Okuqukethwe
«Umbelethisi ngendlela ongudokotela ojwayelekile wokukhulelwa“, Kucabanga uPrisca Wetzel, umbelethisi wesikhashana.
Uhlangothi lwabantu, amakhono ezokwelapha adingekayo kanye nenjabulo yokukwazi ukubeletha izingane kwacindezela u-Prisca Wetzel ukuba azilungisele umsebenzi wombelethisi, ngemva konyaka wokuqala wezokwelapha. Ngaphezu “konogada” ababili noma abathathu bamahora angu-12 noma angu-24 ngesonto, lo mzanyana wesikhashana oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala, ohlale eguquguquka, uyaziphindaphinda izibopho zokuhlakulela uthando lwakhe.
Umsebenzi wokusiza abantu wamasonto angu-6 eMali, ukuqeqesha abantu bendawo, wahlanganisa umdlandla wakhe. Kodwa-ke, izimo zokuzivocavoca zazinzima, kungekho kugeza, indlu yangasese, ugesi ... "Ekugcineni, ukuzijwayeza ukuzalwa ngekhandlela kanye nesibani somhume esilenga ebunzini akuyona into engenakwenzeka," kuchaza uPrisca. Wetzel. Nokho, ukuntuleka kwemishini yezokwelapha, ngisho nokuvusa usana oluzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kwenza umsebenzi ube nzima. Kodwa izimo zengqondo zihlukile: lapho, uma ingane ifa ngesikhathi izalwa, cishe kujwayelekile. Abantu bayayethemba imvelo. Ekuqaleni, kunzima ukwamukela, ikakhulukazi uma wazi ukuthi usana lwalungasindiswa ukube ukuzalwa kwenzeke ngaphansi kwezimo ezingcono kakhulu. ”
Ukuzala: yekelani imvelo
Nokho, okuhlangenwe nakho kusalokhu kucebisa kakhulu. “Ukubona abesifazane baseMaliya sebezoteta befika endaweni yokubeka imithwalo yemoto, kanti emizuzwini emibili edlule bebesasebenza emasimini, kuyamangaza ekuqaleni!”, Uhleka uPrisca.
Uma ukubuya kwakungesona isihluku kakhulu, "ngoba ujwayele ukududuza ngokushesha kakhulu", isifundo esisitholile kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe sihlala: "Ngifunde ukungangeneleli kancane nokusebenza ngokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka." Ngokusobala, izimbangela zokwenza kube lula ukuze ukubeletha kwenzeke ngosuku olufiselekayo, azimanelisi neze! "Kufanele sivumele imvelo ukuthi isebenze, ikakhulukazi njengoba lezi zimbangela zandisa kakhulu ingozi yokuhlinzwa."
Ivolontiya e-Solidarité SIDA lapho esebenza khona ekuvimbeleni nabantu abasha unyaka wonke, u-Prisca uphinde wahlanganyela neCrips (Izikhungo Zolwazi Lwengculazi Yesifunda Nokuvimbela) ukungenelela ezikoleni. Umgomo: ukuxoxisana nentsha ngezihloko ezinjengobudlelwane nabanye kanye nawe, ukuvimbela inzalo, izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi noma ukukhulelwa okungafunwa. Konke lokhu ngisalinde ukuhamba ngolunye usuku ...
Ezimweni ezingu-80%, ukukhulelwa nokubeletha "kujwayelekile". Ngakho-ke umbelethisi angakwazi ukuzinakekela ngokuzimela. Udokotela usebenza njengochwepheshe we-20% yalokho okuthiwa ukukhulelwa kwe-pathological. Kulezi zimo, umbelethisi ufana nomsizi wezokwelapha.
Ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana osanda kuzalwa, umama osemncane akavunyelwa ukuba ahambe emvelweni! Umbelethisi ubona impilo enhle kamama nengane, umeluleka ngokuncelisa, ngisho nokukhetha indlela yokuvimbela inzalo. Angakwazi futhi ukuhlinzeka ngokunakekelwa kwangemva kokubeletha ekhaya. Uma kunesidingo, umbelethisi uzophinde anakekele ukuvuselelwa kwe-perineal komama abasebasha, kodwa futhi nokuvimbela inzalo nokulandelwa kwezifo zabesifazane.
Kusukela lapho ukhetha iwadi yakho yokubeletha (umtholampilo wangasese noma isibhedlela), uhlangana nababelethisi abasebenza lapho. Ngokusobala, awukwazi ukukhetha: umbelethisi ozokwenza ukubonisana kwakho nguyena okhona ngosuku lokuvakashela kwakho ewodini lababeletha. Kuyoba okufanayo ngosuku lokulethwa kwakho.
