U-Larisa Surkova, uchwepheshe osebenzayo, ikhandidethi lesayensi yezengqondo, umama wezingane ezine kanye ne-blogger ethandwayo, uphakamise inkinga eyabamba wonke umuntu.
Cabanga emuva ezinsukwini zakho zesikole. Iyiphi into ebingajabulisi kakhulu? Hhayi-ke, ngaphandle kukasokhemisi omubi, ukuhlanzwa kwamakilasi, nokuhlolwa okungazelelwe? Mhlawumbe ngeke senze iphutha uma sicabanga ukuthi lolu uhambo lokuya endlini yangasese. Ngezikhathi zekhefu, ulayini, esifundweni, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uthisha ededela khona, ngisho nasendlini yangasese uqobo - inkathazo iyinkinga ... Ingcolile, iyadabukisa, awekho amadokodo - cishe izimbobo phansi, iminyango evulekile, futhi ayikho indlu yangasese. iphepha, kunjalo. Futhi kusukela lapho, isimo asishintshile kangako.
“Ingabe uyazi ukuthi ungaqala kuphi izinguquko kwezemfundo? Ezindlini zangasese zesikole! ”- ULarisa Surkova, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esaziwayo, wathi ngokomzwelo.
Ngokusho kukangoti, ngeke kukhulunywe ngemfundo esezingeni eliphezulu kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwezingane kuze kube yilapho izikole zinezindlu zangasese ezijwayelekile – ezinamadokodo, ama-toilet paper kanye nemigqomo kadoti. Futhi azikho izincwadi ze-elekthronikhi namadayari, abukho ubuchwepheshe obuzohlanganisa le nkinga. Ongoti bengqondo basalapha abantu abalimele ezindlini zangasese zesikole.
“Owesifazane osekhulile, cishe oneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Sinezinyanga ezine sisebenza. Umlando wempilo yomuntu siqu engaphumelelanga; ukungakwazi ukubekezelela ukukhulelwa kanye nokuzibulala okuningana ebusheni (angizange ngikhumbule izizathu, inkumbulo nokwelashwa egunjini labagula ngengqondo konke kuvinjelwe), - uLarisa Surkova unikeza isibonelo. – Ukwelashwa kusiholele kuphi? Ibanga lesithupha, indlu yangasese yesikole, alikho idokodo elikhiyekayo nemigqomo yemfucuza. Yaqala intombazane ukuya esikhathini. Wacela abangani bakhe ukuthi bambukele, kodwa lezo zinsuku ezibucayi zazingakaqali futhi babengazi ukuthi kuyini. Bayibona bayiphahlaza wonke umuntu. “
Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi azikho izinkinga ezinjalo manje. Phakathi kweziguli zikadokotela wengqondo, kukhona umfana wesikole onenkinga yokuqunjelwa kakhulu ngokwengqondo - konke lokhu kungenxa yendlu yangasese engcolile engakwazi ukuvala. Amacala anjalo, ngokusho kukaSurkova, awahlukanisiwe. Futhi inkinga ijulile kunalokho kubonakala. Cishe eminyakeni emithathu edlule kwenziwa ucwaningo kuleli, okwathi cishe amaphesenti angu-85 ezingane zesikole avuma ukuthi aziyi nhlobo ukuya endlini yangasese esikoleni. Futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu, bazama ukungadli ukudla kwasekuseni, bangaphuzi, futhi bangayi endlini yokudlela. Kodwa bafika ekhaya - futhi beza ekhishini begcwele.
Ukuze izingane zivikeleke, imingcele yazo yomuntu siqu iphulwa ngonya
“Ucabanga ukuthi baba nempilo enhle? Futhi uma ngelinye ilanga bengazigodli futhi bengabiki ekhaya? Kuzokwenzekani? Iyiphi inkazimulo? ”- ULarisa Surkova ubuza umbuzo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo siyeluleka, lapho ukhetha isikole sengane, qiniseka ukuthi ubheka indlu yangasese. Futhi uma kubi, bheka esinye isikole. Noma ngisho ukudlulisela ingane esikoleni sasekhaya. Uma kungenjalo, kunamathuba amaningi okukhulisa umuntu onamathumbu aphethwe yi-psychosomatically.
Mayelana nalokhu, abaphathi bezikole bathi konke kwenzelwa ukuphepha kwezingane: ukuze bangaziphathi kahle, bangabhemi, ukuze bakwazi ukukhipha ingane edokodweni, uma kukhona. Kodwa-ke, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo siqinisekile: izinyathelo ezinjalo zokubhema azikasindisi muntu okwamanje. Kodwa ukubonakaliswa kokungahloniphi ngokwedlulele ubuntu bomntwana kusobala.
Ngendlela, abafundi bebhulogi ye-Surkova bavumelana naye cishe ngazwi linye. “Ngakufunda lokhu futhi ngaqonda ukuthi kungani ngizama ukungadli noma ukungaphuzi endleleni. Ukuze ungayi endlini yangasese yomphakathi, ”omunye wabafundi ubhala emibhalweni. “Kuthiwani uma ekhona, ngemva komnyango okhiyiwe, ezohlela ukuzibulala, noma kuvele isifo senhliziyo noma onesifo sikashukela,” kuphikisa abanye.
Ucabangani, udinga amadokodo anezinsimbi eminyango esikoleni?