Okuqukethwe
Ngeshwa, amafilimu amaningi, izithombe zocansi, nezindatshana kudala imibono engalungile mayelana nokuthi ukusondelana kokuqala kwenzeka kanjani ngempela. Ngenxa yalokhu, abafana namantombazane baba nokulindela okungamanga nokwesaba okubavimbela ukuba baqale impilo yocansi noma ukwazisa ngokwanele isikhathi sabo sokuqala. Yini okudingeka uyazi ngakho? Isazi socansi sithi.
Isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi sidlala indima enkulu ekubumbeni imibono yethu mayelana nocansi. Uma kuhlolwa futhi kubonwa ngumuntu kabi kakhulu, khona-ke lokhu kungadala izithiyo ekwakheni ubudlelwano empilweni yonke.
Isibonelo, enye yezinkinga ezivame kakhulu emadodeni, i-syndrome yokukhathazeka ngokobulili, ngokuvamile ivela ochungechungeni lwe-"fiascos" phakathi nemizamo yokuqala yokulala ngokocansi. Lezi "zehluleki" zibonwa insizwa ikakhulukazi kabuhlungu uma umlingani enikeza ukusabela okunganele ngendlela yokuhlekwa usulu noma inhlamba.
Ngemva kwalokho, le nsizwa iqala ukuzwa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka ngaphambi kocansi ngalunye olulandelayo, iqala ukwesaba "ukuhluleka ukuphila ngokuvumelana nalokho okulindelekile", "ukuhluleka ukubhekana nakho futhi". Ekugcineni, uchungechunge olunjalo lwezimo lungaholela ekugwemeni okuphelele kokusondelana nabesifazane.
Futhi amantombazane, iningi lawo eliya ocansini ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa insizwa, angase alahlekelwe ukuzethemba emadodeni. Phela, ukuvumelana nobulili bokuqala ngaphansi kwethonya lokukhwabanisa, futhi hhayi ngokuzithandela kwakhe, angase azizwe "esetshenziswa". Ikakhulukazi uma kamuva umfana engafuni ukuqhubeka nobuhlobo naye.
Ngakho-ke, ubulili bokuqala kufanele busondele ngokunakwa okukhethekile. Ngaphandle kokulindela okungamanga nokwesaba okukude.
Yini okufanele ukwazi ngaphambi kokuya ocansini?
"I-pancake yokuqala inezigaxa"
Abantu abaningi, bekhumbula ubulili babo bokuqala, bayaqaphela ukuthi kwakukude kakhulu nokuhle. Isikhathi sokuqala siphelele cishe akekho. Lesi yisikhathi sokuhlangenwe nakho, ukuzihlola wena nomzimba wakho ekusebenzelaneni kocansi nomunye umuntu. Kufika ukuqonda ukuthi ubulili empilweni buhluke kakhulu ku-porn. Ngempela, kumafilimu ngeke abonise izenzakalo, okuhlangenwe nakho, izinkinga, kodwa empilweni zenzeka kaningi, ngisho naphakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane abadala abanolwazi.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, ungazihluleli ngokhahlo. Kungokokuqala ngqa.
Ukukhathazeka kuyinto evamile
Impela wonke umuntu, oya ocansini okokuqala, uzizwa engakhululekile. Yiqiniso, ngenxa yokuthi kukhona ukwesaba okuningi ngaphakathi: ukungaphili ngokuvumelana nokulindelwe, ukubukeka kungenangqondo, ukudumaza umlingani. Kudingeka uqonde futhi wamukele ukuthi amahloni, ukungazethembi, injabulo eqinile kanye nokunyakaza ngaphandle kwendawo kuyinto evamile. Awuwedwa kulokhu.
Ukulungela ngokwengqondo
Akufanele ulwele ubulili bokuqala ngenxa nje yokuba. Sondela kule nqubo ngokuqaphela futhi ukwenze kuphela lapho uzizwa ulungile. Futhi hhayi ngoba umlingani / indawo yakho igcizelela le nqubo noma iyakhohlisa. Khumbula ukuthi naphezu kwenqubo, unelungelo lokuthi cha. Imisho esesigabeni ethi “uma ungavumelani, konke sekuphelile” noma “Ngizocasuka” cishe ngeke ikhulume ngothando.
Ucansi alukona nje ukungena
Uma umgomo uwukuthola injabulo, okuyinto abantu abaningi abayilindele ocansini, akufanele ukhawule ngokushesha eyodwa kuphela yezinhlobo zayo - ubulili ngokungena. Okokuqala, ungasebenzisa ezinye izindlela zokuthintana zocansi - ukuphulula, ucansi lomlomo, ukushaya indlwabu. Zingaba mnandi kakhulu kunocansi lwakudala, futhi maningi amathuba okuba ube ne-orgasm.
Ukuphepha kuqala
Ukuze wenze ucansi, okuhlanganisa ngomlomo, udinga kuphela ngekhondomu. Ucansi ngaphandle kwekhondomu kwandisa ingozi yokuthola izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi - izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ngama-98%. Ezinye izifo zingadluliselwa ngocansi lomlomo.
Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ezinye izifo, ezifana ne-syphilis ne-chlamydia, azizenzi nhlobo emasontweni okuqala, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izinyanga, njengoba zingenazo izimpawu. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthenga amakhondomu futhi uhlale unawo, ngisho noma uphathina ethembise ukuzithengela yena. Cabanga kuqala ngokuphepha kwakho.
