Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, abesifazane abaningi bakhathazeka ngokuzuza kwabo kwesisindo. Usiphathe kanjani lesi sikhathi?
Singamantombazane amathathu emndenini. Ngokukhulelwa kwakhe ngakunye, umama wakhula phakathi kwama-25 nama-30 kg. Kubonakala sengathi iwufuzo… Hhayi-ke, ngaba nenhlanhla: Ngenyuka ngo-10 kg, ngenani lekhilogremu elilodwa ngenyanga, ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 zokuqala. Ngatshelwa ukuthi “uzobona, uzothatha okuningi ekugcineni”, kodwa angibanga nakho “ukusheshisa”. Ngabuye ngalawula isisindo sami kakhulu phakathi nokukhulelwa, kuyilapho ezikhathini ezivamile ngizikala kanye ngemva kwamasonto amathathu.
Ngikhulelwe, ngiyavuma ukuthi ngangingenawo amaswidi noma izinkanuko. Kumenza umyeni wami ahleke uma ngisho lokho, kodwa bengifuna ukudla okunempilo futhi ikakhulukazi izaqathi, ezisanda kugayiwa!
Uzalele e-United States. Ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye omama, ihluke kanjani eFrance?
Ukubeletha e-United States akucindezeli kangako. Ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe, ngashaqeka ngenani lokuhlolwa kodokotela okunikezwa abesifazane abakhulelwe. Ngiqonda kangcono ukuthi imbobo yokuvikela ivela kuphi. Siphathwa njengabantu abagulayo. E-United States, kunezivivinyo ezimbalwa, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, siphinde sisayine ukukhishwa okwengeziwe…
Okufike kwangiqinisa idolo wukuthi uphiko lokuteta luhlonyiswe ngenkonzo yezingane ezisanda kuzalwa Level 3. Ngabelethela ekamelweni lami, elalingelona neze “iyunithi yezokwelapha”. Okuhluke kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabangane abangichazela ukuthi babelethela egumbini elingaphansi kwewadi yababelethayo.
Ekamelweni, kwakukhona umyeni wami “nomzanyana” owayezongiqinisekisa. Wayehlala kusukela ngo-20 ntambama kuya ku-1 ekuseni Akekho owayenengcindezi. Ngesikhathi sokubeletha, ngaze ngakhuluma nombelethisi wami waseFrench Riviera.
I-anecdote mayelana nokukhulelwa kwakho?
Lapho ngithola ukuthi wayeyinsizwa encane, angizange ngikholwe. Njengoba ngase ngihlale nodade abathathu, ngazibona ngeso lengqondo into encane nge-tutu nequilt.
Ngemva kwesikhashana, udokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane wangitshela ukuthi ngehlise umoya, ngaphandle kwalokho ngangiyobeletha esethi, eduze kukaJean-Pierre Foucault.