Wonke umuntu obefanele ukuhamba nezingane ujwayelene nomama abanjalo. Kubukeka sengathi abanandaba nokuthi ingane yabo yenzani ebaleni lokudlala. Noma abasoli ngisho nokuthi isiza akusona esabo kuphela. Ngokuvamile, laba omama aba…
1.… Khululeka futhi uxoxe nentombi
Kepha isimo ebaleni lokudlala eligcwele izingane singashintsha noma nini. Futhi kuyashintsha. Kepha ngasizathu simbe laba omama bagxile komunye nomunye baze bakhohlwe ngokuphelele ngabantwana babo. Noma bacabanga ukuthi bangakwazi ukuzinakekela. Ngenxa yalokhu, izigelekeqe ezincane zicindezela abanye zisuse ujingi, ziphonsa isihlabathi, kepha omama abanendaba. Khona-ke umama, onengane eyayikhubekile, uxazulula inkinga ngendlela yakhe, futhi ngokuvamile kuqala ihlazo. Ngaphansi kwesiqubulo esithi "ingane yami ikhubekile."
2.… Bakhuphuka ngokweqile ukuze baxoxe
Lapha, kunjalo, umama angaqondakala. Umbuthano wakhe wenhlalo ukhawulelwe kakhulu. Yingakho kulinga kakhulu ukusebenzisa izindlebe zamahhala ukubonisa ingane. Akufanele ukunikeza ukukhishwa okunzima lapha. Akudingeki ukuthi ube inkulumo encane, kepha futhi awukwazi ukungabi nhlonipho. Kulungile uma ungafuni ukukhuluma nanoma ngubani, kepha uzobonakala udelela uma ungaphenduli nokubingelela. Yisho okuthile, umomotheke bese unaka izingane zakho. Okungcono, ungaphazanyiswa kubo nhlobo. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi othile afune ukukugijimela ngenkathi wena uqobo ulandela ingane. Kuyisidina kakhulu.
3.… Thatha izilwane ezifuywayo uhambe nazo
Musa ukuletha izinja kusayithi. Icashazi. Cha, umdlwane wakho obaluleke kakhulu awukho ngaphandle kwalo mthetho. Imithetho yasungulwa ngesizathu, kepha ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwezingane, … Kodwa-ke kukhona omama ababengenandaba nokuphepha kwezingane zabo. Kwanele ukukhumbula icala laseSt. Petersburg, lapho umama enenja wakhahlela ingane yomunye umuntu esifubeni ukuze umfana andize ngamamitha ambalwa. Umama wabe esenikwa isikhathi sangempela.
4.… Ama-swings nama-merry-go-rounds ahlala amahora
Ulinda ngokubekezela ukuthi ingane igingqike. Kudlula imizuzu eyishumi. Ishumi nanhlanu. Amashumi amabili. Ingane yakho iqala ukudonsa imikhono yakho ibubule “futhi nini isikhathi sethu.” Ungalokothi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ingane yalo mama iyinkaba yomhlaba, isikhungo somhlaba, nabo bonke abanye abayilutho ngaphandle kokungaqondi. Imvamisa kuphela ngehlazo futhi. Okwenziwa lapho ucelwa ukuthi ukhulule i-swing, ngoba ezinye izingane nazo zifuna ukugibela, omama abanjalo bavame ukusabela ngokubukeka okungenalutho ngawe.
5.… ubambeke ocingweni
Vele, noma yimuphi umzali angahlola ifoni yakhe noma afunde incwadi esizeni. Wonke umuntu udinga izikhathi zokuphumula, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngezingane ezincane. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akusho ukuthi unganqamula ngokuphelele emhlabeni wangaphandle. Futhi yebo, unelungelo lokufaka isikhalazo kumzali onganaki uma ingane yakhe ivala ibhola lakho kungazelelwe. Kuyiqiniso, lokhu kuzophela ngokuhlazeka futhi. Izinsolo zokuthi abazinakekeli izingane zabo ngokuvamile azivunywa abesifazane abanjalo.