– Udokotela angase acindezeleke kakhulu, kodwa uzovuka ekuseni, aye emsebenzini, enze imisebenzi yakhe ngokungenasici, abuyele ekhaya alale, ngeke akwazi ukwenza enye into. Isebenza ngokufanayo nokulutha. Isikhathi lapho udokotela eyeka ukubhekana nomsebenzi ngesokugcina - kusho uDkt. Magdalena Flaga-Łuczkiewicz, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezempilo ophelele wodokotela nodokotela bamazinyo e-Regional Medical Chamber eWarsaw.
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Karolina Świdrak, MedTvoiLokony: Ake siqale ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu. Siyini isimo sengqondo sodokotela ePoland okwamanje? Ngicabanga ukuthi i-COVID-19 ikwenze kwaba kubi kakhulu, kodwa futhi kwenze abantu abaningi bakhuluma ngodokotela futhi baba nentshisekelo enhlalakahleni yabo. Banjani odokotela ngokwabo?
UDkt. Magdalena Flaga-Łuczkiewicz: I-COVID-19 kungenzeka yenze impilo yengqondo yodokotela yaba yimbi, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke yasenza sakhuluma ngayo ngokuzwakalayo. Kungumbuzo wesimo sengqondo esijwayelekile kanye neqiniso lokuthi izintatheli zemithombo yezindaba ehlukahlukene zinesithakazelo esihlokweni sokuthi kwakhiwa izincwadi ezibonisa lo msebenzi ngokukhanya okuzwelayo. Abantu abaningi baqala ukuqonda ukuthi uma usebenza emthwalweni onjalo awukwazi ukubhekana nawo. Ngivame ukusho ukuthi lokhu kungenye yezinkinga ezimbalwa zobhubhane: saqala ukukhuluma ngemizwa yodokotela kanye nendlela abazizwa ngayo. Nakuba isimo sengqondo sodokotela emhlabeni wonke sekuyindaba yocwaningo amashumi eminyaka. Siyazi kubo ukuthi e-USA wonke udokotela wesibili uyashiswa, futhi ePoland njalo kwesithathu, nakuba lokhu kuyidatha evela ngaphambi kwalolu bhubhane.
Nokho, inkinga ukuthi nakuba kusakhulunywa ngokutubeka kodokotela, izinkinga ezingathi sína sezizungezwe itulo lokuthula. Odokotela besaba ukucwaswa, izinkinga ezifana nezifo noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo zicwaswa kakhulu, futhi nakakhulu endaweni yezokwelapha. Futhi akuyona nje into yasePoland. Ukusebenza emkhakheni wezokwelapha akusizi ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo: Ngizizwa ngibi, kukhona okungalungile ngemizwa yami.
Ngakho udokotela ufana nomthungi wezicathulo ohamba ngaphandle kwezicathulo?
Yilokhu okuyikho impela. Nginebhukwana lezokwelapha eliphuma endlini yokushicilela yezengqondo yaseMelika phambi kwami eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Futhi kuningi okushiwoyo mayelana nenkolelo esekhona endaweni yethu yokuthi udokotela kufanele abe chwepheshe futhi athembeke, ngaphandle kwemizwa, nokuthi akakwazi ukuveza ukuthi akakwazi ukubhekana nento ethile, ngoba kungase kubonakale njengokuntuleka kobuchwepheshe. Mhlawumbe, ngenxa yalolu bhubhane, kukhona okushintshile kancane, ngoba isihloko sodokotela, isimo sabo sengqondo kanye neqiniso lokuthi banelungelo lokudliswa liyavela.
Ake sibheke lezi zinkinga ngayinye ngayinye. Ukutubeka ngokomsebenzi: Ngikhumbula ezifundweni zokusebenza kwengqondo ukuthi kuthinta imisebenzi eminingi enokuxhumana okuqondile nokuqhubekayo nomunye umuntu. Futhi lapha kunzima ukucabanga umsebenzi onokuxhumana okuningi nabanye abantu kunodokotela.
Lokhu kusebenza emisebenzini eminingi yezokwelapha futhi kwenzeka ikakhulukazi ngoba odokotela baqala ukwazi futhi babhekane nezinkinga zabantu abaningi futhi babhekane nemizwa yabo nsuku zonke. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi odokotela bafuna ukusiza, kodwa abakwazi njalo.
