Ce ukwahlulela kuyikho kokubili kanye nenhloso. Kuthonywa okuhlangenwe nakho, amakhono (ngokomzimba, obuhlakani) kanye nesimo sengqondo esijwayelekile ithemba ou ukungathembeki lomuntu.

Ukuzethemba kuyiqoqo lezahlulelo (ukuba nekhono, ukubaluleka, ukufaneleka, njll.) umuntu anakho ngokwakhe ezindaweni ezahlukene (umsebenzi, isikole, ukubukeka komzimba, njll.).

Ukuzethemba bekungeke kuncike kuphela umbono wokuthi abantu banempumelelo nokwehluleka kwabo kodwa futhi yabo imigomo yempumelelo. Uma umuntu edlula noma efinyelela imigomo azibekele yonae, isibonelo, ukuphumelela ukuhlolwa ngemva kokusebenza kakhulu, ukuzethemba kwakhe kwakuzoqina.

Ngokuphambene nalokho, lapho izifiso ezibekiwe zidlula amakhono, njengokugijima ibanga elide ngaphandle kokuqeqeshwa okuncane, ukwehluleka kuzovame ukuphumelela futhi kungase kuholele ekutheni umuntu azicabangele kabi, uma enamathisele ukubaluleka okukhulu empumelelweni.

Kungokwazi amakhono akho kahle nokubeka imigomo efinyelelekayo lapho sibeka khona wonke amathuba okuphumelela ngasohlangothini lwethu. . 

Ngokuvamile kunzima ukuqonda ngokugcwele amakhono akhe angempela. Indlela esibabona ngayo ithonywa kakhulu ukwahlulela kwabanye kanye nemizwa yethu. Abantu bayohlale bethambekele inani eleqile noma ngokuphambene nalokho zithathe kancane.