Okuqukethwe
Babizwa ngokuthi "ama-mompreneuses". Ngesikhathi bekhulelwe noma bezalwa enye yezingane zabo, bakhethe ukuzakhela amabhizinisi abo noma bazisungulele njengabazimele, ngethemba lokubuyisana kalula nezimpilo zobungcweti nezomuntu siqu. Inganekwane noma iqiniso? Basitshela ngolwazi lwabo.
Ubufakazi bukaLaurence: “Ngifuna ukubona indodakazi yami ikhula”
ULaurence, 41, umnakekeli wengane, umama ka-Erwann, 13, no-Emma, 7.
“Ngisebenze iminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu embonini yamahhotela neyokudla. Yilapho engahlangana khona noPascal, owayengumpheki. Ngo-2004 saba no-Erwann. Futhi lapho, saba nenjabulo yokuthola ukuthi lalingekho ikhambi lokunakekela izingane labazali abanamashejuli angavamile! Usisi wami wasisiza isikhashana, ngase ngishintsha indlela. Ngithathe isikhundla njengomphathi eLa Redoute. Ngangikwazi ukuyolanda indodana yami ngemva kokuphuma kwesikole futhi ngiyijabulele ngezimpelasonto. Ngo-2009, ngaxoshwa emsebenzini. Umyeni wami naye wafika ekupheleni komjikelezo nangemva kokuhlolwa kwamakhono. Isinqumo: senzelwe ukusebenza nezingane. Umqondo wokwakha indlu yabanakekeli bezingane wabe usuzifaka kithi ngokushesha. Ngemva kokuzalwa kwendodakazi yethu, sathatha indawo futhi saqala. Sibe nosuku oluhle: 7:30 am-19:30pm Kodwa okungenani sibe nenhlanhla yokukwazi ukubukela indodakazi yethu ikhula. Sasijabule kakhulu. Sathenga indlu enkulu sabekela umsebenzi wethu ingxenye ethile. Kodwa ukusebenza ekhaya akunazo nje izinzuzo: abazali basibona njengabachwepheshe futhi bazizwa bevunyelwe ukufika sekwephuzile. Nendodakazi yethu, ebihlale isazi njengabagcini bezingane, ayivumi ukusibona sinakekela ezinye izingane. Ngethemba ukuthi uzogcina ebonile ukuthi unenhlanhla kangakanani! “
Umbono wochwepheshe: “Omama abaningi baphupha ngokusebenza ekhaya. “
Ukuqala ibhizinisi ngokuqinisekile kunikeza inkululeko eyengeziwe nokuzimela, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akusona isikhathi esengeziwe. Ukuze imali ingene, kufanele utshale ngokugcwele futhi ungabali amahora akho! “
Pascale Pestel, Inhloko yenkampani yokwesekwa kochwepheshe i-Motivia Consultants
Ubufakazi buka-Ellhame: “Ngikuthola kunzima ukuzithiba”
U-Ilhame, 40, unina kaYasmine, 17, Sofia, 13, ukhulelwe ingane yakhe yesithathu.
“Ngaqala umsebenzi wami kwezezimali. Kwaphela iminyaka engaphezu kwemibili nengxenye, ngiphethe izithombe zezentengiselwano zezinkampani ezingaphansi kwamanye amazwe zeqembu elikhulu. Njengoba ngokuvamile kwakudingeka ngiye phesheya, kwakungumlingani wami owayenakekela izinto zomkhaya. Futhi-ke, ngo-2013, ngakha kabusha impilo yami. Kungenze ngazibuza ngencazelo engangifuna ukuyinikeza ekuphileni kwami ekuqaleni kosuku lwami lokuzalwa ngihlanganisa iminyaka engu-40. Nakuba nganginomsebenzi okhanga kakhulu, ngaqonda ukuthi kwakunganele ekukhuleni kwami, ukuthi ngangifuna ukunikela isikhathi esengeziwe kubantwana bami. Ngakho-ke ngaqala ukuqeqeshwa njenge-naturopath nginesifiso sokuzilolonga endaweni yangasese izinsuku ezintathu ngesonto, futhi sonke isikhathi, ukunikeza amabhokisi emithi yemvelo nge-inthanethi. Kodwa ukuzithola ngingedwa ekhaya ngobusuku obubodwa akulula. Okokuqala, ngoba angisenaye umuntu ongangiphonsela inselelo. Okwesibili, ngoba ngisenenkinga yokuzikhuza. Ekuqaleni, ngangiziphoqa ukuba ngigeze futhi ngigqoke njalo ekuseni njengakuqala, futhi ngangisebenza edeskini lami. Kodwa lokho akuzange kubambe ... Manje, ngitshala etafuleni legumbi lokudlela, ngiphazamisa umsebenzi wami ukuze ngikhiphe inja… Kuzofanele ngiqinise kakhulu uma ngifuna ukuphumelela ekukhuliseni indodana yami ezozalwa maduze. . Okwamanje, angicabangi uhlobo lokunakekela izingane futhi akukho mbuzo ukuthi ngiphinde ngibe isisebenzi. “
Lapho ingane isisiza ukuthi siguqule impilo yethu ...
"Empilweni yakhe ngaphambili", uCendrine Genty wayengumkhiqizi wezinhlelo ze-TV. Impilo yobungcweti ematasatasa, lapho “uma uhamba ngo-19:30 ebusuku, ubuzwa ukuthi uyicelile yini i-RTT”! Ukuzalwa kwendodakazi yakhe, lapho ineminyaka engu-36, kuzosebenza njengesambulo: “Kuyangihlanyisa ukuthi kufanele 'ngikhethe uhlangothi': umsebenzi wami noma ingane yami. UCendrine unquma ukushintsha impilo yakhe futhi asebenze ngendlela ehlukile. Ulungiselela ukuhlangana nabesifazane baseFrance futhi athole abesifazane, njengaye, bedabukile phakathi kwempilo yabo yobungcweti neyomndeni. Wabe esedala i-“L se Réalisent”, uhlelo lwedijithali nolwemicimbi olusekela abesifazane ekuqeqeshweni kabusha kwabo kochwepheshe. Ubufakazi obuthinta inhliziyo (futhi obujwayelekile ngokumangalisayo…) bowesifazane phakathi nokuzalwa kabusha. I-FP
Ukufunda: "Ngosuku engakhetha ngalo impilo yami entsha" Cendrine Genty, ed. Odlulayo
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