Okuqukethwe
Ezincwadini eziyi-10 ezicela ukubonisana, eziyi-9 ziqukethe isicelo esinegama elibi: “indlela yokuqeda, indlela yokumisa, indlela yokumisa, indlela yokungaziba …” Ukubeka imigomo engemihle kuyisifo esivamile samaklayenti ethu. Futhi umsebenzi wethu, umsebenzi wama-consultants, ukujwayela amaklayenti, esikhundleni sokukhuluma ngalokho angakuthandi, lokho afuna ukubalekela kukho, ukwenza lokho akufunayo, lokho afuna ukuza kukho, ukuwajwayeza. ukulungiselelwa kwezinhloso ezifanele.
Kufanele futhi kucatshangelwe ukuthi izicelo ezingezinhle zamakhasimende ziwaholela kalula ekuzihloleni, ekufuneni izizathu esikhundleni sokufuna izixazululo, ekufuneni okungenanzuzo kwezinkinga ngaphakathi kwawo.
Izibonelo zamagama angalungile:
Ngifuna ukuqonda ukuthi kungani iholo lami lingakhuli
Iklayenti: Ngifuna ukuthola ukuthi kungani iholo lami lingakhuli.
Umxhumanisi: Uyafuna ukuthola ukuthi kungani iholo lakho lingakhuli, noma ufuna ukuqala ukwenza okuthile ukuze iholo lakho likhule?
Iklayenti: Yebo, kunjalo. Angifuni ukukucacisa, ngifuna iholo lami likhule.
Umeluleki: Kulungile, kodwa yini, ucabanga ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe kulokhu?
Iklayenti: Kimina kubonakala sengathi ngimile, angithuthuki. Ngidinga ukuthola ukuthi yini okufanele ngiyenze ukuze ngingami.
Unganaki kanjani i-gu.e.sti yabo?
Indodakazi yami ineminyaka engu-13 ubudala futhi inenkinga yokukhulumisana kusukela ifunda ibanga lokuqala, ayinakwa nje, ifana nelahliwe. Kubukeka sengathi akenzi lutho olubi, kodwa usesaba ukusho okuthile kumuntu, ukuze angaphinde amthuke. Ngakhuluma namantombazane ekilasini, kodwa awakwazi ukusho lutho oluqinisekile. Uhlale esesimweni esibi, nami nginjalo ngenxa yakhe. Ngidinga izeluleko zokuthi ngingamchazela kanjani ukuze afunde ukungababoni, angacasuki, anganaki i-gu.e.sti yabo.
Ungayeka kanjani ukuba yi-parasite?
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Nikolai Ivanovich othandekayo, indlela yokuyeka ukuba YI-PARASITE, sengivele ngigula ngayo ngokujwayelekile ((((ngisebenza, ngi-splurge kakhulu, i-IMHO, kodwa ngithanda ukwenza kuphela lokho engikuthandayo, hhayi lokho okudingeka ngempela umsebenzi, futhi lokho okumangalisayo (kodwa, ngokusobala, hhayi ngenxa ye-parasite), lapho okuthile kungasadingeki ukuba ngikwenze, ngiphinde ngifune ukukwenza, ziphi izimpande zentando enjalo engavamile, indlela yokuhlukanisa nokubhubhisa kubo, noma ingabe sidinga ukushintsha lonke "uhlelo" futhi sibhekane ngqo nalokhu akukho phuzu?
Omunye umbuzo, ungangitshela ukuthi ngingasusa kanjani ukwesaba oyisiphukuphuku "Ngizongena ezemidlalo (kuze kube manje ngibonakala ngimncane futhi nginempilo, kodwa anginandaba), ngivele ngigule, futhi yonke imizamo zimoshekile, akukho okuzolunga, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthi ungaqali, kodwa uchithe isikhathi sento ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ekhokhelwa ngokushesha, njengezincwadi”? Ngempela, lokhu kwesaba kukhona, lokhu ukuthengwa, akunjalo? balwa kanjani?
Indlela yokuqeda ukuzimba?
Kusukela eminyakeni engu-13, umuzwa wokuzicabangela awushiyi, lokho okulotshwe esihlokweni sakho kuchaza ngokucacile isimo sami, yonke into iphinda iphindaphinde njengokungathi kuyindilinga. Indlela yokuyisusa? Ungakuyeka kanjani ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu, uyeke ukuba nomona nokuzicabangela? Siyini isizathu? Uyithathaphi lemicabango???