Ngicabanga ukuthi ukutubeka kuyisici esibalulekile futhi kungenzeka ukuthi odokotela banezinkinga eziningi ezingokomzwelo. Yini ovame ukuhlangana nayo?
Ukutubeka akusona isifo. Yiqiniso, inenombolo yayo ekuhlukaniseni, kodwa lesi akusona isifo somuntu, kodwa impendulo yomuntu ngamunye enkingeni yesistimu. Ukwesekwa nosizo kumuntu ngamunye kubalulekile, kodwa ngeke kusebenze ngokugcwele uma kungalandelwa ukungenelela kwesistimu, isibonelo ushintsho enhlanganweni yomsebenzi. Sinezifundo ezinemininingwane mayelana nokulwa nokutubeka odokotela, njenge-American Psychiatric Association, ephakamisa inqwaba yokungenelela okungaba khona komuntu ngamunye kanye nohlelo oluthize emazingeni ahlukahlukene. Amasu okuphumula nokucabangela angafundiswa odokotela, kodwa umphumela uyoba ingxenye uma kungashintshi lutho emsebenzini.
Ingabe odokotela bahlushwa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo nezifo?
Odokotela bangabantu futhi bangathola noma yini abanye abantu ababhekana nayo. Ingabe bayagula ngengqondo? Kunjalo. Emphakathini wethu, wonke umuntu wesine unokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, noma uzoba nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo - ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukulala, ubuntu kanye nokuphazamiseka kokulutha. Mhlawumbe phakathi kodokotela abasebenzayo abanezifo zengqondo, iningi lizoba ngabantu abanenkambo "engcono kakhulu" yesifo, ngenxa yento ethi "umphumela onempilo wabasebenzi». Lokhu kusho ukuthi emisebenzini edinga iminyaka yokusebenza, ukungatheleleki okuphezulu, ukusebenza ngaphansi komthwalo, kuzoba nabantu abambalwa abanokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okubi kakhulu, ngoba endaweni ethile lapho "baqhuma", bahambe. Kukhona labo okuthi naphezu kokugula kwabo, bakwazi ukubhekana nomsebenzi onzima.
Ngeshwa, lo bhubhane wenze abantu abaningi bazizwa bekhungathekile ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo yengqondo. Indlela yokwakheka kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuningi iwukuthi umuntu angase abe ne-biological predisposition kubo noma lezo ezihlobene nempilo yokuphila. Kodwa-ke, ukucindezeleka, ukuba sesimweni esinzima isikhathi eside, ngokuvamile kuyisisusa esibangela ukuba udlule iphuzu lokunciphisa, lapho izindlela zokubhekana nazo zingasenelisi. Ngaphambili, indoda ngandlela-thile ikwazile, manje, ngenxa yokucindezeleka nokukhathala, le bhalansi iyaphazamiseka.
Kudokotela, ucingo lokugcina yisikhathi lapho engasakwazi ukubhekana nomsebenzi wakhe. Umsebenzi uvame ukuba yisiteji sokugcina sikadokotela - udokotela angase acindezeleke kakhulu, kodwa uzovuka ekuseni, aye emsebenzini, enze imisebenzi yakhe cishe ngokungenasici emsebenzini, bese efika ekhaya futhi alale. , ngeke esakwazi ukwenza lutho. okwengeziwe ukwenza. Ngihlangana nodokotela abanjalo nsuku zonke. Kuyafana nangemilutha. Isikhathi lapho udokotela eyeka ukubhekana nomsebenzi ngesokugcina. Ngaphambi kwalokho, impilo yomndeni, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ubudlelwano nabangane, konke okunye kuyawa.
Ngakho-ke kuvame ukwenzeka ukuthi odokotela abanezinkinga ezinzima zokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, kanye ne-PTSD basebenze isikhathi eside futhi basebenze kahle emsebenzini.
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Ubukeka kanjani udokotela nge-anxiety disorder? Isebenza kanjani?
