Ngokuvamile ingane yenqaba ngokuqinile ukuzama isibindi noma inhlanzi, amakhowe noma iklabishi. Ngaphandle kokuwafaka emlonyeni, uqinisekile ukuthi unikeza uhlobo oluthile lokungcola. Siyini isizathu sokwenqaba okunjalo futhi indlela yokuqinisekisa ingane ukuthi izame into entsha? Iseluleko sikachwepheshe wezokudla uDkt Edward Abramson sizosiza abazali baxoxisane nabancane abanenkani.
Ngokushesha noma kamuva, wonke umzali ubhekene nesimo lapho ingane kufanele icele ukuzama isidlo esisha. Isazi sokudla okunempilo kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Edward Abramson umema abazali ukuthi bahlomise idatha yesayensi ekunakekeleni ukuthuthukiswa okufanele kwezingane.
Abazali benzani ukuze benze izingane zabo zizame ukudla okusha? Bayancenga: “Awu, okungenani!” noma asabise: “Uma ungadli, uzosala ungenayo i-dessert!”, uthukuthele bese, njengomthetho, uyeke. Ngezinye izikhathi baduduzwa umcabango wokuthi lesi esinye isigaba sentuthuko. Kodwa kuthiwani uma ukwenqaba komntwana kukhuluma ngenkinga engathi sína? Ucwaningo selusungule ukuxhumana phakathi kwe-neophobia yokudla - ukwenqaba ukuzama ukudla okungajwayelekile - kanye nokungabaza ukudla izithelo, inyama, nemifino ngokuthanda isitashi nokudla okulula.
Amabili kuya kweyisithupha
Ngokocwaningo, ngokushesha ngemva kokulunyulwa, ingane izimisele ukuzama izinto ezintsha. Futhi kuphela lapho eneminyaka emibili kuya eminyakeni eyisithupha iqala ukwenqaba imikhiqizo engaziwa kaningi. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungenxa yokuthi izingane ezikule minyaka zakha umbono wokuthi ukudla kufanele kubukeke kanjani. Okuthile okunokunambitha okuhlukile, umbala, iphunga noma ukuthungwa akungeni ephethinini ekhona futhi kuyanqatshwa.
I-Genetics nemvelo
U-Abramson ugcizelela ukuthi ukwenqatshwa kokudla okusha akusona neze isenzo samabomu somntwana. Ucwaningo lwamawele lwakamuva lubonise ukuthi cishe izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu ze-neophobia yokudla zinqunywa ngokofuzo. Isibonelo, uthando lwamaswidi lungazuza kumadlozi.
Imvelo nayo idlala indima - mhlawumbe isimo sengqondo sokuxwaya emikhiqizweni engajwayelekile sibhalwe ndawana thize ku-DNA yomuntu. Lesi simo semvelo sasindisa okhokho bangaphambi komlando e-poisoning futhi basiza ukuqaphela izinto ezidliwayo. Iqiniso liwukuthi izithelo ezinobuthi azivamile ukuba mnandi ekunambithekeni, zivame ukubaba noma zibemuncu.
Indlela yokunqoba i-neophobia
U-Edward Abramson umema abazali ukuthi bakhulume ngalolu daba ngendlela ehlelekile futhi bazihlomise ngokubekezela.
1. Isibonelo esihle
Ukumodela indlela yokuziphatha kungasiza ukunqoba i-neophobia yokudla. Vumela ingane ibone umama nobaba bejabulela ukudla. Kuyoba ngempumelelo nakakhulu uma iqembu lonke labantu lizodla ukudla okusha ngokujabula. Amaphathi omndeni namadili afanelekile kulo msebenzi.
2. Ukubekezela
Kudinga isineke ukusiza ingane yakho inqobe ukungabaza ukuzama ukudla okusha. Kungase kuthathe izikhathi ezingu-10 kuya kwezingu-15 ngaphambi kokuba ingane izame ukudla. Ukucindezela kwabazali ngokuvamile akuzuzisi. Uma ingane izizwa icasulwa ngumama nobaba, ukudla kuyohambisana nokucindezeleka kuyo. Lokhu kwandisa amathuba okuthi uzokwenqaba ngenkani izitsha ezintsha.
Ukuze bangaphenduli itafula lesidlo sakusihlwa libe inkundla yempi, abazali kufanele bahlakaniphe. Uma ingane yenqaba, ukudla okungajwayelekile kungabekwa eceleni futhi niqhubeke nijabulela ukujwayelene ndawonye. Futhi kusasa uphinde ummeme ukuba azame, ebonisa ngesibonelo ukuthi kuphephile futhi kumnandi.
Mayelana Nochwepheshe: U-Edward Abramson uyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sasemtholampilo kanye nombhali wezincwadi ezikhuluma ngokudla okunempilo kwezingane kanye nabantu abadala.