Ngamaholide kaNcibijane, siphinde sizizwe sinjengabantwana. Futhi lokho kuhle. Kodwa, ngokungafani nezingane, kumagazini owodwa kaNcibijane kungcono ukugcina isikhundla somuntu omdala: kuhle kakhulu ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo futhi uzenzele iholide wena nabanye. Phela, sivame ukuzwa futhi sisho le nkulumo ngokwethu: "Awukho nhlobo umoya kaNcibijane." Silungele ukuvumela noma yini nanoma ubani ukuthi athathe iholide lethu kude nathi - ukuntuleka kweqhwa, izinkinga, abanye abantu. Masifunde ukwenza ngendlela ehlukile: lungiselela kusengaphambili, zinike wena kanye nabathandekayo bakho isimo sengqondo soNyaka Omusha, tshala amandla akho namandla akho eholidini. Phela, uNyaka Omusha awulona nje iholide, uwukuqalwa kwenhlalakahle yezinyanga ezingu-12 ezizayo, futhi kungcono ukusondela emhlanganweni wawo ngokuqaphela. Ngakho, nazi izinyathelo zokulungiselela.
Isiteji sokuhlanza
Disemba 3rd saba nenyanga egcwele futhi manje inyanga isinyamalala. Futhi lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuthatha isitoko, ugcwalise izinto futhi ulahle konke okungadingekile nokungadingeki. Lokhu kuhambisana kakhulu nenyanga yokugcina onyakeni kanye nokuzilungiselela kwethu, ngoba uma sifuna okusha, kumele sikhiphe endala. Empeleni, ukuhlanza kungenziwa ngale ndlela elandelayo:
- Yenza uhlu lwebhizinisi elingaqediwe. Futhi siyaliqedela, noma senqaba icala bese silikhipha ohlwini.
– Silahla izinto ezingadingekile. Sishiya kuphela lokho inhliziyo esabela kukho. Lesi isiqalo esihle - ukugubha uNyaka Omusha sizungezwe izinto ozithandayo kuphela. Ukwenza lesi sinyathelo, sizohlanza indlu ngesikhathi esifanayo. Izinto ezengeziwe zinganikezwa futhi kuyoba injabulo kaNcibijane kumuntu.
- Sibhala uhlu lwalezo zifundazwe, izimfanelo zomlingiswa nezinkinga esingafuni ukuzithatha ngoNyaka Omusha. Ungawushisa.
- Uma sifuna ukunciphisa umzimba ngeholide, manje yisikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokukwenza. Ngokuqala i-detox noma ukuya ekudleni ngesikhathi senyanga ekhulayo, sizofinyelela umphumela omkhulu.
- Kulesi sigaba, kubalulekile ukuthatha isitoko. Esimeni esizolile, khumbula ukuthi u-2017 usilethele ini, esikuzuzile, yiziphi izifundo esizifundile. Zikhumbule ekuqaleni konyaka bese uqhathanisa nobuwena obukhona manje. Ingabe wenelisekile ngendlela oyithathile? Ingabe ukwazile ukuba ngcono?
- Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukususa okubi, kodwa futhi ukubonga ngakho konke okuhle. Bhala uhlu lokubonga endaweni yonke, kubantu, kuwena. Kuhle uma ufuna ukubonga abantu mathupha.
Lesi sigaba sibalulekile ukuthi siqhutshwe futhi siqedwe ngaphambi kukaDisemba 18. Futhi uchithe usuku lwenyanga entsha ngokuthula nangokuzola.
Ukugcwalisa isigaba
Inyanga iqala ukuphakama. Лisikhathi esihle sokwenza isifiso, hlela iholide kanye nonyaka wonke, wenze umnikelo wamandla ekugcwalisekeni kwezinhlelo zakho nezifiso zakho. Ukuqaliswa kwalesi sigaba kungaba kanje:
- Kakade ngoDisemba 19, kungaba kuhle ukwenza uhlu lwezifiso (okungcono okungenani ikhulu), kanye nohlelo lonyaka olunezinyathelo ezithile zokuqedela. Ungakwazi futhi ukubhala uhlelo lweminyaka emihlanu neyishumi.
Lezi zinsuku isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuhlela iholide. Bhala ngokuningiliziwe kusihlwa ngomhlaka-31 nokuthi yini okudingeka ilungiselelwe yona. Cabanga ukuthi liyini iholide elihle kuwe futhi ucabange ukuthi ungalenza liphile kanjani.
Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu engenziwa kulesi sigaba ukudala isisekelo samandla senjabulo yesikhathi esizayo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ugcwalise inhliziyo yakho ngokulindela iholide nesimangaliso:
Sakha indawo yemikhosi. Njalo ngonyaka sihlobisa ifulethi lethu. Kodwa kuthiwani ngokuhlobisa indlela yokungena? Futhi naka ifulethi lomakhelwane ngamunye: xhoma ibhola kwinsimbi ngayinye noma isitikha sikaKhisimusi emnyango ngamunye. Kungcono ukwenza lokhu ebusuku ukuze abantu bangaqondi ukuthi ngubani iqhawe labo.
– Siyasiza. Manje kunamathuba amaningi okudala iholide kulabo abayidinga ngempela: izingane, asebekhulile, abantu abanesizungu.
– Ukuthumela izincwadi. Ungathumela izincwadi zangempela zephepha ezinamakhadi eposi kubo bonke obathandayo.
- Ukuhambahamba edolobheni ngalesi sikhathi somlingo - fisela abadlula ngendlela konke okuhle. Kungenzeka ngokwengqondo, kodwa kungcono, kunjalo, ngokuzwakalayo. Zinike isikhathi sokuthandaza noma ufisele injabulo kubo bonke abantu obaziyo.
Ngokuzayo sizokhuluma kabanzi ngeholide ngokwayo - indlela yokuhlela nokusebenzisa uNyaka Omusha ukuze ube ngempela ukuqala kokuphila kwakho kwephupho.
Ukupheka okujabulisayo! Isimo esihle, esikhuthazayo namandla okudala isimangaliso sakho nabanye!