Ukukhulelwa ku-20, 30 noma 40: ayikho iminyaka enhle yokuba abazali
Emcimbini wesihlanu Abazali baphikisana ngendikimba ethi “Ukukhulelwa eneminyaka engama-20, engama-30 noma engama-40: ingabe ikhona iminyaka ekahle yokuba abazali? Sibuze omama ezinkundleni zethu ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi ikhona yini iminyaka efanelekile yokuba nomntwana. Impendulo yabo: cha!
“Eminyakeni engama-20, mncane kakhulu, uneminyaka engama-30, akusona isikhathi ngoba uqala impilo yobungcweti, uneminyaka engama-40, isikhathi sesihambile ... siyakuzwa, uma sifuna. Ngakho-ke, kwabanye kusencane kakhulu (mina, kusukela ngineminyaka engu-15, ngangifuna izingane, futhi ngangazi ukuthi ngangizifuna kusenesikhathi), kwabanye kamuva. Akunandaba ngempela! Okuwukuphela kokukhathazeka iwashi lethu lebhayoloji ngoba ngezinye izikhathi, ngokulinda, lisuke seliphuze kakhulu. ” I-Rav 511
“Bengingathanda ukuba ngumama ngineminyaka engu-24 kodwa isimo asivumanga. I-Monsieur ibingakalungi. Ngokwami, ngicabanga ukuthi ayikho iminyaka efanelekile. Kungenxa ngokomlando ngamunye kanye nama-hormone ukuthi titillate. Futhi uma singaba nezingane ezinempilo kamuva, kungcono kakhulu! Siphila isikhathi eside, sihlala sisesimweni isikhathi eside futhi. ” Ikati 2012
“Angicabangi ukuthi ikhona iminyaka yokuba ngumama. Angikholelwa “ekulungeni” futhi. Uhamba kanjani ngokulungela okungaziwa ngokukhulelwa nengane? Siyafuna, kodwa ngeke “silunge” ngoba asazi kusenesikhathi ukuthi konke kuzohamba kanjani. Ngaba nenhlanhla yokwazi ukubona “okubi” okubili: umama wayenomfowethu omncane eneminyaka engu-38 kanti udadewethu omncane wayenendodakazi yakhe yokuqala eneminyaka engu-15 (uneminyaka engu-20 manje futhi ulindele ingane yakhe yesibili ngoSepthemba) . Omunye kwakufanele “abe mncane” futhi omunye “akhule”. Udadewethu uqinile, umama usethambile… Ngiyabathanda bobabili (…). Futhi emva kwakho konke, iminyaka iyinombolo nje! Asinandaba. ” Gigitte13
Bamba iqhaza engxoxweni yesihlanu yabazali! NgoLwesibili May 3, eParis, uhlelo lwesihlanu lwe " Abazali bayaphikisana “Ngetimu:” Ukukhulelwa ku-20, 30 noma 40: ingabe ikhona iminyaka enhle yokuba abazali? “. Ukuxoxa nawe ngale ndaba, simeme: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, i-psychoanalyst, kanye Mfundisi. Michel Tournaire, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane kanye nowayengumvikeli wesibhedlela sokubeletha sase-Saint-Vincent de Paul eParis. Astrid Veillon, unkulunkulu wethu oyiqhawe, ngokusobala uzolisho. Uma ufisa ukubamba iqhaza kulo mhlangano, bhalisa ngokuchofoza lapha: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |