Okuqukethwe
Imibono yezocansi: zisiza kanjani ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano
Sexuality
Ubulili ngabunye bunokuthambekela, bobabili bajabulela izinto zabo eziqanjiwe zocansi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili buni
Ukuya ocansini emgwaqweni, ukusebenzisa iziswebhu noma ozankosi esenzweni socansi noma ukuqhanyelwa umlingani: imicabango yocansi iyingxenye yempilo enempilo yocansi futhi wonke umuntu unalo.
Lawa maphupho angagqugquzelwa yisithombe, into oyizwayo noma into oyifundayo, futhi ngaphezu kokusiza injabulo, ingaba usizo ngempela lapho ukucindezeleka, isibonelo, usuku olubi emsebenzini lubonakala luvimbela i-orgasm.
Ama-Threesome kanye nocansi lwendunu
Ngokusobala, futhi ngokusho kwezifundo eziningana, abesifazane nabesilisa abahlanganyeli imibono efanayo. USilvia Sanz, uchwepheshe wezengqondo ebudlelwaneni abashadile kanye nomlobi wencwadi ethi 'Sexamor' (Editorial Aguilar), uthi, nakuba bengeyona idatha ephelele, abesifazane "bavame ukucabanga okuningi ngabantu abaziwayo, kusukela manje noma kusukela esikhathini esidlule", abadala. imibhangqwana noma abalingisi ababenza babe ngombono wabo, njengabadlali, osopolitiki, abaculi, njll., nokuqukethwe kungahluka “ngokushaywa, ukuphrakthiza ucansi olwenziwa ngomlomo o shaya indlwabu, baye ocansini ezindaweni lapho bangabonwa khona, ukuphoqelelwa noma ukwazi ukuba yizifebe, ube nobudlelwano namalesbian; ukubhekwa njengongenakuvinjelwa abantu ababahehayo noma ukuya ocansini olunothando kakhulu ezindaweni ezinesimilo esivusa inkanuko.
Esikhundleni salokho, bayengwa umqondo wokuba ne-threesome noma i-fellatio: "I indunu neyomlomoUkubusa ebudlelwaneni noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuba nowesifazane azithobe kubo, ngezinye zemicabango ephindaphindiwe kakhulu. Bajabule ngokuthi bathatha isinyathelo kuqala, futhi kubusa izindawo ezingavamile, njengekheshi, ihhovisi noma indlu yokugezela yendawo yokucima ukoma, “kusho uchwepheshe wezocansi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uSilvia Sanz ubonisa ukuthi amaphupho abesilisa nabesifazane nawo ahlukile endleleni abheka ngayo izinto: “Abesifazane bathanda kakhulu ukusebenzisa umcabango wabo, ngezimpikiswano ezivusa inkanuko ukuze benze umqondo othile, futhi ngenxa yalokho baqukathe imininingwane eyengeziwe.” Njengoba echaza, bathandana kakhulu futhi baqhutshwa imizwelo; zigqugquzelwa kakhulu izinzwa ezifana nokuzwa, ukuhogela, ukuthinta futhi, ngakho-ke, zinemininingwane eyengeziwe. Uthi: “Ngaphakathi kwamaphupho bavame ukukhetha izindima zokungenzi lutho. Kodwa-ke, amadoda asebenza kakhulu, abe yizihloko ezibukwayo futhi avame ukugxila kakhulu ekukhuthazeni izitho zangasese. “Imicabango yakhe ifana namafilimu ocansi: emcabangweni wakhe ayikho imininingwane eminingi, icacile futhi iqondile. Azikho izingxabano eziningi njengakwabesifazane, futhi kulawa maphupho okuqukethwe emicabangweni yabo yizimo ezingamukeleki emphakathini ”, esho.
Kodwa le micabango isiza kanjani ebudlelwaneni bethu njengombhangqwana? Njengoba uSilvia Sanz esitshela, avusa izimo okungenzeka zingezona ezejwayelekile kodwa ezisiholela ekwandiseni isifiso sethu, futhi hhayi nje ukwazisa umbono wokuzenza kodwa ngoba “zingavusa ubudlelwano bocansi” ngokumane sicabange. it, kusukela ku- Ngendlela efanayo, ingakhuthaza ukudlala nomlingani wakho: «Ngaphezu kokukuvula, bakhulisa isifiso futhi bakhulise ukuhambisana kumlingani wakho uma wabelana nabo. Zibuye zicebise ukuhlangana kocansi futhi zikhuthaze ukusungula nokucabanga ngocansi. Konke lokhu kungakusiza uthuthukise ukuhambisana kwakho, ukusondelana kanye nesifiso ebudlelwaneni, ”kusho yena.
Ubulili ngabunye bunokuthambekela, bobabili bajabulela izinto zabo eziqanjiwe zocansi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili buni. Okuhle ukuthi sizamukele futhi sizihlole ngoba ziyingxenye yomuntu ngamunye wethu. Ziyinsiza evusa inkanuko engasukela kokukhohlakele kakhulu kuye komsulwa kakhulu. “Khumbula ukuthi ayikho imithetho, yonke into ingaphakathi emcabangweni wakho futhi ukhululekile ukuyivumela indize,” kuphetha uSilvia Sanz, encwadini yakhe ethi 'Sexamor' ehlanganisa ikhathalogi engakusiza ukhulise ikhono lakho lokusungula ubulili futhi uthuthukise isifiso sakho. , ngaphezu kokuchaza izimfihlo zothando nenjabulo.