Okuqukethwe
Yini evimbela i-libido?
Ukushintsha kwamahomoni kungase kuthonye isifiso, kodwa kuxhomeke kakhulu emfundweni, izinkolelo, izithiyo, ulwazi ngomzimba womuntu, ukwesaba ukuphuphunyelwa yisisu noma ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi... Konke kuncike futhi ekuqondeni kombhangqwana ngaphambili, nokuthi bekuyini amandla ashukumisayo. izenzo zabo zocansi. Uma bekuyisifiso somntwana, uma ekhulelwe, kungase kwehle.
Ingabe ukwehla kwesifiso ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuhlelekile?
Cha. Ucwaningo luvame ukukhombisa ukwehla kwe-1st kanye ne-3rd trimester, kanye nokwanda kwesifiso ku-2nd trimester yokukhulelwa, kodwa abanye besifazane bangase babe nesifiso esincane noma, ngokuphambene, ngaphezulu.
Kungani i-libido ishintsha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
I-1st trimester, ukwehla kuvame ukubangelwa ububi bokukhulelwa (isicanucanu, ukuhlanza, ukukhathala, ukucasuka ...), kodwa futhi nokwesaba ukukhulelwa kwesisu. Ku-trimester yesibili, ukungakhululeki ngokomzimba kuyanyamalala. I-vulva igcotshwe kakhulu ngenxa yokunikezwa kwegazi okungcono futhi owesifazane uthola imizwa emnandi, kugcizelela u-Véronique Simonnot. Futhi ku-2rd trimester, isisu esikhulu singaphazamisa ukwenza uthando. Kukhona nokwesaba ukulimaza umntwana, ukuzala, nomuzwa "wokubhekwa" ngumntwana ongakazalwa.
Lokhu kuwisa kungathatha isikhathi esingakanani?
Uma ukuqonda ngokocansi kwakukuhle ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, isifiso singabuya ngokushesha. Kubuye kuncike kumlingani. Amanye amadoda ahlakulela i-madonna syndrome. Babona umlingani wabo njengomama wesikhathi esizayo wengane yabo futhi kancane njengesithandwa.
Singayivuselela kanjani i-libido?
Uchwepheshe uphakamisa ukuthatha isikhathi sokuziyenga futhi, njengasekuqaleni. Kusho futhi ukuzinakekela ukuze uziyenge, uqome, ube nesisa, uziphulule ... Ungagcina “uhambo olude” ukuze ugcine ilangabi liphila, nikhumbulane ngaphandle kokuya kude kakhulu . Siyabashintshashintsha abashayeli balesi sifiso: isifiso sokwethula imizwa yethu, ukuzijabulisa ...