sína, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okukhulu.

Ukubona umama wakho ophilayo efile ngokwale ncazelo kuyisibonakaliso esihle: uzokhohlwa ngokushesha ngezinkinga nobunzima obukukhathaza isikhathi eside.

Ukuze uphendule umbuzo othi "Liyini iphupho lokufa komama?", Okokuqala udinga ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela imininingwane emincane yephupho, bese uqhubeka nencazelo yalo efanele.

Uma umama ephila, iphupho elinjalo likhuluma ngempilo yesikhathi esizayo enempilo yomzali wakho. Ngemva kokubona iphupho elinjalo, cabanga nje ukuthi ungamcasula kanjani. Mhlawumbe awuzange uvakashele abazali bakho isikhathi eside, noma uze kubo kuphela ngamaholide nangezikhathi ezinzima. Vele ushaye ucingo, xoxa. Uma nixabene, yenzani ukuthula. Umama wakho cishe ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokungavumelani kwenu.

Ngomfana osemusha, isibonakaliso esinjalo sibonakala njengesixwayiso: maduze umzali uzodinga usizo lwakhe. Ukubonakala kokufa emaphusheni kubonisa ukuthi umjikelezo wezenzakalo ongakaze ubonwe uzoqala, ozokufaka enkingeni yezindaba. Kuyo, umama uzodinga ukusekelwa yindodana yakhe.

Ukuze intombazane iphuphe ngokufa kukanina kusho ukungena esigabeni esisha sokuphila, lapho kufanele idlule khona ezenzakalweni eziningi. Bazoshintsha kakhulu impilo yakhe ngendlela eyakhayo. Izinguquko zizothinta imikhakha yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi. Mhlawumbe kuzoba nomhlangano nomuntu onenhlanhla ozosiza ekwakheni umfelandawonye oqinile.

Kowesifazane, amaphupho anjalo athembisa izinguquko empilweni yakhe evamile. Ukuthi zinhle noma zimbi, isikhathi sizosho.

Uma ubona umama elele ebhokisini, iphupho elinjalo lixwayisa ngezinkinga zempilo yakho. Qaphela lokho okudlayo, ungakhohlwa ngokuzivocavoca nokusebenza phakathi nosuku. Uma kungenjalo, ungathola isifo esingelapheki.

Uma ephusheni uhlangabezane nokufa okungalindelekile kukamama wakho, empeleni kufanele wenqabe ukwenza izinqumo ezinzima. Ungenzi amadili, kungcono ukuhlehlisa unomphela. Amaphrojekthi abalulekile kuwe angaphenduka angabi nanzuzo futhi alethe izinkinga ezintsha kuphela. Noma yiliphi ibhizinisi elisha manje lingaba isehluleki.

Uphuphe ubikelwa ngokushona kukamama wakho kodwa awuyena ufakazi ngokufa kwakhe. Iphupho elinjalo lingase lisho ukuthi ukhathazeke ngempela ngomama wakho. Mhlawumbe usephelile manje futhi ukhathazekile ngempilo yakhe.

Ukulala, umama washona, futhi kwavela ukuthi uyaphila, kunencazelo enhle. Izindaba ezinhle kakhulu zikulindele. Ukuwina ingxabano enzima noma ukunqoba icala. Ezinye izincwadi zephupho zihumusha iphupho elinjalo njengokuthuthuka kwesimo sezezimali.

Uma umama evuka ephusheni, lokhu kubonisa izinkinga emsebenzini.

Uma umama osebhokisini esemncane futhi emuhle, khona-ke lokhu kufanekisela ukukhula okusheshayo komsebenzi eqinisweni.

Kungani uphupha ukuthi umama uyafa uma empeleni engasaphili? Lokhu kukhuluma ngezinkinga zesikhathi esizayo emndenini. Mhlawumbe othile emndenini wakho uzophathwa ukugula okubi kakhulu, okungaholela ekufeni.

Isiphetho

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi wonke amaphupho angabasizi empilweni yomphuphi, futhi incazelo yabo enekhono izosiza ekuvimbeleni izimo eziningi zokuphila ezingathandeki.

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