Kungani ubaba ephupha

Iphupho obona kulo ubaba wakho lingasho kokubili ukuthi njengamanje usesimweni esinzima sempilo, nokuthi kunesidingo esinamandla ngaphakathi kuwe sokwesekwa okulindele kwabathandekayo bakho. Okuningi ephusheni elinjalo kuncike ezimweni nemininingwane okufanele icatshangelwe lapho ilihumusha. Ngakho-ke, zama ukukhumbula yonke into, kusukela emoyeni, amazwi kapapa futhi uphethe ngesakhiwo esithile. Futhi uchwepheshe wethu uzokutshela ukuthi ubaba uphupha ngani ngokombono we-psychology.

Ubaba encwadini yephupho ye-Astromeridian

Ukubona ubaba ephusheni kusho ukuthi empeleni kunenkinga empilweni yakho, ubhekene nokukhetha okungathí sina. Futhi, iphupho elinjalo lingase lisho ukuthi udinga iseluleko, hhayi ngempela kubaba wakho, kodwa nje othandekayo. 

Uma uphupha ubaba oshonile ophila empilweni yangempela, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi maduze kungase kube nezinkinga nezinkinga okufanele uzixazulule. Uma uphupha ubaba oshonile empilweni yangempela, kowesifazane lokhu kuzosho amathuba aphezulu okukhashelwa ngumyeni wakhe noma umlingani wakhe.

Iphupho likababa ogulayo lingasho ukukhathazeka ngodaba oluthile noma inkinga ehlala ikuhlupha. Kodwa ingxoxo elula nobaba ingabikezela izenzakalo ezimnandi nezindaba eziseduze, futhi zizokujabulisa kakhulu. 

Uma ephusheni ubaba wakho ekuthethisa, lokhu kuvame ukuhunyushwa njengesixwayiso ngokuthile. Kufanele ucabange kabusha umbuthano wakho wokuxhumana nabantu futhi ulahle abantu abaletha ukungaboni kahle empilweni. Uma uphupha ubaba okhalayo, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduzane uzoba nesenzakalo esingavamile ongenakuphupha ngaso. Iphupho mayelana nobaba ophuzile likhuluma ngesidingo sokubonisa umsebenzi webhizinisi emsebenzini womuntu, ibhizinisi.

Ubaba encwadini yamaphupho kaWanderer

Ubaba ephusheni uvame ukufanekisela amandla amakhulu nokusekelwa. Okuningi kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Kubantu, ukubona ubaba ephusheni kusho impumelelo ebhizinisini, kodwa uma ethukuthele, ukwehluleka kuzolandela. Kwabesifazane, ukubona ubaba ephusheni kusho izinguquko ezindabeni ezithile zomuntu siqu.

Uma ephusheni ubaba edakiwe, eshaywa, ethukuthele, lokhu kusho usongo empilweni, ukukhashelwa okungenzeka kwengxenye yesibili, ukulahlekelwa igunya namandla. Uma ubaba emuhle futhi ehlelekile, lokhu kufanekisela impumelelo ebhizinisini, isibusiso enjabulweni nempilo.

Ubaba encwadini yephupho ka-E. Danilova

Iphupho mayelana nobaba ophilayo lisho isidingo sokusekela nosizo empilweni yangempela, okulindele kubathandekayo. Futhi, iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa ukuthi akukho ukusekelwa okungathí sina nokusekelwa empilweni yakho, futhi kufanele uxazulule zonke izinkinga ngokwakho, wenze amaphutha. Uma ubaba enikeza iseluleko ephusheni, kubalulekile ukumlalela - lokhu kuzosiza ukuxazulula inkinga yakho. 

Uma uphupha ubaba engasekho kusho ukuthi uyamdinga futhi umkhumbula kakhulu. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho kaFreud 

Iphupho lapho ubaba ekhona kumfana osemusha kungasho ukuthi empilweni yangempela uzwa inzondo nomhawu ngoyise futhi umbona njengombangi wakhe omkhulu wezocansi. Uma intombazane iphupha ngoyise, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi unenkimbinkimbi kayise. Intombazane iqhathanisa bonke abalingani bayo noyise futhi ngokuqaphela noma ngokungazi ibheka umuntu onjengaye. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho ka-I. Furtsev

Amaphupho amaningi athinta ubaba anomyalezo owakhayo. Iphupho elinjalo livame ukukhombisa ukuthi isiteji esisha siqala empilweni, usukhulile endaweni ethile yempilo yakho futhi usulungele ukuqhubekela phambili ezimpumelelweni ezintsha. 

