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Ayisekho imigqa, iziteki noma ngisho nokuvimbela izikrini isikhathi esithile! Esikhathini se-inthanethi, abazali bashintshele ezijezisweni ezingu-2.0. Ngempela, e-United States, bayanda abahlaza izingane zabo eziziphatha kabi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ihlanganisani? Thumela isithombe noma ividiyo yenzalo yabo isesimweni esingakhululekile ukuyivimba ekufuneni ukuyiphinda. Futhi esinye sezijeziso ezivame kakhulu ukugunda izinwele noma ukumosha ngokuphelele, phila. Ngebhonasi eyengeziwe yokuphawula okuyindelelo okuvela kubazali abazama ukuthethelela isenzo sabo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi konke kuphetha kabuhlungu. NgoMeyi 2015, intombazane yaseMelika eneminyaka engu-13 yazibulala ngemva kokuba uyise efake i-video yakhe egunda izinwele ku-You Tube ukuze ayijezise. Idrama ekhombisa umthelela omubi nolimazayo wezenzo ezinjalo. Uma lesi simo singakayithinti iFrance, singase silinge abanye abazali. “Yonke into evela e-United States ivela lapha ngolunye usuku,” kusho uCatherine Dumonteil-Kremer. Ngokusho kwalo ngoti wezemfundo, “ ukuthumela amavidiyo wengane yakho esesimweni esihlazisayo kunemiphumela ebusheni. Iya kude kakhulu enxebeni. Lezi zijeziso zinobuthi futhi zimelela ukuhlaselwa kwesithunzi. Asitholi lutho oluhle! “.
Ukubaluleka kokubekela izingane isibonelo esihle
UCatherine Dumonteil-Kremer ugcizelela elinye iphuzu elibalulekile: izijeziso akufanele zitholakale ku-intanethi. “Sikwabelana ngalokho okufanele kusele ohlelweni losondelene. Ingasaphathwa ukuthi izithombe ezishicilelwe ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukususa. Kusele imikhondo. Kubalulekile ukubona izinto ekuhambeni kwesikhathi nokuba yisibonelo esihle,” kuchaza yena. ” Akumele kusimangaze-ke ukubona izingane ziqopha abazali bazo ezimweni ezibeka engcupheni futhi zithumela lawa mavidiyo ku-inthanethi… ”. Ngokucabangela ukuthi abantu abadala kufanele babe izibonelo ezinganeni zabo, u-Wayman Gresham, ubaba waseMelika, ngoMeyi 2015 ku-akhawunti yakhe ye-Facebook ividiyo ephikisana nalezi zijeziso eziyihlazo. Simbona elungiselela ukuphuca ikhanda lendodana yakhe ngaphambi kokuthi ashone. Ube esecela indodana yakhe ukuthi izomqabula. Uphinde waveza ukuthi kuyo yonke le video akazange afunge noma ayidelele indodana yakhe. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa nje, lokhu okuthunyelwe kwabiwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kuka-500.
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Isijeziso 2.0: ukuvuma ubuthakathaka ngabazali?
“Laba bazali abathwebula izingane zabo zisesimweni esinzima bazizwa bengenamandla,” kuchaza uCatherine Dumonteil-Kremer. “Bafuna ezinye izindlela. Lokhukuwukuvuma ubuthakathaka ohlangothini lwabo,” kuchaza yena.. Futhi lo wakamuva, ophikisana nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwesijeziso, uphikelela ukuthi kwanele ukubeka imingcele efanele futhi uxhumane nengane yakho ukuze ugweme ukuchichima ekhaya. Amavidiyo anjalo awusizo. Ngempela, kuye, into eyinhloko ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwengane nokulalela imizwelo yakhe. “Ukuze ingane ihlanganise ukuziphatha okufanele, ubuchopho bayo kumelwe busebenze ngendlela evamile. Udinga izimo ezifanele kanye nemizwa eyakhayo. Nokho, uma simzwisa ubuhlungu, uyogxila ekugwemeni hhayi esizathwini sokuthi kungani. Uzozitshela ukuthi “Akumele ngibanjwe ngaphandle kwalokho ngizifaka engcupheni yokujeziswa …”. Futhi kungase kube obsessive ”. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba ebonisa, ukucindezeleka kunomthelela ekuziphatheni kwethu. “Asiboni, kodwa indlela yethu yokuphila ivame ukuba nengcindezi. Asisihloniphi njalo isigqi somncane. Lokhu kubaholela ekuziphatheni kwesiyaluyalu. Ngezinye izikhathi benza okukhulu ngakho, bafuna nje ukutshela abazali babo ukuthi “nginakekele!” “. “Izingane zidinga ukunakwa nokwazisa okwengeziwe. “Maningi amanye amathuluzi okwenza ukuthi ulalelwe. Futhi “akukhona ukuthi asiniki isijeziso ukuthi asiniki imingcele”. Ukuzindla nge...