Ayigqama. Ugqoke ijazi elimhlophe njenganoma yimuphi udokotela otholakala emaphaseji asesibhedlela. Lokhu ngokuvamile akubonwa. Isibonelo, i-Generalized Anxiety Disorder yinto abanye abantu abanayo abangazi nokuthi iyisiyaluyalu. Ngabantu abakhathazeka ngayo yonke into, bakha izimo ezimnyama, babe nokushuba kwangaphakathi kangangokuthi kungenzeka okuthile. Ngezinye izikhathi sonke siyabhekana nakho, kodwa umuntu onesifo esinjalo ubhekana nakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, nakuba kungabonisi ngempela lokho. Othile uzohlola izinto ezithile ngokucophelela, uzocophelela, anembe kakhudlwana - kungcono nakakhulu, udokotela omkhulu ozohlola imiphumela yokuhlolwa kathathu.
Ngakho-ke lezi zinkinga zokukhathazeka zizizwa kanjani?
Indoda ebuyela ekhaya inovalo nokushuba okungapheli futhi ingakwazi ukwenza enye into, kodwa ilokhu icubungula futhi ihlola. Ngiyayazi indaba kadokotela womndeni othi uma esebuyile ekhaya azibuze ukuthi ngabe wenze kahle yini konke. Noma uya emtholampilo kusasele ihora, ngoba ukhumbule ukuthi ubenesiguli ezinsukwini ezintathu ezedlule futhi akanaso isiqiniseko sokuthi kukhona akugejile, ngakho angase ashayele lesi siguli uma kwenzeka, noma cha, kodwa angathanda ukushayela. Lokhu ukuzizwisa ubuhlungu. Futhi kunzima ukulala ngoba imicabango isagijima.
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Ubukeka kanjani udokotela ocindezelekile?
Ukucindezeleka kuwubuqili kakhulu. Bonke odokotela babenamakilasi odokotela bengqondo esibhedlela sabagula ngengqondo phakathi nezifundo zabo. Babona abantu becindezeleke kakhulu, bedumele, benganakiwe, futhi bevame ukukhohlisa. Futhi lapho udokotela enomuzwa wokuthi akafuni lutho, ukuthi akajabulile, ukuthi uvuka kanzima ukuze asebenze futhi akafuni ukukhuluma namuntu, usebenza kancane noma ucasuka kalula, ucabanga ukuthi “lokhu kungokwesikhashana. bluff". Ukucindezeleka akuqali ngokuzumayo ngobusuku obubodwa, kushunqa kuphela isikhathi eside futhi kancane kancane kuba kubi, okwenza ukuzihlola kube nzima nakakhulu.
Kuya kuba nzima ukugxila, umuntu akajabule noma akanandaba nhlobo. Noma ethukuthele ngaso sonke isikhathi, ebabayo futhi ekhungathekile, nomuzwa wombhedo. Kungenzeka ukuthi ube nosuku olubi kakhulu, kodwa uma unezinyanga ezimbi kakhulu kuyakhathaza.
- Ngabe odokotela be-forensics abafihla amaphutha abanye odokotela?
Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, iminyaka eminingi, uyakwazi ukusebenza, ukusebenza, nokufeza imisebenzi yakhe yobungcweti, kuyilapho ukucindezeleka kuba kubi kakhulu.
Yilokhu okuyikho impela. Udokotela wasePoland ngokwezibalo usebenza ezikhungweni ze-2,5 - ngokombiko we-Supreme Medical Chamber kusukela eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Futhi abanye ngisho ezindaweni ezinhlanu noma ngaphezulu. Cishe akekho udokotela osebenza umsebenzi wesikhathi esisodwa, ngakho ukukhathala kuhlotshaniswa nokucindezeleka, okuvame ukuchazwa yinhlalakahle embi kakhulu. Ukuntula ubuthongo, ukuhlale usemsebenzini kanye nokukhungatheka kubangela ukutubeka, nokutubeka kwandisa ingozi yokucindezeleka.
Odokotela bazama ukubhekana nesimo futhi babheke izixazululo ezizobasiza. Bahileleka kwezemidlalo, baxoxe nozakwabo udokotela wengqondo, bazinikeze izidakamizwa ngezinye izikhathi ezisiza isikhashana. Ngeshwa, kukhona nezimo lapho odokotela bephendukela emiluthweni. Nokho, konke lokhu kwandisa kuphela isikhathi ngaphambi kokuba baye kuchwepheshe.
