Indaba kaShazia: ukuba ngumama ePakistan

E-Pakistan, asizivumeli izingane ukuba zikhale

“Kodwa akwenzeki! Umama washaqeka ngokuthi eFrance izingane zivunyelwe ukukhala. “Indodakazi yakho ilambile impela, mnike ucezu lwesinkwa ukuze ithule!” Waphikelela. Imfundo ePakistan ixubile impela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sigqoka

izingane,ukuze agweme nokukhala okuncane. Basongwa esikhafuni kusukela bazalwa ukuze bazizwe bephephile. Bahlala egumbini labazali isikhathi eside – njengamadodakazi ami asalala nathi. Mina ngokwami ​​ngahlala endlini kamama kwaze kwaba usuku lomshado wami. Kepha ngakolunye uhlangothi, amaPakistani amancane kufanele alandele imithetho yomndeni ngaphandle kokuxega. EFrance, lapho izingane zenza izinto eziwubuwula, ngizwa abazali bethi kuzo: “Ngibheke emehlweni lapho ngikhuluma nawe”. Kanye nathi, ubaba ucela izingane zakhe ukuba zehlise amehlo ngenxa yenhlonipho.

Lapho ngikhulelwe, into yokuqala eyangimangaza eFrance, ukuthi silandelwa kakhulu. Kuhle. EPakistan, i-ultrasound yokuqala yenziwa cishe ngenyanga yesi-7 noma, kaningi, ayilokothi. Isiko ukuthi sibelethela ekhaya sisizwa umbelethisi okuthiwa “dai”, kungenjalo kungaba ngumuntu wasekhaya, njengo-anti noma umamezala. Imbalwa kakhulu imitholampilo yokubeletha ebizayo - ama-rupee angu-5 (cishe ama-euro angu-000) - futhi bambalwa abesifazane abakwazi ukuyikhokhela. Umama wayenathi ekhaya, njengabesifazane abaningi basePakistan. Udadewethu, njengabesifazane abaningi, ushonelwe izingane ezimbalwa. Ngakho manje, njengoba eqaphela izingozi ezibangelwa lokhu, umama wethu usikhuthaza ukuba siye esibhedlela.

Umama wasePakistan uphumula izinsuku ezingama-40 ngemuva kokubeletha

Ngemva kokubeletha kwami ​​kokuqala eFrance, ngenza okuthile okungavunyelwe ePakistan. Ngabuya esibhedlela ngageza! Ngithe ngiphuma emanzini kwakhala ucingo lwami, kwakungumama. Engathi ubeqagela ukuthi ngenzani. " Uyahlanya. NguJanuwari, kuyabanda. Usengozini yokuba nezifo noma izinkinga zeqolo. “Kunamanzi ashisayo lapha, ungakhathazeki mama,” ngiphendula. E-Pakistan, sisenawo amanzi ashisayo nogesi omude.

Kanye nathi, owesifazane uphumula izinsuku ezingamashumi amane futhi kumelwe ahlale izinsuku ezingamashumi amabili zokuqala embhedeni engathinti amanzi abandayo. Sigeza ngamanzi afudumele. Umndeni womyeni uzohlala nabazali abasebancane futhi banakekele yonke into. Umama usenga ezimithiyo, iwona wodwa umsebenzi wakhe. Ukwenza ubisi lukhuphuke, bathi umama osemusha kufanele adle zonke izinhlobo zamantongomane: ukhukhunathi, i-cashew nabanye. Izinhlanzi, ama-pistachios nama-alimondi nawo ayanconywa. Ukuze siphinde sibe namandla, sidla isobho likadali nokolweni noma likatamatisi (elinokheri omncane kakhulu ukuze lingabi nezinongo kakhulu). Ingane ayivunyelwe ukuphuma izinyanga ezimbili. Athi angakhala, ngenxa yokwesaba umsindo ngaphandle noma ubumnyama bobusuku.

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EPakistan, izingane zigqokiswe ngemibala egqamile

Siqala ukunikeza ukudla okuqinile ezinyangeni ezingu-6, nelayisi elimhlophe elixutshwe ne-yogurt. Khona-ke, ngokushesha okukhulu, ingane idla njengomndeni. Sithatha futhi sikuchoboze okuphezu kwetafula. Uju lukhona kakhulu ekudleni kwethu nasemakhambi ethu, wushukela kuphela umntwana awudla ngonyaka wokuqala. Lapho, ekuseni, itiye elimnyama lawo wonke umuntu. Umshana wami onakho Iminyaka emi-4 isivele iyiphuze, kodwa ihlanjululwe. Isinkwa sethu, "parata", eyenziwe ngofulawa kakolweni futhi ibukeka njengama-patties athambile, iyisisekelo sokudla kwethu. Lapho, ngeshwa, awekho ama-croissants noma ubuhlungu be-au chocolat! Ekhaya, kuyindlela yesiFulentshi phakathi nesonto, amantombazane adla i-Chocapic yawo njalo ekuseni, futhi ngezimpelasonto, ukudla kwasePakistan.

Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi phakathi nesonto ngingathanda ukubona amadodakazi ami emahle njengasePakistan. Lapho, njalo ekuseni, izingane zinikezwa "kohl". Yipensela emnyama efakwa ngaphakathi esweni. Lokhu kwenziwa kusukela ekuzalweni ukuze kwandiswe amehlo. Ngiyayikhumbula imibala yezwe lami. EFrance, wonke umuntu ugqoka ezimnyama. EPakistan, amantombazane asemancane agqoka izingubo zendabuko ngemibala egqame kakhulu: “isalwar” (ibhulukwe), “kameez” (ihembe) kanye “nedupatta” (isikhafu esigqokwa ekhanda). Kujabulisa kakhulu!

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