I-Psychology

I-projective methodology yokufunda ubuntu bengane

Lokhu kuhlola kwahlanganiswa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane uDkt. Louise Duess. Ingasetshenziswa ngisho nezingane ezincane kakhulu ezisebenzisa ulimi olulula kakhulu ukuveza imizwa yazo.

Imithetho Yokuhlola

Utshela ingane yakho izindaba ezinomlingiswa ingane ezozifanisa naye. Inganekwane ngayinye iphetha ngombuzo obhekiswe enganeni.

Akunzima kakhulu ukwenza lokhu kuhlolwa, ngoba zonke izingane zithanda ukulalela izinganekwane.

Amathiphu Wokuhlola

Kubalulekile ukunaka ithoni yezwi lomntwana, ukuthi ngokushesha kangakanani (kancane) usabela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unikeza izimpendulo ezisheshayo. Qaphela ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukusabela komzimba, isimo sobuso nokuthinta komzimba. Qaphela ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kuhluke kangakanani ekuziphatheni okuvamile, kwansuku zonke. NgokukaDuss, ukusabela kwengane okungavamile kanye nokuziphatha okufana nalokhu:

  • cela ukuphazamisa indaba;
  • isifiso sokuphazamisa umbalisi;
  • enikeza iziphetho zendaba ezingajwayelekile, ezingalindelekile;
  • izimpendulo ezisheshayo nezisheshayo;
  • ukushintsha kwezwi;
  • izimpawu zenjabulo ebusweni (ubomvu ngokweqile noma i-pallor, ukujuluka, ama-tic amancane);
  • ukwenqaba ukuphendula umbuzo;
  • ukuvela kwesifiso esiqhubekayo sokuya phambili kwezehlakalo noma ukuqala inganekwane kusukela ekuqaleni,

- konke lokhu kuyizimpawu zokusabela kwe-pathological ekuhlolweni kanye nezimpawu zohlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Khumbula lokhu okulandelayo

Izingane zivame, ukulalela, ukuxoxa kabusha noma ukusungula izindaba nezinganekwane, ukuveza imizwa yazo ngobuqotho, kuhlanganise nebi (ubudlova). Kodwa kuphela ngaphansi kombandela wokuthi ingangeni. Futhi, uma ingane ihlale ibonisa ukungabaza ukulalela izindaba eziqukethe izakhi ezibangela ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka, lokhu kufanele kunakwe. Ukugwema izimo ezinzima ekuphileni kuwuphawu lokungazethembi nokwesaba.

Uvivinyo

  • Inganekwane-test «Chick». Ikuvumela ukuthi ubone izinga lokuncika komunye wabazali noma kukho kokubili ndawonye.
  • Ukuhlolwa kwenganekwane "IWundlu". Inganekwane ikuvumela ukuthi uthole ukuthi umntwana wahlupheka kanjani ukulunyulwa.
  • Inganekwane-test «Usuku lomshado wabazali». Kuyasiza ukuthola ukuthi ingane isibona kanjani isikhundla sayo emndenini.
  • Inganekwane-test «Ukwesaba». Veza ukwesaba kwengane yakho.
  • Ukuhlolwa kwenganekwane "Indlovu". Ikuvumela ukuthi unqume ukuthi ngabe ingane inezinkinga mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kobulili.
  • Ukuhlolwa kwenganekwane "Hamba". Ikuvumela ukuthi ubone ukuthi ingane inamathele kangakanani kumzali wobulili obuhlukile futhi inobutha nomzali wobulili obufanayo.
  • Tale-test «Izindaba». Zama ukukhomba ukuba khona kokukhathazeka enganeni, ukukhathazeka okungashiwongo.
  • Tale-test «Iphupho elibi». Ungathola isithombe esinenhloso eyengeziwe yezinkinga zezingane, okuhlangenwe nakho, njll.

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