Enye yezimpawu zokucindezeleka kungase kube ubunzima bokulala. UProfesa Wichniak wahlola odokotela bomkhaya ukuze balale. Ngokusekelwe emiphumeleni etholiwe, siyazi ukuthi ababili kwabahlanu, okungukuthi amaphesenti angu-40. odokotela abeneme ngokulala kwabo. Benzani ngale nkinga? Eyodwa kwamane isebenzisa amaphilisi okulala. Udokotela unencwadi kadokotela futhi anganikeza umuthi ngokwakhe.
Yile ndlela lapho i-spiral yokulutha iqala ngayo. Ngiyazazi izimo lapho othile eza kimi omlutha, isibonelo, i-benzodiazepines, okungukuthi i-anxiolytics kanye ne-hypnotics. Okokuqala, kufanele sibhekane nokulutha, kodwa ngaphansi kwakho ngezinye izikhathi sithola isimo sengqondo sesikhathi eside noma ukuphazamiseka kokukhathazeka.
Iqiniso lokuthi udokotela uyaziphilisa lifihla inkinga iminyaka eminingi futhi lihlehlise isisombululo sayo esisebenzayo. Ingabe ikhona indawo noma iphuzu ohlelweni lokunakekelwa kwezempilo lwasePoland lapho othile angatshela khona lo dokotela ukuthi kunenkinga? Angisho uzakwethu kadokotela noma unkosikazi onakekelayo, kodwa isixazululo esithile sesistimu, isibonelo ukuhlolwa kwengqondo ngezikhathi ezithile.
Cha, alikho. Umzamo uyaqhubeka wokudala uhlelo olunjalo mayelana nokulutheka kanye nezifo ezinzima, kodwa kumayelana nokuthola abantu asebevele bengasebenzi ngokwanele kangangokuthi akufanele basebenze njengodokotela, okungenani okwesikhashana.
Egunjini lezokwelapha lesifunda ngasinye kufanele kube (futhi isikhathi esiningi kube khona) i-plenipotentiary yezempilo yodokotela. Ngiyi-plenipotentiary e-Warsaw Chamber. Kodwa yisikhungo esisungulelwe ukusiza abantu abangase balahlekelwe yithuba lokuwenza umsebenzi wabo ngenxa yesimo sempilo yabo. Ngakho-ke, ikakhulukazi mayelana nodokotela abanenkinga yokulutha, abathambekele ekwelashweni, ngaphandle kwalokho basengozini yokulahlekelwa ilungelo lokuzilolonga. Kungaba usizo ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu. Kodwa lesi senzo sihloselwe emiphumeleni emibi, hhayi ekuvimbeleni ukutubeka nokuphazamiseka.
Njengoba ngiyi-plenipotentiary yezempilo yodokotela e-Warsaw Medical Chamber, okungukuthi kusukela ngoSepthemba 2019, bengizama ukugxila ekuvimbeleni. Njengengxenye yalokhu, sinosizo lwezengqondo, imihlangano eyi-10 ne-psychotherapist. Lolu usizo oluphuthumayo, kunalokho okwesikhashana, ukuqala ngalo. Ngo-2020, bangu-40 abantu abahlomule kuyo, kwathi ngo-2021 baningi abengeziwe.
Uhlelo lwakhiwe ngendlela yokuthi udokotela ongathanda ukusebenzisa usizo lwama-psychotherapists ethu aqale angibikele. Siyakhuluma, siyasiqonda isimo. Njengodokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye nodokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo, ngiyakwazi ukusiza ukukhetha indlela efanele yokusiza umuntu othile. Ngiyakwazi futhi ukuhlola izinga lengozi yokuzibulala, ngoba, njengoba sazi, ingozi yokuzibulala kodokotela iphakeme kakhulu kuzo zonke izibalo. Abanye abantu baya kuma-psychotherapists ethu, abanye ngibhekisela kubelaphi bomlutha noma ukubonana nodokotela wezengqondo, kukhona nabantu abake basebenzisa i-psychotherapy esikhathini esidlule futhi banquma ukubuyela kubelaphi babo "bakudala". Abanye abantu baya emihlanganweni eyi-10 ngaphakathi kwegumbi futhi lokho kwanele kubo, abanye, uma lokhu bekuwukuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokuqala nge-psychotherapy, banquma ukuthola umelaphi wabo kanye nokwelashwa okude. Abantu abaningi bayathanda lokhu kwelashwa, bakuthola kuyisipiliyoni esihle, esithuthukisayo, bekhuthaza abangani babo ukuthi basebenzise ithuba lakho.