Futhi akufanele uwele nganoma yimaphi amaqhinga ukuthi "akukhululekile", "akudingekile", "ama-wimps", "anginazo izifo".
inhlanzeko
Emini, inani elikhulu lamabhaktheriya liqoqa endaweni yangasese, okuthi, lapho lingena kulwelwesi lwamafinyila, libangele ukuthuthukiswa kwama-pathologies ahlukahlukene. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugeza ngaphambi nangemva kocansi. Ukuhlanzeka komzimba wakho akusona nje isidingo, kodwa futhi kuwuphawu lokuzihlonipha wena nomlingani wakho. Ungasho nokuthi kuthinta izinga lobumnandi obutholiwe. Phela, bambalwa abantu abazokujabulela ukuqabula umzimba ojulukayo, ingasaphathwa eye-caress esondelene kakhulu.
Uma lingekho ithuba lokugeza, kufanele okungenani ugeze noma usule izitho zangasese zangaphandle ngendwangu emanzi.
Ukukhetha uzakwethu
Ubulili akuyona nje isenzo somzimba, kodwa futhi nengqondo. Ngakho-ke, kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuhlanganyela kuzo lapho kunemizwa nemizwelo yomlingani. Ngokwemiphumela yocwaningo oluningi, ucansi lokuqala oluzenzakalelayo nophathina olungahleliwe alethanga neze intokozo kunoma ubani. Kubalulekile ukuthi ubuhlobo bobulili bukhule kancane kancane. Ngakho-ke i-psyche izoba lula ukuzivumelanisa nezimo futhi ibone isipiliyoni esisha.
ukukhulelwa
Ukukhulelwa kungenzeka kuphela lapho isidoda singena esithweni sangasese. Lokhu kungenzeka ngokuqondile ngokungena kwepipi neminwe uma kunesidoda kukho, noma ngokuthintana eduze kwepipi elimile eduze kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Kubuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi i-spermatozoa ingaqukethwe emfihlakalweni ekhishwa emadodeni ngesikhathi sokudlala. Futhi nakuba amathuba okukhulelwa lapho isidoda singena eminweni futhi sihlikihlwa ngomthondo emancane kakhulu, asekhona.
Kodwa ngokuthinta nje izitho zangasese, ukuphulula izingubo, ukuphulula, ubulili bomlomo, kanye nokuthola isidoda esiswini, akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa!
Yini ebalulekile ukuthi umfana nentombazane bazane ngomunye nomunye
Kuye ngaye:
Guy can cum fast kakhulu Ingokoqobo emizuzwini embalwa noma ngisho nangaphambi kokuqala kocansi. Lokhu kuhle. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Kusukela ekujabuleni okwedlulele, ukwesaba, ukudideka nokucindezeleka, nangenxa yemizwa enamandla kakhulu.
Angase angavuki. Noma kwalasha wokumiswa Ungacabangi ukuthi unamandla. Izinkinga zokuqhanyelwa ngaphambi noma phakathi nocansi nazo zivame ukuvela ekujabuleleni nasekwesabeni “ukungathandwa”, “ukwenza iphutha”.
"Mncane" — imvamisa amantombazane anaka ubukhulu benduku yomlingani wawo futhi adumale ngokuthi ayinkulu ngokwanele. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ucasuke, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi ubude obujwayelekile bepipi bungamasentimitha angu-9 ngendlela evamile kanye namasentimitha angu-13 esimweni esiqondile. Iningi labameleli bobulili obunamandla efomini elimile linobukhulu obungamasentimitha ayi-13-15.
Ngaye ngaye:
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi intombazane ivuleke kahle - uma ufuna ukuthi athole umuzwa omnandi futhi ethanda ucansi, qaphela ngokukhethekile i-foreplay. Isigaba sokuqala singokwengqondo, okudingekayo ukuze kubonakale isifiso sokusondelana ngokocansi. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ngaphansi kwethonya evusa inkanuko (kuthintwa, izincomo, caress phezulu) owesilisa.
Isigaba sesibili sibizwa nge-forspiel (i-Vorspiel yesiJalimane) — i-foreplay. Phakathi naso, ngenxa yokugqugquzelwa ngokobulili, kuba nokugeleza kwegazi ezindongeni zangasese, okuholela ekunyakazeni kwayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukunakekelwa kokuqala kwemizuzu engu-15-20 kuzosiza ukugwema ubuhlungu futhi ujabulele. Akulula kangako ukuthi abesifazane bathole i-orgasm, ngaphezu kwalokho, njengomthetho, abayitholi nhlobo ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini kokuqala. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi noma ubani kini unecala.
Ukwaliwa akusho ukuthi intombazane ayifuni nhlobo ukusondelana nawe. Kungenzeka ukuthi akakakulungeli. Zama ukusibona ngokwanele isinqumo sakhe futhi ulinde isikhathi. Mcele ukuthi akwazise uma eselungele ukudlulela ezingeni elilandelayo lokusondelana.
“Wathi uyintombi nto, kodwa lalingekho igazi ngesikhathi socansi!” - asikho isidingo sokusola intombazane ngokuqamba amanga. Lelo gazi liwuphawu lobuntombi kuyinsumansumane endala. Eqinisweni, ezimweni eziningi, ubulili bokuqala abuholeli ekubukeni kwegazi: konke kuncike ekutheni i-hymen yentombazane yakhiwe kanjani nokuthi ukhululekile futhi ulungiselele kanjani umlingani.