Okunye: khetha umbelethisi okhululekile. Lokhu kuqinisekisa ukuqapha ukukhulelwa jikelele, kusukela ekumemezelweni kokukhulelwa kuze kube ngemva kokubeletha, kuhlanganise nokubeletha ngokuqinisekile. Lokhu kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukukhetha ukuqhubeka, ukulalela nokutholakala. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubuhlobo bangempela bokwethembana busungulwa phakathi kowesifazane okhulelwe kanye nombelethisi okhethwe ngokukhethekile.
Ukubeletha kungenziwa ekhaya, esikhungweni sokuzalwa noma esibhedlela. Kulokhu, inkundla yezobuchwepheshe yasesibhedlela yenziwa itholakale kumbelethisi.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, uyamenywa ukuthi uthintane nombelethisi (ewodini lababeletha noma ehhovisi lakhe) ngezinga elifanayo nelikadokotela wabesifazane, okungukuthi ukubonana nodokotela kanye ngenyanga kanye nokuvakasha kanye kokubeletha. Intengo evamile yokubonisana nokubeletha ngama-euro angama-23. I-100% ibuyiselwa I-Social Security. Ukweqa kwezimali kuhlala kuyivelakancane futhi kungabalulekile.
Kusukela ku-2009, ababelethisi babelana ngamakhono athile nodokotela bezifo zabesifazane. Bangahlinzeka ngokubonisana ngokuphathelene nokuvimbela inzalo (ukufakwa kwe-IUD, incwadi kadokotela yamaphilisi, njll.) kanye nokuvimbela izifo zabesifazane (ama-smears, ukuvimbela umdlavuza webele, njll.).
Ithini indima yombelethisi ngesikhathi ebeletha?
Kusukela ekuqaleni kwemihelo kuze kube amahora alandela ukuzalwa komntwana, umbelethisi usiza umama osanda kuzalwa futhi aqaphe inhlalakahle yomntwana. Ukuminyana kwezimoto enkonzweni kuyaphoqa, kuvame ukudlula kanye ngehora ngesikhathi sokubeletha (okungahlala amahora angu-12 ngokwesilinganiso kumntwana wokuqala). Uphinde aqaphe isimo sikamama, alawule ubuhlungu bakhe (epidural, massage, positions) kuze kufike isikhathi sokubeletha. U-80% wokubeletha uhambisana nababelethisi bodwa. Ekuzalweni, umbelethisi owamukela usana futhi anikeze usizo lokuqala. Ekugcineni, phakathi namahora amabili ngemva kokubeletha, ubona futhi ukujwayela kahle kwengane nempilo “yasemoyeni” kanye nokungabi bikho ukopha phakathi nokubeletha kukamama.
Kuthiwani ngamadoda?
Naphezu kwegama elilinganayo, ababelethisi besilisa bakhona! Lo mkhakha ubuvuleleke kubona kusukela ngo-1982. Bangaphinde bazibize “ngombelethisi” kodwa igama elithi “umbelethisi” lisetshenziswa kakhulu. Futhi ngaphandle kobulili, kusukela etymologically, "umbelethisi" kusho "ubani onolwazi lowesifazane".
Umbelethisi: umsebenzi ngaphansi kwengcindezi
Nakuba izindlela zokwenza umsebenzi wombelethisi zihlukahlukene kakhulu, izimo zokusebenza azihlali zilungile, phakathi komsebenzi wokushaya ucingo, ukuntula ukuqashelwa, njll.
Ngokuphathelene nendawo yokusebenza, ababelethisi banokuzikhethela! Cishe u-80% wabo usebenza endaweni yasesibhedlela, cishe u-12% uncamela ukusebenza endaweni yangasese (umkhuba womuntu ngamunye noma weqembu). Idlanzana likhetha i-PMI (Ukuvikelwa Komama Nengane) noma umsebenzi wokuqondisa nokuqeqesha.
«Naphezu kokuthuthuka komsebenzi, ababelethisi basathathwa njengabasizi kudokotela. Nokho, ezimweni eziningi, ukubeletha yedwa.“. Ukuthi ukukhethwa sekuye kwaba nzima kakhulu (ngemuva konyaka woku-1 wezokwelapha) nokuthi izifundo zifinyelela eminyakeni emihlanu yokufunda akubonakali sengathi azishintshile izingqondo ... Ngisho noma ukusiza ukunikeza ukuphila kuhlala, ngokusho kwabo, okuhle kakhulu umhlaba.
Ubufakazi bukamama kumbelethisi wakhe
Incwadi enyakazayo evela kumama, uFleur, eya kumbelethisi, u-Anouk, owamsiza ukuba abelethe ingane yomfana.
Mdlezane, umsebenzi onzima?
“Esibhedlela, izingqinamba ziya ngokuya ziba nzima. Nakuba bentula kakhulu ababelethisi, izibhedlela zokubeletha ngokushesha ngeke zisaba ngesilinganiso sabantu! Lokhu kubeka engcupheni ubudlelwano nokusekelwa kwesiguli… “, kuchaza uPrisca Wetzel, umbelethisi. Ukuntula ukuhlonishwa ngababelethisi?