Ingabe i-selfie craze ingabalimaza izingane zethu? Kungani lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "i-selfie syndrome" kuyingozi? Umkhulumeli womphakathi u-Michel Borba uyaqiniseka ukuthi ukuthanda umphakathi ngokuzithwebula kungaba nemiphumela engalindelekile esizukulwaneni esisha.
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, kwavela isihloko esingumgunyathi ku-inthanethi futhi ngaso leso sikhathi saba yigciwane lokuthi i-American Psychological Association (APA) yempilo yangempela nenegunya yengeza ekuhlukaniseni kwayo ukuxilongwa kwe-"selfitis" - "isifiso esicindezelayo sokuthatha izithombe uzifakele lezi zithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Lesi sihloko sabe sesixoxa ngendlela ehlekisayo ngezigaba ezihlukene ze-"selfitis": "umngcele", "acute" kanye "nokuphila okungapheli"1.
Ukuduma kwe-"utkis" mayelana ne-"selfitis" kubhale ngokucacile ukukhathazeka komphakathi mayelana ne-mania yokuthatha izithombe zakho. Namuhla, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zesimanje kakade zisebenzisa umqondo «selfie syndrome» emsebenzini wabo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Michel Borba ukholelwa ukuthi imbangela yalesi sifo, noma ukuphikelela kokuqashelwa ngezithombe ezifakwe kuwebhu, ngokuyinhloko ukugxila kuwena nokuziba izidingo zabanye.
“Ingane ihlale inconywa, ivele ivale ucingo ikhohlwe ukuthi bakhona abanye abantu emhlabeni,” kusho uMichel Borba. - Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zesimanje zincike kakhulu kubazali bazo. Silawula yonke iminithi yesikhathi sabo, kodwa nokho asibafundisi amakhono abawadingayo ukuze bakhule.”
Ukuzibamba kuwumhlabathi ovundile we-narcissism, obulala uzwela. Uzwela luwumzwelo owabelana ngawo, uthi “thina” hhayi nje “mina”. U-Michel Borba uhlongoza ukulungisa ukuqonda kwethu impumelelo yezingane, hhayi ukwehliswa kube amaphuzu aphezulu ezivivinyweni. Okubaluleke ngokufanayo yikhono lengane lokuzizwa lijulile.
Izincwadi zakudala azikhulisi nje kuphela amakhono obuhlakani wengane, kodwa futhi zimfundisa uzwela, umusa nokuziphatha okuhle.
Njengoba i-“selfie syndrome” ibona isidingo esine-hypertrophied sokuqashelwa nokuvunyelwa abanye, kuyadingeka ukumfundisa ukubona ukubaluleka kwakhe nokubhekana nezinkinga zokuphila. Iseluleko esingokwengqondo sokudumisa ingane nganoma yisiphi isizathu, esangena isiko elidumile kuma-80s, kwaholela ekuveleni kwesizukulwane sonke esinama-egos anamandla kanye nezidingo ezikhulayo.
“Abazali kufanele bakhuthaze ngazo zonke izindlela ikhono lengane lokuxoxa,” kubhala uMichel Borba. "Futhi ukuyekethisa kungatholakala: ekugcineni, izingane zingakwazi ukuxhumana zodwa ku-FaceTime noma ku-Skype."
Yini engasiza ekuhlakuleleni uzwela? Isibonelo, ukudlala i-chess, ukufunda ama-classics, ukubuka ama-movie, ukuphumula. I-Chess ithuthukisa ukucabanga kwamasu, iphinde iphazamise imicabango yomuntu siqu.
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo uDavid Kidd no-Emanuele Castano beSikole Esisha Socwaningo Lwezenhlalakahle eNew York2 wenze ucwaningo ngomthelela wokufunda kumakhono omphakathi. Yabonisa ukuthi amanoveli asendulo anjengethi, To Kill a Mockingbird awagcini nje ngokukhulisa amakhono engqondo engane, kodwa futhi ayifundisa umusa nokuziphatha okuhle. Kodwa-ke, ukuze uqonde abanye abantu futhi ufunde imizwelo yabo, izincwadi zodwa azanele, udinga isipiliyoni sokuxhumana okubukhoma.
Uma osemusha echitha isilinganiso samahora angu-7,5 ngosuku namagajethi, kanti umfundi osemncane - amahora angu-6 (lapha uMichel Borba ubhekisela kudatha yenkampani yaseMelika iCommon Sense Media3), cishe awekho amathuba okuxhumana nomuntu “bukhoma”, hhayi engxoxweni.
1 B. Michele «UnSelfie: Kungani Izingane Ezinozwela Ziphumelela Kumhlaba Wethu Konke Okumayelana Nami», u-Simon no-Schuster, 2016.
2 K. David, E. Castano «Ukufunda Inganekwane Yemibhalo Kuthuthukisa Ithiyori Yengqondo», Isayensi, 2013, №342.
3 "I-Common Sense Census: Ukusetshenziswa Kwemidiya ngabaTweens kanye Nentsha" (Common Sense Inc, 2015).