Okuqukethwe
Okufanele ngikwenze…
- mkhuthaze ukuthola umsebenzi omthuthukisayo: ibasketball uma emude, ithiyetha uma emncane…;
- makaveze intukuthelo noma ukudabuka kwakhe. Udinga ukuzizwa eqondwa;
- msize athole izimpendulo ezihlakaniphile zokuzindla, ngaphandle kokubuyisela ibhola komunye (” Ngimncane, pho? "," Ngimude, kuyiqiniso, njengamamodeli aphezulu! ").
Okungafanele ukwenze...
- ukunciphisa ukuhlupheka kwakhe. Gwema imisho efana nokuthi “Akuyona into enkulu …”;
- phindaphinda ukubonisana kudokotela noma ku-endocrinologist, wayezoqala ukubheka inkinga yakhe yokukhula njengesifo sangempela!
Usayizi omncane, ungelashwa!
Ukuba mkhulu noma mncane kakhulu akusona isifo. Kwezinye izingane, ukuhluka kosayizi akuyona inkinga. Ngakho-ke akusizi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuqala ukwelashwa, okuvame ukuba kude futhi kube nemingcele.
Kwezinye izimo, abazali noma udokotela abakhathazekile ngobude ingane ezofinyelela kuyo lapho isikhulile, noma ingane ngokwayo ezwakalisa ukudangala … ukwelashwa kungase kusikiselwe, kodwa akufanele kuthathwe kalula! Ukunakekelwa kuvame ukuhambisana nokulandelela okungokwengqondo. “Kumele siphathe amasayizi amancane ngokwezimbangela. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane ingenawo amahomoni egilo noma ama-hormone okukhula, kufanele inikezwe. Uma ehlushwa isifo sokugaya ukudla, ibhalansi yokudla okunempilo okufanele ayithole… ”, kuchaza u-JC. Carel.
Futhi uma sezinkulu kakhulu?
Amahomoni athile, alingana nalawo akha iphilisi lokuvimbela inzalo, anganikezwa izingane, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, lapho ziphakathi kweminyaka eyishumi nambili. Baqala ukuthomba (ukuqala kwezikhathi nokukhula kwebele emantombazaneni amancane, ukuqala kokukhula kwezinwele, njll.), futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubambezele ukukhula. Kodwa ungajabuli ngokushesha! “Lokhu kwelashwa ngokuvamile kuyekwa ngoba kunezinkinga zokubekezelelana, ubungozi be-phlebitis, ubungozi bokuzala okungalawuleki kahle. Njengamanje, isilinganiso sengozi/yenzuzo sibi, ”ngokusho kwe-JC. Carel.
Izinkinga zokukhula: ubufakazi bakho
UCaroline, unina kaMaxime, oneminyaka engu-3 1/2 ubudala, 85 cm
“Ukuqala konyaka kuhambe kahle ngaphandle komehluko omkhulu kwezinye izingane! Abanye, ngaphandle kwezinhloso ezicashile, bambiza ngokuthi “uMaxime wami omncane”… Lapho, muhle, kodwa abanye, ikakhulukazi esigcawini, bambiza ngokuthi “khipha”, “uhlekisa” njalonjalo. Imicabango yansuku zonke ivame kakhulu nakubantu abadala. UMaxime uveza okuningi okwamanje isifiso sakhe "sokukhula njengobaba". Ngimyisa kudokotela wengqondo kanye ezinyangeni ezimbili. Ngokubambisana, siqala ukulungisa umehluko. Kuze kube manje, ngicabanga ukuthi kwakungaphezu kwami konke engihlupheke ngokubuka futhi ikakhulukazi ukubonakaliswa kwabanye. Ngatshelwa ukuthi ingane encane inxephezela ubuncane bayo ngokuthatha indawo emkhathini. Ngiyakuqaphela kuMaxime: uyazi ukuthi angazenza kanjani aqondwe futhi unesihogo somlingisi! “
UBettina, umama ka-Etienne, oneminyaka engu-6 ubudala, 1m33
“Esikoleni konke kuhamba kahle kakhulu. Abangane bakhe abakaze baphawule ngaye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bavame ukucela usizo kuye ukuze babambe izinto eziphakeme kakhulu. U-Etienne akazange akhononde. Uthanda ukuthwala umfowabo omdala omfishane kunaye (1m29 iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili)! Asilinde kuze kufike isikhathi sokuthomba… Yinkathi enzima, mina ngokwami ngithwele kanzima. Ngangihlale ngimude kunabo bonke, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi kumfana kuselula kakhulu ukuhlala naye. ”
U-Isabelle, umama ka-Alexandre, oneminyaka engu-11, 1m35
“U-Alexandre unenkinga yobude bakhe ngoba akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba mncane ekilasini. Ibhola lisiza ukuthi lamukelwe kangcono… Ukuba mude akusona isibopho sokushaya amagoli! “