Lapho ukuhlinzwa kokuhlinzwa kubuhlungu

Umthelela ongokwengqondo wesigaba sokuhlinzwa

“Ube nesikhathi esimnandi noCaesarean wakho?” Ngokuqala le ngxoxo kuFacebook, besingalindele ukuthola izimpendulo ezingaka. Ingxenye yokuhlinzwa iyindlela evamile kakhulu, cishe encane, yokuhlinzwa. Nokho, uma ufunda bonke lobu bufakazi, kubonakala sengathi lolu hlobo lokuzalwa lunethonya langempela ekuphileni komama. Ngaphezu kwemiphumela engokomzimba, isigaba sokuhlinzwa sivame ukushiya imiphumela engokwengqondo ngezinye izikhathi esindayo kowesifazane oye wahlupheka.

URachel: “Ngilule izingalo zami futhi ngiboshiwe, ngikhuluma amazinyo”

“Ukuzalwa kwami ​​kokuqala esithweni sangasese kwahamba kahle kakhulu, ngakho kwaba nokuthula ukuthi ngakwamukela ukusikwa kwami ​​lapho ngibeletha ingane yami yesibili. Kodwa akuhambanga njengoba bekuhleliwe. Ngosuku lwe-D, yonke into iba nzima kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuxoshwa. Udokotela uzama ukukhipha ingane esebenzisa inkomishi yokumunca, bese kuba ngama-forceps. Akukho okumele ukwenze. Uyangimemezela: “Ngeke ngikwazi, ngizokunikeza ukuhlinzwa”. Bayangithatha. Ngokwami, Nginombono wokuhlala endaweni ngaphandle komzimba wami, nokuthi ngikhishwe ngamagalelo amakhulu eklabhu. Izingalo zami zeluliwe futhi ziboshiwe, ngikhuluma amazinyo ami, ngicabanga ukuthi ngiphila iphupho elibi… Bese kuba nokuhlwithwa kwemisho: “siyashesha”; “Iyaphila ingane yakho”. Ngikhonjiswe isikhashana, kodwa angiboni, kimina, kusesiswini sami.

Kancane kancane ngiyaqonda ukuthi konke sekuphelile. Ngifike endlini yokululama, ngibona i-incubator, kodwa ngizizwa nginecala kangangokuthi angikwazi nokubheka ingane yami, angifuni ukuthi ingibone. Ngahlengezela izinyembezi. Kudlula imizuzu embalwa bese umyeni wami ethi kimi: “Mbheke, ubone ukuthi uzole kangakanani.” Ngiphendule ikhanda lami futhi ekugcineni ngibone le nto encane, inhliziyo yami ifudumala. Ngicela ukuyibeka ebeleni kanti le gesture iyasindisa : isixhumanisi sidalwa kabusha kancane kancane. Emzimbeni, ngalulama ngokushesha ngemva kokuhlinzwa, kodwa ngokwengqondo, ngisahlukumezekile. Ngemva kwezinyanga eziyishumi nesishiyagalombili, angikwazi ukukhuluma indaba yokuzalwa kwendodana yami ngaphandle kokukhala. Bengingathanda ukuba nengane yesithathu kodwa uvalo lokubeletha lukhulu kakhulu namuhla kangangokuthi angisakwazi nokucabanga esinye isisu. “

U-Emilie: “Bengingathanda ukuba umyeni wami abe nami”

“Nganginamadodakazi amabili ngokuhlinzwa: U-Liv ngo-January 2 no-Gaëlle ngo-July 2009. Enganeni yethu yokuqala, sasilandele amalungiselelo okubeletha nombelethisi okhululekile. Kwakumangalisa nje. Umntwana wayebukeka emuhle futhi lokhu kukhulelwa kwakufanelekile. Besicabanga nokumbelethela ekhaya. Ngeshwa (noma kunalokho ngokubheka emuva, ngenhlanhla), indodakazi yethu yaphenduka ezinyangeni ezingu-2013 zokukhulelwa ukuze yethule i-breech. Ngokushesha kakhulu kwahlelwa ukuhlinzwa. Ukudumala okukhulu. Ngolunye usuku, silungiselela ukubeletha umntwana ekhaya, ngaphandle kwe-epidural futhi ngakusasa, sikhethela usuku nesikhathi lapho ingane yakho izozalwa ... egunjini lokuhlinza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngahlupheka kakhulu ngokomzimba esikhathini sangemva kokuhlinzwa. U-Liv unesisindo esingu-4 kg ngo-52 cm. Kungenzeka ukuthi akazange abe ngokwemvelo, noma ngabe wayebheke phansi. KuGaëlle, owathembisa ukukhuluphala kangaka, ukuhlinzwa kwakuyindlela yokuzivikela. Ngaphinda ngaba nobuhlungu obukhulu. Ukuzisola kwami ​​okukhulu namuhla ukuthi umyeni wami akakwazanga ukuba khona nami ku-OR. “

ULydie: “Uyangihlola futhi, ngaphandle kokukhuluma nami, uthi:” siyamehlisa “…”

“Umsebenzi uyaqhubeka, ikhola yami ivuleke kancane. Bangibeka ku-epidural. Futhi kusukela kulo mzuzu lapho ngiba yisibukeli esilula sosuku oluhle kakhulu lwempilo yami. Umkhiqizo wokubanga ungenza ngiphakame kakhulu, angiqondi okuningi. Ngiyalinda, akukho ukuziphendukela kwemvelo. Cishe ngo-20:30 ntambama, umbelethisi wangitshela ukuthi kufanele bashayele udokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane ukuze ahlole ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle. Ufika ngo-20:45 pm, uyangihlola futhi ngaphandle kokukhuluma nami, uthi: “siyamehlisa”. Ngababelethisi abangichazelayo ukuthi kufanele ngihlinzwe ngokuhlinzwa, ukuthi sengiphelelwe amanzi isikhathi eside futhi asisakwazi ukulinda. Bayangishefa, bangifake umuthi wokubulala umgogodla, nakhu ngiyiswa emaphaseji. Umyeni wami uyangilandela, ngicela ahambe nami, ngitshelwe ukuthi cha. JNgiyesaba, angikaze ngiye endaweni yemidlalo yeshashalazi empilweni yami, angizimisele ngalokhu futhi akukho engingakwenza. Ngifika e-OR, ngifakwe, kukhulunywe amanesi kuphela. Udokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane ekugcineni usefikile. Ngaphandle kwezwi uqala ukungivulela isifuba futhi kungazelelwe, Ngizizwa nginesikhala esikhulu kimi. Bavele bakhipha ingane yami esibelethweni sami bengangitshelanga. Uvezwa kimi ngezingubo zokulala, angimboni, kodwa akakwazi ukuhlala. Ngiziduduze ngokuzitshela ukuthi usejoyine ubaba wakhe. Nginomona ngaye, uzohlangana naye phambi kwami. Namanje angikwazi ukuzibamba ngidumale uma ngicabanga ngokuzala kwami. Kungani ingasebenzi? Ukube angiyithathanga i-epidural, ngabe ngabe ngibelethile ngokujwayelekile? Akekho obonakala eyazi impendulo noma obonakala eqonda ukuthi lokhu kungithinta kangakanani.

U-Aurore: “Ngazizwa ngingcolile”

“Ngo-Okthoba 14, ngahlinzwa. Yahlelwa, ngangiyilungiselele, ekugcineni yilokho engangikucabanga. Ngangingazi ngempela ukuthi kuzokwenzekani, odokotela abasitsheli konke. Okokuqala, kukhona konke ukulungiswa ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa futhi lapho singumzimba, sinqunu ngokuphelele etafuleni. Odokotela benza izinto eziningi kithi bengasitsheli lutho. Ngazizwa ngingcolile. Kwathi ngisawezwa amakhaza ngakwesobunxele, bangivula ngabona ubuhlungu obukhulu. Ngamemeza ngibacela ukuthi bayeke ngangisezinhlungwini. Ngabe sengisala ngedwa kuleli gumbi lokululama lapho ngifuna ukuba nomlingani wami kanye nengane yami. Angikhulumi ngezinhlungu zangemuva kokuhlinzwa noma ukungakwazi ukunakekela ingane yakho. Konke kwangilimaza ngokwengqondo. “

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Ubufakazi balaba besifazane businika isithombe esihluke kakhulu sokuhlinzwa. Ingabe sivame ukubukela phansi umthelela ongokwengqondo walokhu kungenelela?

Yebo, kusobala. Namuhla sazi kahle izingozi ezingokomzimba zokuhlinzwa, ingozi engokwengqondo ngokuvamile ayinakwa. Ekuqaleni, omama bakhululeka ngokuthi ingane yabo izelwe nokuthi konke kuhamba kahle. I-backlash ivela kamuva, amasonto noma ngisho nezinyanga ngemva kokuzalwa. Abanye omama bazohlukumezeka ngenxa yesimo esiphuthumayo lapho ukuhlinzwa okwenzeke khona. Abanye banomuzwa wokuthi abazange ngempela bahlanganyele ekuzalweni kwengane yabo. “Abakwazanga” ukuzala ngasese, umzimba wabo awuzange unikeze. Kubo, kuwukuvuma ukwehluleka futhi bazizwa benecala. Okokugcina, kwabanye besifazane, iqiniso lokuhlukaniswa nabalingani babo ngalesi sikhathi esibucayi okubangela ukuhlupheka. Eqinisweni, konke kuncike kakhulu endleleni owesifazane acabanga ngayo ukubeletha, kanye nezimo lapho u-caesarean wenziwa khona. Umuzwa ngamunye uhlukile futhi uhloniphekile.  

Yiziphi izici esingazithatha ukuze sisize abantu besifazane?

Ukuhlinzwa kuzohlale kubuhlungu ngowesifazane owayefuna ngazo zonke izindlela ukubeletha ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Kodwa singazama ukunciphisa ukuhlukumezeka. Amalungiselelo angenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba izimo zokubeletha zibe ngumuntu kancane kancane futhi kukhuthaze ukusungulwa kwesibopho sikamama nobaba nengane, angenzeka.. Singenza isibonelo: ukuba khona kukababa egunjini lokuhlinzela (okuyinto ekude nenqubo), iqiniso lokungabophi izingalo zikamama, ukubeka umntwana isikhumba ngesikhumba naye noma noyise ngesikhathi sokuthunga. , iqiniso lokuthi umntwana angaba nabazali bakhe ekamelweni lokutakula ngesikhathi sokuqapha ngemuva kokuhlinzwa. Ngake ngahlangana nodokotela omkhulu owathi ukhulisa abantu besifazane ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa ngoba isibeletho sasishunqa nokwenze ukuthi umntwana alulame. Kumama, lokhu kunyakaza okulula kungashintsha yonke into. Uzizwa engumlingisi futhi kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe.

Indlela yokuqinisekisa omama besikhathi esizayo?

Akubona bonke abesifazane abahlinza kabi. Kwabanye, konke kuhamba kahle ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Kimina kubonakala sengathi okubaluleke kakhulu ukutshela omama bakusasa ukuthi akumele nje baziswe ngokuhlinzwa, okuyisenzo sokuhlinzwa esinzima, kodwa futhi nangemithetho elandelwayo eyenziwa esibhedlela sokubeletha lapho behlele khona. . beletha. Singacabanga ukuya kwenye indawo uma imikhuba ethile ingasiphathi kahle.

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