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Ukuthukuthela ngenxa yokwehluleka: uphawu lokukhungatheka
Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uLoulou wethu enza iphutha lapho esho izinkondlo zakhe isibonelo, uyathukuthela futhi afune ukuqala phansi kusukela ekuqaleni, ngentukuthelo enkulu. Lapho ebhala umusho oshiwo uthisha futhi wenza iphutha, ukusabela kwakhe kuyeqisa ngendlela efanayo. Aphumele ngaphandle, ngokukhombisa okukhulu ukucasuka, alahle incwadi yakhe yokubhalela phansi. Ingabe ubhekene ne-puzzle? Uphawu olufanayo lokucasuka lapho engayitholi indawo efanelekile yekamelo. U-Loulou wethu ukhungathekile, yilokho kuphela!
Siyamphelezela singayixazululi inkinga yakhe
“Kuyinto evamile ukuthi ingane ephakathi kweminyaka engu-6 nengu-8 ithukuthele uma umphumela ungafinyeleli emgomweni ezibekele yona. Ikakhulukazi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, imisebenzi yakhe yemoto ayihambisani nalokho ayekulindele lapho enza umsebenzi wokudala ", kulandisa uDavid Alzieu, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo *. Kithina, lesi simo singase sibonakale njengenganekwane. “Kodwa kuyena lokho kumele impilo yakhe yonke. Akaqondi uma etshelwa ukuthi ayi serious, ngoba yebo i serious! Ukuze amgcine eqiniseka ngamakhono akhe,Umqondo uwukusekela ingane yethu ngokuyibonisa ukuthi siyayiqonda indlela ezizwa ngayo. “Ungangabazi ukumbuza ukuthi uyaludinga yini usizo ngaphandle kokumnikeza isixazululo, okungenzeka ukuthi simcasule kakhulu”, kuchaza uDavid Alzieu.
Uzifaka ingcindezi: sihlale sizolile
Ngakho-ke akukho okufanele sikhathazeke ngakho uma lesi simo sengqondo sidlula futhi singaphazamisi. “Kuyenzeka kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kufihle ukuphatheka kabi ingane engakwazi ukuyiveza ngenye indlela. Kungaba uphawu lokucindezeleka, kokuthile ingane eyihumusha njengemfuneko ethile yabazali noma yesikole “, kuphawula isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisemtholampilo ngaphambi kokwengeza: “Izingane zikhula zenza izibuko zabadala bazo. Uma zibona abazali babo becasuka lapho bengakwazi ukuxazulula inkinga, bangase bathambekele ekuzicindezeleni ngokwabo. “. Asikho isidingo sokuzizwa unecala ngakho konke lokho. Kodwa kuhle
ukuthukuthela. “Kufanele uhlale uzolile,” kugcizelela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esisemtholampilo. Futhi sizibonisa ukuthi silalela ingane yethu.
“Lapho ingane ikhungathekile futhi inenkinga yokuhlala izolile, kufanele uqaphe ngokusetshenziswa kwakho ushukela. Ushukela owengeziwe uvame ukukhulisa imizwa. Banikeza ekuqaleni
ukuvuselela imizwa. Kodwa benza njengesidakamizwa. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, zehlisa imizwa futhi zithinte imizwelo. ” Chaza David Alzieu, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye ne-psychotherapist *
(*) Umbhali wencwadi ethi “Izimfanelo eziyi-10 ezifihliwe zezingane zethu ezizwela kakhulu”, enyatheliswa ngabakwa-Jouvence