Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngenyanga, owesifazane "akaphilile" ngokuya kwakhe esikhathini. Uma abanye bebona egazini nasebuhlungwini bokuya esikhathini obuzwakala ngalesi sikhathi izithiyo ezingenakulungiswa ekuhlanganyeleni ukuya ocansini, abanye ngokuphambene nalokho baziyeke bajabule. Ingabe ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini kuyingozi? Ungasibheka kanjani isenzo socansi?

Iningi lemibhangqwana lithi liyabugwema bonke ubulili phakathi nesikhathi sowesifazane. Kunezizathu eziningana zokuzithiba ngezikhathi ezithile:

• Kwabanye, ukubona igazi akukhuthazi ukuvusa inkanuko, kunalokho. Ngisho umthondo wesithandwa sakhe ogcwele igazi ungabhuleka esifisweni.
• Kwabanye, isici esisebenzayo esivimbela umdlandla: ukwenza uthando ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ikakhulukazi maphakathi nokuya esikhathini lapho kuningi kakhulu, kubandakanya ukufaka amashidi, umzimba nezingubo.
• Isizathu sokugcina esivumela ukungadli ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ubuhlungu bokuya esikhathini obuzwiwa ngabesifazane abathile. Ubuhlungu obukhulu besisu, isicanucanu, i-migraine ephikelelayo noma ukukhathala okukhulu, abesifazane abekho esikhathini esanelisa kakhulu emjikelezweni wabo.

Kodwa-ke, ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini kungenzeka futhi akulethi ubungozi obuningi kunangesikhathi sonke sokuya esikhathini. 

Empeleni, owesifazane uvuthwa cishe izinsuku eziyishumi nane ngaphambi kwesikhathi sakhe: ngakho-ke uvundile futhi angakhulelwa ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini okwabiwe cishe ngosuku lweshumi nane ngaphambi kwesikhathi sakhe. I-priori, alikho ithuba lokukhulelwa ngenkathi wenza ucansi ngesikhathi sakho.

Kodwa-ke, abanye besifazane babhekana nomjikelezo ophula imithetho kanti esinye isidoda sinesikhathi eside sokuphila. Lapho umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini uphazamiseka, kungenzeka - noma ngabe le mbono ingavamile - ukuthi isikhathi se-ovulation seqa leso semithetho: owesifazane ube esengcupheni yokukhulelwa ngesikhathi socansi olungavikelekile ngesikhathi sakhe. Lapho abalingani bengayifuni ingane, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukusebenzisa izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo ezisebenzayo nangesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le ndlela yokuvikelwa uma kukhulunywa ngekhondomu nayo ingaba wusizo ekuvimbeleni ama-STD… 

Igazi liyi-vector eyinhloko yezifo. Ngakho-ke, izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi zisakazeka kangcono kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuthi abalingani basebenzise ikhondomu, evikela ukuthintana negazi, ukuvikela ubungozi bama-STD - ngaphandle kokuthi umbhangqwana uhlolwe ezinyangeni ezingaphambi kokuya ocansini.

Abesifazane nabesilisa abanesifiso sobulili esisezingeni eliphakeme ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini lokhu kukhona. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwenza uthando ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini akulethi ubungozi obuthile, kanti isitho sowesifazane sangasese asiguqulwanga kuze kube sezingeni lokuvimbela ukungena noma ukwenza ucansi lube buhlungu. Ngaphansi kwale mibandela, kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ukukhuthaza ubulili, ezinye izindlela zokuqapha zingathathwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Yazisa umlingani wakhe.

Uma ukumangala kukwenza kube nokwenzeka ukunonga impilo yabashadikazi, ukumangaza umlingani wakho ngokwehluleka ukumxwayisa ukuthi uyaya esikhathini akusho ukuthi kuveze owesifazane emiphumeleni eqinisekile… Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuxhumana nowesifazane . okunye, ukwenza ababili isinqumo sokwenza uthando ngesikhathi semithetho noma ukuyeka.

Lungisa indawo.

Ukugwema ukuphazanyiswa ukubona umthamo omkhulu wegazi, lo mbhangqwana ungahlela ukuba namathawula we-terry - ukugwema okumhlophe - emashidini abo. Owesifazane kufanele futhi aqaphele ukususa itampon yakhe, uma kunesidingo, ukugwema isimanga esingesihle neze ngesikhathi sokungena. Ekugcineni, kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukulinda kuze kuphele isikhathi sakho, ngenqwaba encane.

Shintsha ubuhlobo bezocansi.

I-clitoris itholakala ngaphezu komnyango wesitho sangasese lapho igazi ligeleza khona esikhathini sowesifazane. Kodwa-ke, akuvamile ukwenza i-cunnilingus ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, leli yithuba elithathwa eminye imibhangqwana ukuhlola ubulili bendunu.