Abazali: Kungani udale le akhawunti?
i-maviedepapagay: Ngobushoshovu kuqala. Besifuna ukunikeza ithemba kwezinye izitabane ezifuna ukuba nezingane, ukubatshela ukuthi “kungenzeka! »Futhi shintsha isimo sengqondo mayelana nokukhulisa izingane ezitabane. Ngisathola izinkulumo zokuzonda izitabane ku-Twitter, kusenomsebenzi okufanele wenziwe… Ngabe sengikwenzela impilo yami yokuxhumana nabantu. Ingilethela ukuhwebelana okuningi futhi iphinde ivuse imihlangano, amaphrojekthi.
Amadodakazi akho amathathu azalwa ngenxa ye-surrogacy (Surrogacy) e-United States, ukhulelwe kanjani?
Inzuzo ukuthi akekho kithi owabhekana nokuphazamiseka ngokomzimba kokukhulelwa (yize ngenza i-brood encane)! Kodwa sasisekhathele kakhulu. Ibanga phakathi kwethu noJill, umama obelethile, ukulinda imiphumela yokuhlolwa, izivivinyo kanye nokubeletha kwakukhathaza.
Wazizwa kanjani lapho ugone amadodakazi akho okokuqala?
Kwaba umzuzwana ngaphandle kwesikhathi. Sakuhambela kokubili ukulethwa. Kula mawele, ngalinye sabamba elinye ezingalweni zethu. Ngabuka u-Romain, ngabuka izingane… Ngangimangele ngokuphelele, kwenye iplanethi. Ngezwa ukuhlangana ngokushesha nabo. Ngahlala ngiyisikhukhukazi sikababa...
Kuvidiyo: Ingxoxo kaPierre, igama elithi @maviedepapagay
Singakanani isikhathi esidlulile phakathi kwephrojekthi yengane yakho nokuzalwa kwamawele?
Phakathi kwezinyathelo zokuqala nokuzalwa kwabadala, kungakapheli iminyaka emibili. Saba nenhlanhla, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha isikhathi eside. Sanikezwa umnikezeli ongaziwa (okufanayo kulawa mantombazane amathathu) ngokushesha okukhulu. UJill wasithinta ngokushesha futhi akazange aphuphunyelwe yisisu.
Ubunqobe kanjani ubunzima?
Saxoxa kakhulu ngalokho esikufunayo. Kube ngokuhlangana nemindeni ngenhlangano ye-ADFH * lapho sithole khona abaholayo. Sibheke i-ejensi efanele, siyethemba… Kodwa futhi iyinhlangano yezinto ezibonakalayo. Phakathi kwezindleko zokuhamba, ummeli, ophethe ukukhulelwa, kuthatha cishe ama-euro ayi-100. Ngokokuphatha, konke akulungisiwe. Sobabili sabona amadodakazi ethu. Banamaphepha omazisi, kodwa awekho encwadini yokurekhoda yomndeni wethu… Kuyahlanya.
Izingane ezintathu… uzihlela kanjani?
Okwesithathu, ngathatha ikhefu labazali (eliphela ngo-Okthoba). Ekuseni, uRomain uvame ukuyisa izingane ezindala esikoleni. Futhi ngiphatha ubusuku. Ngamaholide, sithanda ukuhamba, kodwa ngemodi ehlelekile kakhulu, yonke into igodliwe. Nsuku zonke, senza konke esingakwenza ukuze sihlale sinomusa ngisho noma ngezinye izikhathi siqhekeka, siyathukuthela njengawo wonke umuntu engicabanga ukuthi... Nginabazali bami futhi abahlala kwamakhelwane futhi abangasisiza uma kunesidingo. Ngempelasonto, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukupheka, iminyuziyamu ...
Unzima kangakanani umbono wabanye ebudlelwaneni bakho?
Uma abanye abantu bengakuthandi, asibambi. Ngodokotela, umsizi womama, inkulisa, izinto zihamba kahle. Sasisaba unyaka wokuqala wesikole, ukwamukelwa kothisha, abazali ... Kodwa sathola amamaki enhlonipho.
Ingabe amadodakazi akho abuza imibuzo ngokuzalwa kwawo?
Cha, ngoba sibatshela konke. Sikhuluma ngoJill “intokazi eyayizigqokile” ngaphandle kwamahloni. Simfonela ngezikhathi ezithile. Unesimo esikhethekile, kodwa ubuhlobo buqine kakhulu.
Bakubiza ngani?
Ubaba ! Besingafuni isidlaliso somunye wethu, “Papou” noma yini. Siyakwazisa lokhu kulingana kwesimo. Sobabili singuyise ngokugcwele.
Ingxoxo ka-Katrin Acou-Bouaziz
* Inhlangano yemindeni yobulili obufanayo. https://adfh.net/