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Ubumbano phakathi kwabazali inguqulo 2.0
Amadili amahle ahlala ezalwa ngesinyathelo esiphakathi kwabangane. Ifomula eyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kubazali abasebancane! E-Seine-Saint-Denis isibonelo, abazali abane babafundi banquma usuku olulodwa ukwakha iqembu le-Facebook. Ngokukhulu ukushesha, izicelo zobulungu zatheleka. Namuhla, leli qembu linamalungu angaphezu kuka-250, ashintshana ngolwazi noma amathiphu: “Umngane ubefuna ukuthenga izinqola ezimbili ukuze agcinwe ndawonye,” kusho uJulien, oyilungu elingumsunguli noyise wezingane ezintathu. . “Ufake isikhangiso kuFacebook. Ngemva kwemizuzu emihlanu, omunye umama wamnika inqola ayeyifuna. Abantu abanqikazi ukubuza imibuzo, bacele ikheli likadokotela wezingane okahle, noma ukuthintana nomzanyana omethembayo. ”
Ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, sihlangana ngokubambisana noma ngoba sihlala endaweni eyodwa. Lolu hlobo lwesinyathelo luhlangabezana nempumelelo eyandayo emadolobheni amakhulu, kodwa nakumaqoqo amancane. E-Haute-Savoie, i-Union Confederation of Families isanda kwethula iwebhusayithi, ethi, www.reseaujeunesparents.com, enenkundla enikelwe abazali abasebancane kuphela. Ekuqaleni konyaka, kunamaphrojekthi amaningi: ukumisa ama-workshops okudala ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane bomphakathi, ukwabelana ngesikhathi sobungane, ukuhlela izimpikiswano, ukuthuthukisa inethiwekhi yokusekela, njll.
Amasayithi anikezelwe ekusekelweni kwabazali
Awufuni ukusabalalisa impilo yakho kuwebhu noma ukubhalisa esithangamini sezingxoxo? Labo abamelana nezinkundla zokuxhumana bangaya kumasayithi anikezelwe kuphela ubumbano lwabazali. Enkundleni yokuhlanganyela ethi www.sortonsavecbebe.com, abazali banikeza uhambo ukuze babelane neminye imindeni: ukuvakashela imibukiso, i-zoo, indawo yokubhukuda noma bamane baphuze ikhofi endaweni “elungele izingane”. Umsunguli, u-Yaël Derhy, waba nalo mbono ngo-2013, ngesikhathi sekhefu lakhe lokuyoteta: “Ngesikhathi nginendodana yami endala, ngangifuna ukuzibambela mathupha, kodwa abangani bami bonke babesebenza futhi ngaba nesizungu. Ngezinye izikhathi epaki, ngangimomotheka noma ngishintshane imisho embalwa nomunye umama, kodwa kwakunzima ukuqhubeka. Ngabona ukuthi sibaningi kuleli cala. Umqondo, okwamanje ngokweParisian, uzonwebeka kulo lonke elase-France kuye ngokubhaliswa. “Konke kuyasebenza ngomlomo: abazali banesikhathi esimnandi, batshela abangane babo, nabo ababhalise. Kuhamba ngokushesha, ngoba isiza simahhala, ”kuqhuba u-Yaël.
Amasevisi adlala ikhadi le-proximity
Amanye amasayithi, njengesibonelo, ukudlala ikhadi le-proximity card. Umsizi wokunakekela izingane, uMarie ubhalise ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ezedlule, ekhohliswe umbono wokuhlangana nomama basendaweni yakubo. Ngokushesha, lo mama wezingane ezimbili ezineminyaka engu-4 nezinyanga ezingu-14 wanquma ukuba umqondisi womphakathi wakubo, e-Issy-les-Moulineaux. Namuhla, ihlanganisa omama abangaphezu kuka-200 futhi inikeza izincwadi zezindaba ezivamile, ibhokisi leziphakamiso, incwadi yamakheli enemininingwane yokuxhumana yochwepheshe bezempilo, izinkulisa kanye nabanakekeli bezingane. Kodwa uMary ufuna omama bahlangane empilweni yangempela. Ukuze enze lokhu, uhlela imicimbi, izingane noma ngaphandle kwazo. “Ngasungula 'iphathi yami yokuhwebelana' yokuqala ngoSepthemba, cishe sasiyishumi nanhlanu,” uyachaza. “Ekudayisweni kwezimpahla zezingane zokugcina bekukhona omama ababalelwa ku-XNUMX. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle ukukwazi ukuhlangana nabantu okungenzeka angikaze ngibazi ngaphambili, njengalo njiniyela wesifazane osebenza kuma-drones. Siyakwazi ukwakha ubungane bangempela. Azikho izithiyo zomphakathi, singomama futhi sizama kakhulu ukusizana.
Esimeni esifanayo somqondo, u-Laure d'Auvergne wadala Umqondo uzokhuluma nawe uma wazi i-galley ye-mom-taxi, ephoqelelwe ukwenza uhambo oluyishumi nesishiyagalombili lokubuya ngesonto ukuyisa omdala ekilasini lakhe lomdanso kanye nomncane kunabo bonke ithiyetha … Le ndawo inikeza abazali bakamasipala ofanayo ukuthi bahlangane ukuze baphelezele izingane esikoleni noma emisebenzini yazo, ngemoto noma ngezinyawo. Isinyathelo esidala ubuhlobo bomphakathi futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, sinciphisa ukukhishwa kwegesi ebamba ukushisa. Njengoba sibona, abazali abantuli emcabangweni wokunamathelana. Okufanele ukwenze ukudala iqembu lakho eduze nawe.