Uyazi umehluko wezinto eziphilayo phakathi kwamakati abesilisa nabesifazane, kepha lapho ukhetha umngane wakho wesikhathi esizayo ungahle uzibuze ukuthi ngabe ucansi olulodwa lungcono yini kunokunye ukujoyina umndeni wakho. Ukwazi umehluko phakathi kokuzulazula kwabesilisa nokuhlanza abesifazane kungakusiza ukhethe ikati elifanela impilo yakho nobuntu bakho. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ube nekati lowesilisa noma owesifazane esikhundleni salokho? Ake sihlole umehluko phakathi kwamakati abesilisa nabesifazane kuqala ngaphambi kokuba siphendule kahle lo mbuzo.

Umehluko wokuziphatha phakathi kwamakati owesilisa nowesifazane ubonakala kakhulu ezilwaneni ezingakhishwa noma ezingathathi hlangothi, njengoba lokhu kwehluka kuvame ukuhlobene ne-libido yekati. Isibonelo, amakati abesilisa angaba nolaka ngokwengeziwe, achame ezindongeni, futhi azame ukweqa endlini njengoba efinyelela ekuvuthweni ngokocansi. AmaPussies, ngakolunye uhlangothi, athanda ukuba nothando kakhulu futhi amanye athambekele ekuhlikihleni cishe ngenkathi ekhuluma ngama-meows amaningi.

Yize iningi lamakati owesilisa nowesifazane angadalulwanga futhi angaqinisekisiwe ngalinye linokuziphatha kwalo okuhlukile, akukho ukuvumelana kokuthi amakati abo bobabili abesilisa nabesilisa azohlala enza ngendlela ethile. Amanye amakati ezinsikazi azomaka uma esekushiseni, kuyilapho amanye amakati wesilisa ezoba nothando kakhulu.

Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwabanikazi bamakati abangaphezu kuka-1000 yi-University of California Veterinary Education Hospital, uhlobo noma umbala wekati lakho lesikhathi esizayo empeleni kungaba yinkomba engcono yobuntu babo. Isibonelo, amakati anamajazi anombala wofudu anombala onjengegobolondo futhi anamandla. Kodwa-ke, iningi labanikazi bekati kanye nodokotela bezilwane bazokutshela ukuthi ukukhetha ikati ngokususelwa ebulilini noma kumbala ngeke kuqinisekise ukuthi uzothola ikati eliganga noma ikati elizimele. Isimo lapho ikati lizalwa khona, kanye nobuntu babazali, kuzoba nomthelela omkhulu ekuziphatheni kunofuzo.

Ubulili ngabunye bunezinzuzo nobubi bazo obuhambisana nabo:

• Amakati abesilisa ajwayele ukuba makhulu kakhulu kunabesifazane;
• Amakati wonke wesilisa kwesinye isikhathi agcobhoza umchamo ezindongeni ukumaka indawo yawo, kanye ne-meow ukuheha abesifazane (lokhu ngokuvamile akusabi yinkinga uma ungaphumi kuye);
• Abesifazane bavame ukugcinwa kakhulu kunabesilisa, kepha mancane kakhulu amathuba okuthi bachame;
• Abesifazane bavame ukukhala lapho bengena ekushiseni futhi bangakhulelwa ngaphambi konyaka wabo wokuqala - khuluma nodokotela wezilwane wakho ngokuchitha owesifazane wakho.

Ngokombono wezempilo, ngaphandle kwalapho ufuna ukuzizala impela, kunconywa kakhulu ukuthena abesilisa noma ukuvala inzalo abesifazane. Lokhu kugwema ukuzalanisa okungaholela ekubalekeni noma ekulweni (ngokulimala) emadodeni, kanye nodoti ongafuneki kwabesifazane, namazinyane okuzodingeka amukelwe.

Ukusakazwa kowesilisa kubiza kancane kunokuvala inzalo yowesifazane, ngoba ukuhlinzwa kulula futhi kuyashesha ukukwenza. Cela iseluleko kudokotela wezilwane wakho.

Futhi uma kungene i-neutered, umehluko phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane awusekho, ngoba awasekho ngaphansi kwethonya lamahomoni awo.

Izinhlobo zekati ngokuvamile kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa kunezinhlobo zezinja. Izinyane lekati lakho lesikhathi esizayo lingaba nokuxubana kwezici, umbala ohlukile, nebhantshi elide noma elifushane. Njengakwezilwane eziningi ezincelisayo, amakati wesilisa azo zonke izinhlobo avame ukuba makhulu kakhulu kunabalingani bawo besifazane. Kodwa-ke ngokujwayelekile, izinhlobo zihlala zilingana, amakati abesilisa nabesifazane anesisindo esiphakathi kuka-4 no-6 kg, futhi angaba ngu-20 kuye ku-25 cm ukuphakama. Uhlobo lokudla ondlisa ikati lakho, inani lokuzivocavoca azolivocavoca, kanye nempilo yakhe iyizinto ezizoba nomthelela omkhulu ekwakhekeni komzimba wakhe.

Ukukhetha ikati ngokubukeka akulungile. Uma ufuna ukuletha ikati elisha ekhaya lakho, vakashela isikhungo sokutholwa esinikela ngeminyaka ehlukahlukene yekati, izinhlobo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ubuntu. Izikhungo eziningi zinekhasi le-web elinezithombe zamazinyane ongawabuyekeza ngaphambi kokuwavakashela, futhi abasebenzi bezindawo zokukhosela bazokwazi ukukuchazela ngomlingiswa wekati.

Uma uqala ukuhlangana nekati, hlala eduze kwalo ulinde ukuthi lifike kuwe. Vumela ikati lihlikihle futhi likunikeze iziqubu ezimbalwa zokukhanya, bese uliqaphela ngaphambi kokulithinta noma ukulicosha. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqale umvumele aveze isimilo sakhe ngaphandle kokumthonya ngezenzo nangamazwi akho. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho uzokwazi ukubona ukuthi usabela kanjani kuziphakamiso zakho zokuxhumana. Futhi njalo yenza isikhathi namakati amaningi ahlukene, ukuqhathanisa nokuthola okukukhanga kakhulu. Ezinye izinto azikwazi ukuchazwa kepha ziyathinteka.

Iqiniso liwukuthi, ubulili bekati abunandaba uma kukhulunywa ngokukhetha ukuthi yisiphi isilwane okufanele uhlanze ngaso. Ngenkathi kunokwehluka kokuziphatha phakathi kwamakati abesilisa nabesifazane njengoba bekhula bekhula futhi besuka esigabeni sezinyane lekati kuya esigabeni sabantu abadala, izakhi zofuzo lekati nemvelo kudlala indima enkulu ekutheni ubuhlobo bakho bukhula kanjani. izofaka. Ngakho-ke, zinike isikhathi sokuhlangana namakati ambalwa bese ukhetha eyodwa ocabanga ukuthi izoba ngumngane wakho omkhulu. Umehluko phakathi kwamakati abesilisa nabesifazane kufanele udlale indima encane kuphela ekukhetheni ikati.