Okuqukethwe
Isiqephu seseshini ye-Wellbeing ilandiswa ngu-Anne-Laure Benattar, udokotela wengqondo. NginoLouise, intombazane eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala eklebhula izinwele zayo ...
U-Louise uyintombazane encane ejabule futhi emomothekayo, nakuba uvalo lwakhe luzibonakalisa ngokushesha okukhulu, ngendlela yokucasuka. Umama wakhe uyangichazela ukuthi uLouise waqala “ukuquleka” kusukela yena ukuhlukana okuyinkimbinkimbi noyise wentombazane encane.
Ukukhishwa kwemfihlo kuka-Anne-Laure Benattar
Lapho imizwa ethile ingenakugayeka ngemva kwesigameko esibuhlungu noma ukuhlukumezeka okukhulu, ingavezwa ngophawu.
Iseshini noLouise, eholwa ngu-Anne-Laure Benattar, udokotela wengqondo
U-Anne-Laure Benattar: Ngiyafisa ukuqonda ukuthi ubhekene nani nabazali bakho selokhu bahlukana. Ingabe uzizwa ujabule ngabo?
U-Louise: Ngiyabathanda kakhulu abazali bami, kodwa bathukuthela kakhulu, ngakho kungenza ngidabuke futhi ngicasulwe, futhi ngiklebhula izinwele zami.
A.-LB: Ingabe ubatshelile ukuthi uzizwa kanjani?
U-Louise: Kancane, kodwa angifuni ukubalimaza. Bazokhala uma bazi ukuthi ngicabangani ngabo! Bafana nezingane!
A.-LB: Kuthiwani uma sibuza ukudabuka nentukuthelo yakho? Kufana nokuthi ungumlingiswa?
U-Louise: Awu yebo ! lo mlingiswa ubizwa nge-Chagrin.
A.-LB: Kuhle! Sawubona Usizi! Ungasitshela ukuthi kungani uLouise eklebhula izinwele zakhe, iyini ukusetshenziswa kwazo?
U-Louise: UChagrin uthi kungokokubonisa abazali bakaLouise ukuthi lesi simo sinzima kakhulu ukuhlala naso futhi asiqondakali!
A.-LB: Ngiyabonga Usizi ngale ncazelo. Manje ake sibone ukuthi ingabe ingxenye yakho yokudala inayo yini imibono noma izixazululo zokushintsha lokhu kuziphatha, futhi ubonise abazali bakho ngendlela ehlukile ukuthi yini ekuthintayo. Noma yini efika emqondweni wakho!
U-Louise: Ikati elihle kakhulu, ukudansa, ukucula, ukuklabalasa, okubomvana, ifu, ukwanga nomama kanye nobaba, ngikhuluma nabazali bami.
Iseluleko sika-Anna-Laure Benattar
Ukuhlola ukuthi kwakwenzekani empilweni yengane lapho uphawu luqala ukubonakala kusiza ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi yini ebangela lokho.
A.-LB: Kuhle lokho ! Yeka ubuhlakani! Ungabonga ingxenye yakho yokudala! Manje ake sihlole no-Chagrin ukuthi iyiphi inketho engavumelana naye kakhulu: ikati elihle? Ukudansa ? Ukucula ? Yell ? Zama ukuzwa ngesixazululo ngasinye ukuthi Usizi lulungile noma cha?
U-Louise: Ekati, yebo… Ukudansa, ukucula, ukumemeza, cha!
A.-LB: Kuthiwani nge-pink? Ifu ? I-hug nomama nobaba? Khuluma nabazali bakho?
U-Louise: Kubomvana, ifu kanye nokugona, lowo yebo omkhulu. Futhi ukukhuluma nabazali bami nakho kunguyebo… kodwa nginovalo oluncane!
A.-LB: Ungakhathazeki, izixazululo zizozisebenzela ngokwazo ngesikhathi esifanele. Kufanele nje ufake kuwe izixazululo ezibizwa ngokuthi ikati, i-pink, ifu, i-cuddle nomama nobaba, futhi ukhulume nabazali bakho, ukuze Usizi lungabavivinya amasonto amabili. Angakwazi ke ukukhetha okukodwa noma ngaphezulu ukuze amiselele ukuziphatha ofuna ukukushintsha.
U-Louise: Kuyaxaka kancane umdlalo wakho, kodwa-ke ngemva kwalokho, ngeke ngiklebhule izinwele zami?
A.-LB: Yebo, ingakusiza ukuthi uthole izixazululo ukuze ube ngcono futhi ukhulule umshini osewakhiwe.
U-Louise: Kuhle ! Angisakwazi ukulinda ukuba ngcono!
Ungayisiza kanjani ingane ukuba iyeke ukuklebhula izinwele zayo? Iseluleko esivela ku-Anne-Laure Benattar
Ukuzivocavoca kwe-NLP
Le protocol ukunqampuna ngezinyathelo ezingu-6 (eyenziwe lula) ikuvumela ukuthi wamukele ingxenye ebangela uphawu futhi ubeke izixazululo zokuyibuyisela esikhundleni, ukuqinisa inhloso ngemuva kophawu noma ukuziphatha.
Khuluma ngamazwi
Thola ukuthi ingane igqokile yini imizwelo efihliwe ngenxa yokwesaba ukusabela kwabazali bakhe noma ukungabalimazi.
Izimbali ze-Bach
Ukuhlanganiswa kwe- Mimulus ngobaukukhulula ukwesaba okuhlonziwe, Apple Crab ukushintsha ukuziphatha kanye Inkanyezi yaseBetlehema ukuphulukisa amanxeba adlule kungase kube nesithakazelo kuLouise kulesi simo (amaconsi angu-4 izikhathi ezingu-4 / ngosuku ezinsukwini ezingu-21)
* U-Anne-Laure Benattar uthola izingane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala emsebenzini wakhe othi “L'Espace Thérapie Zen”. www.therapie-zen.fr