Ngiphupha uhlelo lapho odokotela befundiswa khona ukuzinakekela kakade phakathi nezifundo zezokwelapha, banethuba lokubamba iqhaza emaqenjini okwelapha futhi bacele usizo. Lokhu kwenzeka kancane, kodwa namanje akwanele kulokho okudingayo.
Ingabe lolu hlelo lusebenza kulo lonke elasePoland?
Cha, lolu wuhlelo lokuphathelene ekamelweni laseWarsaw. Phakathi nalolu bhubhane, usizo lwezengqondo lwethulwa emakamelweni amaningana, kodwa hhayi kuwo wonke amadolobha. Ngezinye izikhathi ngithola izingcingo ezivela kodokotela ezindaweni ezikude.
- Iphuzu liwukuthi esimweni semizwelo enamandla - kokubili yena kanye nolunye uhlangothi - udokotela kufanele akwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo emuva futhi angene esikhundleni sombukeli. Buka lomama wengane ehayiza ungacabangi ukuthi uyayichamisa ayithinte kodwa uqonde ukuthi uphatheke kabi ngoba uyayisaba ingane, wavele wamuqopha wangayitholi indawo yokupaka noma. hamba uye ehhovisi - kusho uDkt. Magdalena Flaga-Łuczkiewicz, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezempilo ophelele wodokotela nodokotela bamazinyo e-Regional Medical Chamber eWarsaw.
Lapho ngifunda i-psychology, nganginabangane esikoleni sezokwelapha. Ngikhumbula ukuthi baphatha i-psychology ngohlamvu lukasawoti, bahleka kancane, bathi: yi-semester eyodwa kuphela, kufanele usinde ngandlela-thile. Futhi-ke, ngemva kweminyaka, bavuma ukuthi bayazisola ngokunganaki into, ngoba kamuva emsebenzini babengenalo ikhono lokubhekana nemizwelo yabo noma ukukhuluma neziguli. Futhi kuze kube yilolu suku ngiyazibuza: kungani udokotela wesikhathi esizayo ene-semester eyodwa kuphela ye-psychology?
Ngaqeda izifundo zami ngo-2007, esikhathini esingengakanani esidlule. Futhi ngibe nesemester eyodwa. Ngokunembayo: Izigaba eziyisi-7 zepsychology yezokwelapha. Kwakuyikhotha indaba, kancane mayelana nokukhuluma nesiguli, akwanele. Kungcono manje.
Ingabe odokotela manje bafundiswa phakathi nezifundo zabo izinto ezinjengokuthintana okunzima neziguli noma imikhaya yazo, ukubhekana neqiniso lokuthi lezi ziguli ziyafa noma zigulela ukufa futhi azinakusizwa?
Ukhuluma ngokubhekana nokungabi namandla kwakho kungenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu emsebenzini wezokwelapha. Ngiyazi ukuthi kukhona amakilasi esayikholoji nezokuxhumana eMnyangweni Wezokuxhumana Kwezokwelapha e-Medical University of Warsaw, kukhona amakilasi okuxhumana kwezokwelapha. Lapho, odokotela besikhathi esizayo bafunda indlela yokukhuluma nesiguli. Kukhona noMnyango wezeNgqondo, ohlela izinkundla zokucobelelana ngolwazi namakilasi. Kukhona futhi amakilasi okuzikhethela avela eqenjini le-Balint anikezwe abafundi, lapho bengafunda khona ngale ndlela enkulu, futhi engaziwa kangako yokwandisa amakhono ezokwelapha nalawo athambile, ahlobene nemizwa.
Kuyisimo esiyindida: abantu bafuna ukuba odokotela, ukusiza abanye abantu, ukuba nolwazi, amakhono futhi ngaleyo ndlela balawule, akekho oya emithini ukuze azizwe engenakuzisiza. Nokho ziningi izimo lapho singeke “siwine” kuzo. Ngomqondo wokuthi asinakwenza lutho, kumelwe sitshele isiguli ukuthi akukho esingamnika kona. Noma uma senza konke ngendlela efanele futhi kubonakala sengathi kuhamba ngendlela kodwa nokho okubi kakhulu futhi isiguli siyafa.
Kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi ukhona umuntu obhekana kahle nesimo esinjalo. Noma ngokuhlukile: omunye uzokwenza kangcono, omunye ngeke.
Ukukhuluma, "ukukhipha" le mizwa, kuyasiza ekuthululeni umthwalo. Kungaba kuhle ukuba nomeluleki ohlakaniphile, uzakwenu ophezulu osedlule kukho, owaziyo ukuthi kunjani nokuthi angabhekana kanjani nakho. Amaqembu ase-Balint asevele ashiwo ayinto enhle, ngoba asivumela ukuba sibone okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ngezindlela ezahlukene, futhi aphikisa kithi isizungu esesabekayo kanye nomuzwa wokuthi wonke umuntu ubhekana nakho futhi thina kuphela akunjalo. Ukuze ubone ukuthi iqembu elinjalo linamandla kangakanani, udinga nje ukuya emhlanganweni izikhathi eziningana. Uma udokotela wesikhathi esizayo efunda mayelana nokuhlinzwa kweqembu phakathi nezifundo zakhe, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi unalo ithuluzi elinjalo.
Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, lolu hlelo lokusekela odokotela lusebenza ngendlela ehluke kakhulu endaweni ngezindawo. Azikho izixazululo zesistimu kazwelonke lapha.
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Yiziphi izici zomsebenzi kadokotela odokotela abazibona njengezicindezela kakhulu futhi zinzima?
Inzima noma iyakhungathekisa? Kodokotela abaningi, into ekhungathekisa kakhulu ukubusa kanye nezinxushunxushu zenhlangano. Ngicabanga ukuthi noma ubani oke wasebenza noma osebenza esibhedlela noma emtholampilo womphakathi wezempilo uyazi ukuthi ukhuluma ngani. Lezi zimo ezilandelayo: iphrinta yaphuka, iphepha laphela, uhlelo alusebenzi, ayikho indlela yokubuyisela isiguli, ayikho indlela yokudlula, kunenkinga yokuzwana nokubhalisa noma abaphathi. Yiqiniso, esibhedlela ungakwazi uku-oda ukubonisana kwenye iwadi yesiguli, kodwa kufanele ukulwele. Okukhungathekisayo yilokho okuthatha isikhathi namandla futhi akukhathaleli nhlobo ukwelashwa kwesiguli. Lapho ngisebenza esibhedlela, isimiso sikagesi sasiqala ukungena, ngakho ngisakhumbula imibhalo yamaphepha, imilando yezokwelapha emiqulu eminingi. Kwakudingeka ukuyichaza kahle inqubo yokwelashwa nesifo sesiguli, usithunge, usifake izinombolo bese usinamathisela. Uma umuntu efuna ukuba udokotela, uba udokotela ukuze aphulukise abantu, hhayi ukugxiviza izigxivizo bese uchofoza ikhompuyutha.
Futhi yini enzima ngokomzwelo, ewumthwalo?
Ukungabi nakuzisiza. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuntula usizo kubangelwa ukuthi siyazi ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze, yikuphi ukwelashwa okufanele sikufake, kodwa, isibonelo, inketho ayitholakali. Siyazi ukuthi yimuphi umuthi okufanele siwusebenzise, sifunda ngezindlela ezintsha zokwelapha ngokuqhubekayo, siyazi ukuthi zisetshenziswa endaweni ethile, kodwa hhayi ezweni lakithi, hhayi esibhedlela sethu.
Kukhona nezimo lapho silandela izinqubo, sihileleka, senze esingakwenza, futhi kubonakale sengathi konke kuhamba kahle, kodwa isiguli siyafa noma isimo sibe sibi kakhulu. Kunzima ngokomzwelo kudokotela uma izinto zingahambi kahle.
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Futhi ukuthintana neziguli kubukeka kanjani emehlweni kadokotela? I-stereotype ithi iziguli zinzima, zifuna, aziphathi udokotela njengabalingani. Isibonelo, beza ehhovisi nesixazululo esenziwe ngomumo abasithole ku-Google.
