Okuqukethwe
- Ukuvalelwa kuyisici esikhulisa kanjani i-phobia yesikole?
- Ngokuvamile, ibangelwa yini le phobia, manje ebizwa ngokuthi “ukwenqaba kwesikole okunokukhathazeka”?
- Yiziphi izimpawu ezijwayelekile zale phobia yesikole?
- Yini abazali abangayibeka ngesikhathi bevalelwe ukuze kube lula ukubuyela esikoleni?
- Ochwepheshe nezinhlangano ezahlukahlukene nazo zinikeza izixazululo…
- Ingabe abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo wokwenqaba kokukhathazeka ukuya esikoleni okubonisa ezinye izingane?
- Kulo mongo we-coronavirus, ingabe amanye amaphrofayili ezingane ezikhathazekile “asengozini”, ngokubona kwakho?
Ukubuyela esikoleni ngemva kwamasonto amade uvalelwe kubukeka kuyindida, okunzima kubazali ukuyixazulula. Iphazili eyinkimbinkimbi nakakhulu kubazali bezingane ezine-phobia yesikole. Ngoba lesi sikhathi sokuhlukana namakilasi ngokuvamile siye sakhulisa ukudideka nokukhathazeka kwabo. U-Angie Cochet, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emtholampilo e-Orléans (Loiret), uyaxwayisa futhi uchaza ukuthi kungani ukunakekelwa okukhethekile kwalezi zingane kubalulekile kulo mongo ongakaze ubonwe.
Ukuvalelwa kuyisici esikhulisa kanjani i-phobia yesikole?
Angie Cochet: Ukuze azivikele, ingane ehlushwa i-phobia yesikole izohamba ngokwemvelo uzibeke ekugwemeni. Ukuvalelwa kusiza kakhulu ekugcineni lokhu kuziphatha, okwenza ukubuyela esikoleni kube nzima nakakhulu. Ukugwema kuyinto evamile kubo, kodwa ukuchayeka kufanele kwenzeke kancane kancane. Ukufaka ingane ngenkani esikoleni esigcwele akufakiwe. Bekuzoqinisa ukukhathazeka. Ochwepheshe bakhona ukuze basize kulokhu kuvezwa okuqhubekayo, kanye nokweseka abazali abavame ukuntula futhi abenze bazizwe benecala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izindlela zokunqanda ukuboshwa zinzima ukufakwa, futhi ingane ayikwazi ukuzilungiselela. Okubi kakhulu kuzoba ngempelasonto ngaphambi kokululama.
Ngokuvamile, ibangelwa yini le phobia, manje ebizwa ngokuthi “ukwenqaba kwesikole okunokukhathazeka”?
AC : Izingane "ezinokwenqaba okukhathazayo esikoleni" zizizwa ukwesaba isikole okungenangqondo, yesistimu yesikole. Lokhu kungabonakaliswa ngokulova okuqinile ikakhulukazi. Asikho isizathu esisodwa, kodwa eziningi. Kungase kuthinte izingane okuthiwa “ezinamandla aphezulu” okuthi, ngenxa yokuthi zingazizwa zinesithukuthezi esikoleni, zibe nombono wokunensa ekufundeni kwazo, okudala ukukhathazeka. Abasafuni ukuya esikoleni, noma basafuna ukufunda. Kanye ne izingane izisulu zokuxhashazwa esikoleni. Kwabanye, wukwesaba ukubheka abanye okusindayo, ikakhulukazi emidwebeni yokuphelela evezwa ukusebenza ukukhathazeka. Noma izingane ezine-multi-dys kanye ne-ADHD (i-attention deficit disorder with or without hyperactivity), abanokukhubazeka ekufundeni, okudinga indawo yokuhlala yezemfundo. Babhekene nobunzima bokujwayela uhlelo lwesikole lwezemfundo nolwejwayelekile.
Yiziphi izimpawu ezijwayelekile zale phobia yesikole?
AC : Ezinye izingane zingakwazi ukuhlangana. Bakhala ngezisu, ikhanda, noma ungase futhi uzwe ubuhlungu obunzima futhi wenze ukuhlaselwa kwesibindi, ngezinye izikhathi ezinzima. Bangahola phakathi nezinsuku ezivamile, kodwa babe nokuvutha kokukhathazeka ngeSonto ebusuku ngemva kwekhefu lempelasonto. Okubi kakhulu yisikhathi samaholide esikole, ukubuyisela isikhathi esinzima kakhulu. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, isimo esijwayelekile sezingane zakhe sithuthuka kuphela lapho zishiya uhlelo lwesikole sendabuko.
