“Akunakwenzeka”, okwesibili kunzima ukukukhomba: “Ungumoya okhululekile womndeni noma okungenzeka ukuthi acasule izingane zakubo. Lapho izingane ezintathu zibukele i-TV buthule, uma kungazelelwe uzwa ukuklabalasa, ungabheja ukuthi encane ize izophazamisa ukuthula! “ kuphawula uMichael Grose. Kungani ? Ngoba owesibili ufuna indawo yakhe phakathi komdala - ikakhulukazi uma behlukene ngeminyaka emibili - angayamukeli imiyalo, kanye nomncane "aphindisela kuye"!
Uma isisondele ngokweminyaka kuneyokuqala kunelandelayo, eyesibili ilandela ezinyathelweni zomdala wayo. “Uma eyokuqala ithembekile futhi ibalulekile, eyesibili isengozini yokuba ingane eyinkinga” kuphawula uMichael Grose.
Lapho abadala nabancane besondelana ngokweminyaka, kulapho ubudlelwano babo buyaxaka kakhulu - buphawulwa yizikhathi zokuncintisana okuqinile nokubambisana - ikakhulukazi uma bebobulili obufanayo, kucabangela u-Françoise Peille *, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. |
Ingane "Ezivumelanisa nezimo".
Ngokuvamile, owesibili ufunda ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kusenesikhathi. Baby, ukhuliswa esigqini sempilo yomuntu omdala: ukudla kwakhe, uhambo lwakhe lokuya esikoleni njll. Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo, kamuva kwamenza wavumelana nezimo kunomdala wakhe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba azi ukuthi akakwazi ukukhanga umfowabo omdala ukuze afeze izinjongo zakhe, uyaxoxisana ukuze enze ukuvumelana. Okumnika idumela lokuba ngusomaqhinga omuhle!
* Umbhali Wabafowethu Nodadewethu, wonke umuntu ufuna indawo yakhe (Umhl. Hachette Pratique)