Mhlawumbe ngiyidlanzana, kodwa ngithanda lapho isiguli siza kimi nolwazi olutholakala kuyi-Internet. Mina ngingumlandeli wobudlelwano bobambiswano nesiguli, ngiyathanda uma ethanda isifo sakhe futhi ebheka ulwazi. Kodwa kodokotela abaningi kunzima kakhulu ukuthi iziguli zifune ngokuzumayo ukuphathwa njengabalingani, azisaboni igunya likadokotela, kodwa zixoxa kuphela. Abanye odokotela bayacasulwa yilokhu, bangase bazizwe bedabukile ngokobuntu. Futhi kulobu budlelwano, imizwa izinhlangothi zombili: udokotela okhungathekile futhi okhathele ohlangana nesiguli ngokwesaba okukhulu nokuhlupheka yisimo esingafaneleki ukwakha ubudlelwano obunobungane, kukhona ukungezwani okukhulu, ukwesaba noma ukungabi nacala yona.
Siyazi ngomkhankaso owenziwa yi-KIDS Foundation ukuthi okunzima kakhulu ukubhekana neziguli ukuxhumana nemindeni yeziguli, nabazali bezingane ezilashwayo. Lokhu kuyinkinga kodokotela bezingane abaningi, odokotela bengqondo yezingane. I-dyad, okungukuthi ubuhlobo babantu ababili nesiguli, iba u-triad nodokotela, isiguli nabazali, abavame ukuba nemizwelo emikhulu nakakhulu kunesiguli ngokwaso.
Kuningi ukwesaba, ukwethuka, ukucasuka nokuzisola kubazali beziguli ezisencane. Uma bethola udokotela okhathele futhi ekhungathekile, abaqapheli imizwelo yomuntu onomntwana ogulayo, kodwa bazizwa behlaselwa ngokungafanele futhi baqale ukuzivikela, khona-ke izinhlangothi zombili zihlukana nesimo sangempela, ngokomzwelo, okuthena amandla. futhi iqala engakhiqizi. Uma udokotela wezingane ehlangabezana nezimo ezinjalo neziguli eziningi nsuku zonke, kuyiphupho elibi langempela.
Yini udokotela angayenza esimweni esinjalo? Kunzima ukulindela umzali wengane egulayo ukuba alawule ukukhathazeka kwakhe. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongakwenza.
Yilapho amasu okwehlisa imizwa, isb lawo aziwa ngokuhlaziywa kohwebo, esiza. Kodwa odokotela abafundiswanga, ngakho kuyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi ukwakheka kwengqondo kadokotela othile kanye namakhono akhe.
Kunesici esisodwa esinzima okukhulunywa ngaso kancane ngaso: sisebenza nabantu abaphilayo. Laba bantu abaphilayo bavame ukusikhumbuza ngothile - ngokwethu noma othile osondelene nathi. Ngiyalwazi udaba lukadokotela owaqala ukwenza izifundo ze-oncology kodwa wahluleka wukumela ukuthi kunabantu abangontanga yakhe abashonela ewodini, wazijwayeza kakhulu nabo wahlupheka, wagcina eshintshile.
Uma udokotela engazi ukuthi ungubani nesiguli kanye nezinkinga zaso, ehlangabezana nesimo sakhe mathupha, ukubandakanyeka kwakhe kuyeka ukuba nempilo. Lokhu kulimaza isiguli kanye nodokotela ngokwakhe.
Ku-psychology kunomqondo "womelaphi olimele" ukuthi umuntu ohileleke ekusizeni, evame ukubhekana nohlobo oluthile lokunganakwa, azilimaze ebuntwaneni. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho eseyingane, kwadingeka anakekele othile owayegula futhi owayedinga ukunakekelwa. Abantu abanjalo bangase bathambekele ekunakekeleni abanye futhi bangazinaki izidingo zabo.
Odokotela kufanele baqaphele - nakuba kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi - ukuthi indlela enjalo ikhona nokuthi bangabhekana nayo. Kufanele bafundiswe ukuqaphela izimo lapho bedlula imingcele yokuzibophezela. Lokhu kungafundwa ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa kwamakhono athambile ahlukahlukene kanye nemihlangano nodokotela wezengqondo.