Yini abazali abangayibeka ngesikhathi bevalelwe ukuze kube lula ukubuyela esikoleni?
AC : Ingane kufanele ibonakale esikoleni sayo, ngangokunokwenzeka; shayela udlule kuyo noma uye ku-Google Amamephu ukuze ubone isakhiwo. Ngezikhathi ezithile bheka izithombe zekilasi, zesatchel, kulokhu umuntu angacela usizo lukathisha. Kumele bakhulunyelwe ukudambisa ukukhathazeka kokubuyela esikoleni, xoxani ngakho nothisha ukuze niyidlalele phansi idrama, bese niqhubeka nemisebenzi yesikole yasikhathi sonke ngaphambi kuka-May 11. Xhumana nofunda naye ekilasini owayengase ahambe naye ngosuku lokululama ukuze angazitholi eyedwa. Lezi zingane kumele zikwazi qala kabusha isikole kancane kancane, kanye noma kabili ngesonto. Kodwa ubunzima wukuthi ngeke kubekwe eqhulwini kothisha uma kukhulunywa ngokunqunywa kwabo.
Ochwepheshe nezinhlangano ezahlukahlukene nazo zinikeza izixazululo…
AC : Futhi singasetha ukulandelelwa kwengqondo kuvidiyo, noma ngisho nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nothisha bathintane. Ngokuvamile, akhona ngempela amalungiselelo aqondile alezi zingane, okungenzeka kusetshenziswe i-CNED noma i-Sapad (1) Ukudambisa ukukhathazeka, abazali banganikeza izivivinyo eziphumuzayo nokuphefumula ngohlelo lokusebenza lwe-Petit Bambou [faka isixhumanisi sewebhu] noma “Ukuzola nokulalelisisa. amavidiyo afana nexoxo.
Ingabe abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo wokwenqaba kokukhathazeka ukuya esikoleni okubonisa ezinye izingane?
AC : Ake sithi uma ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kukhathazeka kungena ngokulingisa abazali abakhathazekile ngokwabo, kungaphezu kwakho konke. isici somlingiswa azalwa naye. Izimpawu zokuqala zivame ukuvela ebuntwaneni. Othisha baneqhaza okufanele balibambe ekuhlonzeni, hhayi abazali kuphela, futhi ukuxilonga kufanele kwenziwe ngudokotela wengqondo yengane. Labo ababazungezile, othisha, ochwepheshe bezempilo noma izingane ngokwazo bangaba necala elikhulu kubazali, abagxekwa ngokulalela kakhulu noma ukunganele, ngokuvikela kakhulu noma ukunganele. Ezinganeni ezihlushwa ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana, zingase zisole abazali bazo ngokuziphoqelela ukuba ziye esikoleni. Futhi abazali abangayifaki ingane yabo esikoleni bangaba isihloko sombiko wenhlalakahle Yengane, kuyinhlawulo ephindwe kabili. Eqinisweni, bacindezelekile njengezingane zabo, okwenza umsebenzi wokufundisa ube nzima futhi ube nzima nsuku zonke, banenkolelo yokuthi kukhona abaphuthelwe. Badinga usizo lwangaphandle kanye nochwepheshe ezifana ukunakekelwa kwengqondo, kanye nokwesekwa okuqondile ezikoleni.
A. C.: Yebo, amanye amaphrofayili angaba sengcupheni njengoba ukuqaliswa kabusha kwamakilasi kusondela. Singabala izingane ezihlushwa isifo se-phobia, abazoba nenkinga yokubuyela esikoleni ngenxa yokwesaba ukugula noma ukudlulisela lesi sifo kubazali babo. Njengezingane zesikole ezine-phobic, kufanele basekelwe futhi bakhuthaze inkhulumomphendvulwano yomndeni, noma kusukela kochwepheshe, okwamanje okungaboniswana nabo ukude.
(1) Izinkonzo zosizo lwezemfundo yasekhaya (i-Sapad) ziyizinhlelo zemfundo kazwelonke zomnyango ezihloselwe ukuhlinzeka izingane nentsha ngezinkinga zempilo noma izingozi ngosizo lwezemfundo ekhaya. Lokhu kwenzelwa ukuqinisekisa ukuqhubeka kwemfundo yabo. Lezi zinhlelo ziyingxenye yokulekelelana kwezisebenzi zikahulumeni, eziqinisekisa ilungelo lokuthola imfundo yanoma yimuphi umfundi ogulayo noma olimele. Abekwe endaweni yindilinga n ° 98-151 ka-17-7-1998.
Ingxoxo ka-Elodie Cerqueira