Usale kahle uyazisola
Ngabe usanethemba lokuthi “ex” yakho izobuya ngelinye ilanga? Kodwa-ke, uma uhlukanisile, kuhle ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho bebusenkingeni ... Ukuzisola ngokuthi ushiyile akusizi ukuthi uye phambili. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ukushada kabusha, ikakhulukazi, ngeke kuphumelele. Ukuqhubekela phambili, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngawe, ukukwazi ukulila ubuhlobo obudlule futhi wamukele lokhu kwehluleka, ngisho noma, ngokuqinisekile, umsebenzi wawungeke ube nzima kakhulu.
Thola umlingani womphefumulo
Ukuba wedwa ngesikhathi sokwakha kabusha kubalulekile, kodwa, uma lesi sigaba sesidlulile, isifiso sokuqala impilo entsha sisemthethweni impela. Umzali ongayedwa uzothola umlingani womphefumulo ngemva kweminyaka emi-5 ngokwesilinganiso. Kodwa ngezingane, akulula ukuhlela izikhathi zakusihlwa zothando… Isixazululo samanje esenza abalandeli abaningi phakathi kwabazali abangabodwa: izingosi zokuphola ku-inthanethi. Ngokuphathelene nalokhu, uJocelyne Dahan, umlamuleli womkhaya eToulouse, ugcizelela ukuthi abazali akufanele balethe izingane zabo nabo bonke ubuhlobo babo obuphakathi, hhayi obungathi sína. Bangase bacabange ukuthi umngane wakho omusha uzohamba futhi kuyoba nzima ngabo ukuba babe nobudlelwane nomuntu.
Enye into: akusiyo eyengane enqumayo, akumele ithande owakwakho, umhloniphe ngoba uzikhethele wena. Okubalulekile kukho konke lokhu ukuthi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuhlala unethemba futhi uzitshele ukuthi injabulo nakanjani iyongqongqoza emnyango wakho ngolunye usuku.
Izincwadi zokukusiza
- Umzali ongayedwa ekhaya, Uqinisekisa usuku nosuku, Jocelyne Dahan, Anne Lamy, Ed. U-Albin Michel;
- Umama oyedwa, imiyalelo yokusetshenziswa, Karine Tavarès, Gwenaëlle Viala, Ed. Marabout;
- Umhlahlandlela wokusinda kamama ongayedwa, uMichèle Le Pellec, u-Ed Dangles;
– Umzali oyedwa, Amalungelo omndeni onomzali oyedwa, u-Anne-Charlotte Watrelot-Lebas, u-Ed. Du bien fleuri.