Umbiko we-KIDS Foundation ukhombisa ukuthi kusekuningi okusamele kwenziwe ebudlelwaneni bodokotela nesiguli. Yini engenziwa yizinhlangothi zombili ukuze ukubambisana kwazo ekwelapheni umntwana kube nezithelo, kungabi naleyo mizwelo emibi?
Ngale njongo, “Ucwaningo Olukhulu lwezibhedlela zezingane” lwe-KIDS Foundation nalo lwenziwa. Ngenxa yedatha eqoqwe kubazali, odokotela kanye nabasebenzi basesibhedlela, isisekelo sizokwazi ukuphakamisa uhlelo lwezinguquko oluzokwenza ngcono inqubo yokulaliswa esibhedlela kweziguli ezisencane. Inhlolovo iyatholakala ku-https://badaniekids.webankieta.pl/. Ngokwesisekelo salo, kuzolungiswa umbiko, ongeke nje ufingqe imicabango kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwalaba bantu, kodwa futhi uphakamise isiqondiso esiqondile sokuguqulwa kwezibhedlela zibe izindawo ezinobungane kubantwana nodokotela.
Eqinisweni, akuyena udokotela futhi hhayi umzali ongenza okuningi. Okuningi kungenziwa ngesistimu.
Lapho bengena ebuhlotsheni, umzali nodokotela baba nemizwa enamandla ebangelwa ukuhlelwa kwesistimu yokwelapha. Umzali uthukuthele ugane unwabu, ngoba ulinde isikhathi eside uvakashelwa, akakwazanga ukushaya, kwaba nesiphithiphithi, bamhambisa phakathi kodokotela, kunolayini emtholampilo nendlu yangasese ewudaka okunzima ukuyisebenzisa. ,yadelela lentokazi yase reception. Udokotela, ngakolunye uhlangothi, unesiguli samashumi amabili ngosuku olunikeziwe kanye nomugqa omude wokungaphezulu, kanye neshifu yasebusuku kanye nemibhalo eminingi yokuchofoza kukhompuyutha, ngoba wayengenaso isikhathi sokukwenza ngaphambili.
Ekuqaleni, basondelana nemithwalo eminingi, futhi isimo somhlangano siwumphumela wezinkinga. Nginomuzwa wokuthi okuningi kungenziwa endaweni lapho lokhu kuxhumana kwenzeka khona nendlela izimo ezihlelwa ngayo.
Kuningi okungenziwa ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kukadokotela nomzali kunobungane kubo bonke abahlanganyeli kulobu budlelwano. Enye yazo izinguquko zesistimu. Okwesibili - ukufundisa odokotela ukubhekana nemizwa, ukungavumeli ukukhuphuka kwabo, lawa amakhono athile azoba usizo kuwo wonke umuntu, hhayi odokotela kuphela. Iphuzu liwukuthi esimweni semizwelo enamandla - kokubili yena kanye nolunye uhlangothi - udokotela kufanele akwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo emuva futhi angene esikhundleni sombukeli. Buka lomama wengane ehayiza ungacabangi ukuthi useyichamile wayithinta kodwa uqonde ukuthi uphatheke kabi ngoba uyayisaba ingane, wamuqopha wangayitholi indawo yokupaka. akayitholanga iKhabhinethi, walinda isikhathi eside ukuvakasha. Athi: Ngiyakubona ukuthi uthukile, ngiyezwa, nami ngingaba novalo, kodwa asigxile kokumele sikwenze. Lezi zinto ziyafundeka.
Odokotela bangabantu, banezinkinga zabo zokuphila, okuhlangenwe nakho kwasebuntwaneni, imithwalo. I-Psychotherapy iyithuluzi elisebenzayo lokuzinakekela, futhi abaningi engisebenza nabo bayayisebenzisa. Ukwelapha kusiza kakhulu ekungathathini imizwelo yomunye umuntu, kukufundisa ukuzinakekela, ukunaka lapho uzizwa kabi, unakekele ibhalansi yakho, uthathe iholidi. Uma sibona ukuthi impilo yethu yengqondo iyawohloka, kuhle siye kudokotela wengqondo, singakubambezeli. Nje.