“Angizange ngiyithole indawo yami!”
“Lapho indodakazi yethu izalwa, uCéline wayazi yonke into kangcono kunami: ukunakekela, ukugeza… ngangenza KONKE okungalungile! Ubekwi-hypercontrol. Ngangivalelwe ezitsheni, ngiyothenga. Ngobunye ubusuku, ngemva konyaka, angizange ngiyipheke imifino “efanele” futhi ngaphinde ngathethiswa. Ngaxoxa ngayo noCeline, ngamtshela ukuthi angiyitholi indawo yami njengobaba. Kwadingeka adedele kancane. U-Céline usezuzile, ekugcineni! Khona-ke wayeqaphe kakhulu, futhi kancane kancane ngakwazi ukuziphoqa. Okwesibili, umfana omncane, ngangizethemba kakhulu. ”
UBruno, ubaba wezingane ezi-2
“Kuwuhlobo lokuhlanya.”
“Ekuhlanganisweni kukamama nengane, ngiyavuma ukuthi ngakubona ngeso elididekile. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngamangala, ngingasamazi umkami. Wayemunye nengane yethu. Kwakubonakala kuwukusangana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngikuthola kuwubuqhawe obukhulu. Ncelisa ibele lapho kudingekile, ngizalelwe ukubeletha, noma ngivuke izikhathi eziyishumi ebusuku ngincelise ibele ... Lokhu kuhlanganiswa bekungifanela kahle: noma ngabe ngingowokwabelana ngemisebenzi, angikholwa ukuthi bengizokwazi ukwenza ushintsho. into ayenzela ingane yethu! ”
Richard, ubaba wengane
Umbhangqwana wethu ulinganisela.
“Kusukela ekuzalweni, kunjalo, kunohlobo oluthile lokuhlangana. Kodwa ngizizwa ngisendaweni yami, ngihilelekile kusukela ekukhulelweni. Umlingani wami usabela “ngokuzenzakalelayo”, ulalela indodakazi yethu enezinyanga ezi-2. Ngiyawubona umehluko: Amehlo ka-Ysé asabela ngokuqinile ekufikeni kukanina! Kodwa nami wenza ezinye izinto: Ngiyageza, ngiyamgqokisa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi uyalala ngokumelene nami. Umbhangqwana wethu ulinganisela kahle: umlingani wami wangishiya ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze anakekele indodakazi yethu. ”
Laurent, ubaba wengane
Umbono wochwepheshe
“Ngemuva kokubeletha kuba nesilingo sokuthi umama ahlale ‘munye’ nengane.Kulobu bufakazi obuthathu, omunye wobaba uvusa “ubuhlanya” bomkakhe. Kunjalo. Lobu budlelwano bokuhlangana buzenzekela, buthakaselwa ukukhulelwa nokunakekelwa kwezinsana. Kudingeka simnakekele. Umama angakholelwa ukuthi nguye yedwa ongakwazi futhi kufanele ayenzele yonke into ingane yakhe. Lo mandla onke akumele kusungulwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kwabanye besifazane, kunzima kakhulu ukusuka kokukodwa kuya kokubili. Indima kababa wukusebenza njengengxenye yesithathu, nokunakekela umama ukuze amsize abe ngowesifazane futhi. Kodwa ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane kumelwe avume ukumnika indawo. Uyena owamukela ukuthi akasiyo yonke into yengane yakhe. Akukhona nje ukuthi uBruno akanandawo, kodwa akafanelekile. Uhlushwa yikho. U-Richard ngokwakhe uqinisekise ngokugcwele lokhu kuhlanganiswa. Uzenza i-hedonist, futhi lokho kumfanela kahle! Qaphela ukuthi yini engase yenzeke lapho ingane isikhulile! Futhi uLaurent usendaweni efanele. Ungowesithathu ngaphandle kokuba ngumama kabili; alethe okunye enganeni nomkakhe. Kungumehluko wangempela. ”
UPhilippe Duverger Uthisha wengqondo yezingane, Inhloko yoMnyango Wezengqondo Yezingane kanye
wentsha e-University Hospital of Angers, uprofesa wasenyuvesi.