Lezi zingane ezinqaba ukuya endlini encane esikoleni

Isikole: lapho uya endlini yangasese kuba ukuhlushwa izingane

UDkt Averous: Indaba namanje ayisavumi. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi abafundi abaningi abayisebenzisi ngokwanele indlu yangasese phakathi nosuku. Ngokuvamile kuhileleke ekuntulekeni kwemfihlo noma kwenhlanzeko ezindaweni ezithile zesikole. Kukhona nalabo abathanda ukudlala egcekeni, bakhohlwe ukuya endlini yangasese ngesikhathi sekhefu. Ngokusho kukaDkt Michel Averous, udokotela womchamo wezingane kanye nochwepheshe mayelana nalolu daba, lokhu kuyinkinga yangempela yezempilo yomphakathi, ethinta izingane eziningi.

Singachaza kanjani ukuthi ezinye izingane azithandi ukuya endlini yangasese esikoleni?

UDkt Averous: Kunezizathu eziningana. Okokuqala nje, ukuntula ubumfihlo, ikakhulukazi enkulisa. Kwesinye isikhathi iminyango ayivaleki. Lapho izindlu zangasese zixutshwe, ngezinye izikhathi abafana bacasula amantombazane, noma ngokuphambene nalokho. Ezinye izingane azikwamukeli lokhu kungabi nazimfihlo, ikakhulukazi uma sezijwayele ukuvala umnyango ekhaya. Abanye bathi: “basebancane”. Kodwa, eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala, izingane zingaba nesizotha kakhulu.

Kuphinde kube nenkinga yokuthi amathayimithebula esikole, ngisho noma abantu abadala ngokuvamile bevumela kakhulu enkulisa. Izingane ziphoqeleka ukuthi ziye endlini yangasese ku izikhathi eziqondile, ngesikhathi sekhefu. Futhi ukushintshela ku-CP kungaba nzima. Abanye abafundi bancamela ukudlala, ukuxoxa futhi bazibambe ngemuva kwalokho. Abanye abakafuni ukuhamba njengamanje, kodwa lapho sebefuna ukuhamba, sekudlule isikhathi! Kweminye imizi namanje amathoyilethi akude negumbi lokufundela, noma awashisi, okungaba mnandi ezinganeni ebusika.

Kwesinye isikhathi kuba nenkinga yenhlanzeko...

UDkt Averous: Yebo, kuyiqiniso. Izindlu zangasese ngezinye izikhathi zingcola kakhulu, futhi abanye abazali batshela ingane yabo ikakhulukazi ukuthi ingabeki izinqe esihlalweni. Ngisebenza ne-laboratory yaseQuotygiène eyenza amakhava ezihlalo angafakwa emaphaketheni ezingane. Lokhu kungaba yisixazululo.

Ingabe iyasebenza ngempela? Abukho yini ubungozi obukhulu bokuthola izifo ezinjengalezi?

UDkt Averous: Kuwukuziqinisekisa ukuthi siyakusho lokho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngiyavuma, ingane akufanele ihlale ethoyilethi elingcolile. Kodwa, ukuthi umuntu uhlale phansi phambi kwethu akusho ukuthi sizongenwa izifo. Futhi-ke, ngiyagcizelela, kubalulekile ukuhlala kahle ukuze uchame. Ngenkathi bemi phakathi nendawo, amantombazane nabesifazane baphoqeleka ukuthi baphushe futhi i-perineal floor yabo iyancishiswa. Ngokuphoqelela, achama izikhathi eziningana futhi awahlali ekhipha isinye ngendlela efanele. Kungumnyango ovuleleke ezifweni.

Ngokuqondile, yiziphi izinkinga ezingase ziphakame kulezi zingane ezizibamba njalo?

UDkt Averous: Okokuqala, lapho izingane zizibamba, umchamo wazo uzoba nephunga elinamandla. Kodwa, ngaphezu kwakho konke, lo mkhuba omubi ungaholela ezifweni ze-urinary tract, ngisho nokuphazamiseka kokugaya ukudla kusukela kokubili ama-sphincters ahamba ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-perineal synergy phakathi kwe-urinary sphincter kanye ne-anus. Lokhu kubangela ukunqwabelana kwezinto kukholoni. Izingane zibe seziphathwa isisu, ukuqunjelwa noma isifo sohudo. Kufanele futhi kwengezwe ukuthi amantombazane amancane asengozini kakhulu kunabafana.

Kungani kunjalo ?

UDkt Averous: Impela ngoba i-anatomically, i-urethra ifushane kakhulu. Intombazane encane kuyodingeka incinde kakhulu kunomfanyana ukuze igweme ukuvuza, futhi ichamele kuyo. Izimpahla zokugqoka nazo zinendima ethile. Ebusika, abazali bafaka ama-tight ezinganeni, namabhulukwe ngaphezulu. Njengoba ngibonile ngokubonisana, izingane aziwehlisi njalo amabhulukwe azo ngaphansi kwedolo. Futhi uma kuziwa entombazaneni encane, ayikwazi ukunweba imilenze yayo njengoba kufanele. Akakhululekile ukuchama ngendlela efanele.

Ingabe izingane eziningi ozilandelayo ngokubonisana zihlangabezana nalolu hlobo lwenkinga esikoleni?

UDkt Averous: Nakanjani. Kuvame kakhulu. Futhi kufanele wazi ukuthi lokhu kuphazamiseka kwasemini (izifo zomgudu womchamo, ukuqaqamba kwesisu, njll.) nakho kungaholela ekomeleni kombhede lapho ingane ingalali ngokwanele. Kodwa-ke, ukuthi ingane imanzisa umbhede akusho ukuthi akayi endlini yokugezela ngokwanele emini. Kodwa, uma lezi zinkinga zihlobene, abazali ngeke bakwazi ukuxazulula inkinga yokuchama ebusuku kuze kube yilapho izinkinga zasemini zelashwa.

Ingabe abazali kufanele baqaphe kakhudlwana futhi baqinisekise ukuthi ingane yabo iya endlini yangasese njalo?

UDkt Averous: Lapho abazali bebona inkinga, ngokuvamile kusuke sekwephuze kakhulu. Eqinisweni, kufanele ufundise wonke umuntu kusukela ekuqaleni. Tshela izingane ukuthi zichame njalo usuku lonke, ngesikhathi sekhefu, ziyafuna noma ziyafuna! Nakuba, lapho ingane isikhulile, lapho ilawula ama-sphincters ayo, ayikwazi ukuhamba amahora amathathu ingasikhiphile esinyeni. Kuhle futhi ukubatshela ukuthi baphuze ingilazi yamanzi ngemva kokusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Ngokuphuza, ukhipha njalo esinyeni sakho futhi unciphisa ingozi yezinkinga. Futhi akukho ukuchama okumile kumantombazane amancane!

Futhi ngasohlangothini lochwepheshe kanye nomasipala abaphethe izikhungo?

UDkt Averous: Kufanele siqale sifinyelele kodokotela nothisha besikole. Futhi ikakhulukazi ukuxazulula le nkinga yokubambisana ezindlini zangasese ngokuhlukanisa amantombazane nabafana. Kuxoxwa kabanzi ngale ndaba, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula imikhuba emihle. Ngiyayibona inqubekelaphambili, ikakhulukazi ezinkulisa. Banolwazi oluthe xaxa kepha inqubekelaphambili kusamele yenziwe…