Umbhali wezinguquko zolimi wayengeyena isazi sefilosofi noma isazi-mlando, kodwa isekela. Ngayiphi incwadi - zinqumele wena.

Ngisakhumbula ukushaqeka kwami ​​lapho ngizwa umyeni wami engangizoba naye ebiza ugogo wakhe ngokuthi “wena”.

“Sawubona, Baba Lena,” – sekudlule iminyaka eyishumi, kodwa uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, ngisakhathazekile ngakho.

“Nathi, nathi, sakhuluma nogogo kuphela ngokuthi ‘wena’,” umngane wami uyahlehla ngomoya ophansi lapho ngimtshela ngokumangala kwami. – Futhi umama nomamncane kugogo wabo, futhi. Umkhulu wayecabanga ukuthi kulungile. Izingane kufanele zijwayele ukuhlonipha unina. “

Kulungile, ake sithi lezi izici zomndeni ngamunye. Yebo, maningi, nakuba kunzima kimi ukucabanga ukuthi ngizokhuluma kanjani nogogo ngendlela engathathi hlangothi futhi enesizotha. Kimina, “wena” kusewuphawu lwebanga phakathi kwabantu. Futhi lingakanani ibanga phakathi kwamalungu omndeni?

Umzuzu womlando: ukubhekisela kokuthi "wena" kubazali kwethulwa nguPeter I, elingisa amaDashi. Lokhu kwakubhekwa njengokubonakaliswa kwenhlonipho, inhlonipho ngesizukulwane esidala. Inhliziyo? Umphefumulo? Futhi esihogweni nabo, hhayi lezo zikhathi manje.

Manje-ke, konke kuqotho kakhulu, kodwa, njengoba kubonakala kusekela le-State Duma uVladimir Sysoev, inhlonipho encane kakhulu. Ilungu lephalamende likholelwa ukuthi ukuhlonipha abazali kungabuyiselwa kuphela ngokushintsha imithetho yolimi lwesiRashiya. Zilethe zihambisane nemithetho yenkulumo yangaphambi kwenguquko.

"Wayehlukaniswa ngemithetho eqinile futhi enohlelo lwakhe lolimi," kusho uSysoev engxoxweni. RT… – Isibonelo, “umama” kanye “nobaba” ayebhalwe ngofeleba. Izinhlobo zokuziphatha eziyinhloko ukubingelela, ukuvalelisa, ukuxolisa, ukubonga, ukuhalalisela, isicelo, induduzo, ukwenqaba, ukuphikisa. “

Isekela selithumele isicelo esifanayo kuPhini likaNdunankulu u-Olga Golodets, owengamele umkhakha wezemfundo. Ucela ukucabangela ukubuyiswa kwesimilo sokukhuluma ohlelweni lwezifundo lwesikole.

“Lokhu kuzophakamisa isimilo somphakathi,” isekela liqinisekile.

Thina-ke ngeke siphikisane nokukhethwa kwabantu. Futhi baze bayazisa incazelo entsha yenkulumo ethi “Ingabe uyangihlonipha?”

Kodwa sinesibindi sokusikisela: uhlamvu lokuziphatha alukhuliswanga ngezinhlamvu namagama, kodwa emakhanda. Kukhona izinsolo zokuthi uPapa (onosonhlamvukazi “P”) ngeke agcwaliswe ngaleso sikhathi futhi ngeke ayeke ukuthethisa uMama onengane (enegama elithi “M”). Futhi indodana noma indodakazi yabo ekuqaleni kokuthomba isazomemeza ukuthi okhokho (Yebo, ngenhlonipho kuphela) bayitholile. Kodwa manje bazoba Abazali abanohlamvu olukhulu. Noma ngabe kusho ukuthini ekuqondeni kwabo.

Interview

Ukhuluma kanjani nomndeni wakho?

  • Kunina nonke, umbuzo onjani, hhayi abantu abangabazi.

  • Kubazali kuwe, nakugogo nomkhulu, omalumekazi nomalume - kuwe.

  • Kunina nonke, nasezinganeni, sinakho kanjalo.

  • Kuwe kuphela kubazali.

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