Uma ephusheni ubona ubaba ongakaze umbone empilweni yangempela isikhathi eside, khona-ke iphupho elinjalo liyoba ukuqagela. Kudingeka ukhulume nomuntu ohlakaniphile ongakunikeza iseluleko esihle. Kodwa ukubona ubaba odakiwe noma ongcolile ephusheni akuyona isibonakaliso esihle kakhulu. Lokhu kungase kubikezele ukulandelana kokuqala kokwehluleka. Uma ubaba ebukeka ejabule, ejabulile, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi udinga ukujabulela ukuphila kwakho. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho likaRick Dillon

Uma ephusheni ubaba eseduze nomama wakho noma enye inkosikazi, lokhu kungase kusho umhlangano wokuqala nomthandi noma umshado. Iphupho mayelana nobaba othandekayo ngokuvamile lisho umshado ongajabulisi.

Ukubona ubaba ephusheni owafa empilweni yangempela kuwuphawu olubi kwabesifazane. Iphupho elinjalo lifanekisela inkathazo nokhethiwe, ongakwazi ukunqotshwa isifiso sesikhashana nokushintsha. Uma ephusheni ubalekela ubaba wakho, lokhu kusho ukuthi empeleni awunamanqikanqika ngokwanele ukuthatha isinyathelo esibalulekile ebuhlotsheni bakho nesithandwa sakho. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho kaStepanova

Kulabo abazalwa kusukela ngoJanuwari kuya ku-Ephreli:

Iphupho elithinta ubaba lisho ukuphelelwa ithemba, okuvame ukukuthatha. Uma ubaba ongasekho ephupha, lokhu ukuphumula.

Kulabo abazalwa kusukela ngoMeyi kuya ku-Agasti:

Uma uphupha ubaba owashona kudala udinga ukufaka ikhandlela ebandla.

Kulabo abazalwa phakathi kukaSepthemba noDisemba:

Ukubona uyihlo ephusheni kufanekisela ukuzisola okuthile.

Ubaba encwadini yephupho likaMiller

Ukubona ubaba ephusheni kusho ukuthi empeleni kuyoba nzima ukugwema izinkinga nezeluleko ezihlakaniphile kanye nosizo oluvela kumuntu onolwazi oluvela ngaphandle oluzodingeka ukuxazulula. Uma uphupha ukuthi ubaba wakho ushonile, khona-ke izindaba zakho ngeke zihambe ngendlela engcono kakhulu futhi uzodinga ukuziqhuba ngokuqapha okukhulu. 

Uma owesifazane osemusha ephupha uyise oshonile, kufanele uqaphele ezindabeni zothando. Ngezinga eliphezulu lokungenzeka, umyeni noma insizwa iyakopela. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho likaVanga

Ubaba uvame ukuphupha yilabo ababhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu, ubunzima empilweni futhi abadinga usizo nokusekelwa. Uma empeleni ubuhlobo nobaba buhle, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukulalela futhi uhlolisise lokho akushoyo nokubonisa ephusheni.

Uma uphupha ukuthi wenza isithembiso kubaba wakho oshonile ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe, sekuyisikhathi sokufeza lokho okuthenjisiwe. Iphupho lapho ungumntwana oxabana noyise lifanekisela amaphutha enziwe esikhathini esidlule okudingeka uwalungise. 

Ubaba ongasekho odabukisayo uwuphawu lokuthi udinga ukuya esontweni uyomkhanyisela ikhandlela, ubuye umkhumbule nje. 

Ubaba encwadini yephupho ka-Arnold Mindell 

Ukubona ubaba ephusheni futhi ukhuluma naye kufanekisela injabulo ezokufica maduzane. Ubaba ogulayo ephusheni - ekucebeni. Ubaba onempilo futhi ogcwele amandla kuwuphawu lokuthi uzophumelela futhi ube nenhlanhla.

Ubaba ofa ephusheni kuwuphawu olubi olufanekisela uhlobo oluthile lweshwa. Uma i-godfather iphupha noma wenza indima yakhe, khona-ke iphupho elinjalo lisho izimo ezintsha zokuphila ezizoholela ekushintsheni okukhulu. Uma uphupha ukuthi usube ubaba, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle esibikezela umshado ojabulisayo. 

Isazi Sokuphawula

Amaphupho ekuphileni komuntu angaveza izinhlobo ezimbili eziqondile kakhulu. Okokuqala isifiso, okungukuthi, umuntu uphupha ngalokho akufunayo, kuhlanganise engazi. Ubaba angaba njengento edingekayo eduze, isibonelo, lapho umuntu elahlekelwa khona futhi efuna ukuba naye. Okwesibili yisimo se-archetypal lapho izenzo ezithile zenzeka khona. Lapha ubaba angenza njengenye yezithombe ezingenalutho, futhi incazelo yamaphupho anjalo kakade incike emininingwaneni ethile.

Imibuzo nezimpendulo ezidumile

Abahleli be-KP bacele ukuphendula imibuzo evame kakhulu yabafundi Oleg Dmitrievich Dolgitsky, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezokwelapha.