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Umelaphi wezinkulumo uchwepheshe wezokuxhumana.
Isiza iziguli ezinobunzima bokuziveza ngomlomo nangokubhala.
Thola izimpawu eziyinhloko zokuphazamiseka kolimi ezidinga ukubonisana.
Ukuphazamiseka kolimi: amacala okufanele akubeke uqaphile
Eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala. Akakhulumi neze, noma ngokuphambene kakhulu, kodwa udla amazwi kangangokuthi akekho omqondayo, noma abazali bakhe, noma uthisha wakhe futhi uhlupheka ngakho.
Eminyakeni engu-4 ubudala. Ingane ehlanekezela amagama, ingakhi imisho, isebenzisa izenzo ngolimi olungapheli futhi isebenzisa ulwazimagama olubi. Noma ingane engingizayo, ayikwazi ukuqala imisho, ukuqeda amagama, noma ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokwenza umzamo omkhulu.
Eminyakeni engu-5-6. Uma eqhubeka nokukhipha ifonime kabi (isb: ch, j, l) engxenyeni enkulu, kuyadingeka ukubonisana ukuze ingane ingene ku-CP ngokubiza kahle, ngaphandle kwalokho ibeka engozini yokubhala njengoba ikhuluma. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, zonke izingane ezizalwa ziyisithulu noma ukukhubazeka okuphawulekayo njenge-trisomy 21 ziyazuza ekwelashweni kusenesikhathi.
Anjani amaseshini nomelaphi wenkulumo?
Okokuqala, lo chwepheshe wokuvuselela ulimi uzobheka amakhono kanye nobunzima bengane yakho. Phakathi nalo mhlangano wokuqala, ngokuvamile lapho ukhona, umeluleki wezinkulumo uzohambisa ingane yakho ezivivinyweni ezihlukahlukene zokukhuluma, ukuqonda, izakhiwo zemisho, ukubuyiselwa kwendaba, njll. Kuye ngemiphumela yalezi zivivinyo, uzobhala umbiko, ukukunikeza ukwesekwa okufanele bese ufaka isicelo sesivumelwano sokuqala noMshwalense Wezempilo.
Ukuphazamiseka kolimi: ukuvuselelwa okuguquliwe
Konke kuncike Yebo ubunzima bengane. Lowo okhuluma kalula futhi adideke kuphela imisindo ethi "che" nethi "I" (okunzima kakhulu) uzophulukiswa ngezikhathi ezimbalwa. Kanjalo nomntwana “okhothayo” uzosheshe afunde ukulubeka phansi ulimi angabe esalufaka phakathi kwamazinyo, ngokushesha nje lapho evuma ukunikeza isithupha sakhe noma i-pacifier yakhe. Kwezinye izingane, ukuvuselela kungase kuthathe isikhathi eside, kodwa into eyodwa iqinisekile: ngokushesha lezi zinkinga zitholwa, imiphumela izoba ngokushesha.
Umelaphi wezinkulumo: imbuyiselo yokuvuselela
Amaseshini okubuyisela esimweni nomelaphi wenkulumo ambozwa Umshuwalense Wezempilo ngesisekelo sama-60% wentela Yezokuphepha Komphakathi, u-40% osele umbozwa yizikhwama ezihlangene. Ngakho-ke i-Social Security izobuyisela u-€ 36 weshidi lebhalansi lama-€ 60.
Iseshini yokuvuselela ithatha isigamu sehora.
Iziyaluyalu zolimi: 5 amathiphu ukukusiza
- Ungahleki ngaye, ungamgconi phambi kwabanye, ungayigxeki indlela akhuluma ngayo, futhi ungalokothi umenze ayiphinde.
- Khuluma nje. Vele ubeke kabusha umusho wakhe ngendlela efanele futhi ugweme ulimi “lwengane”, noma ngabe uluthola luhle lokho.
- Mnikeze imidlalo ezomkhuthaza ukuthi aziveze futhi ashintshisane. Ilotho yezilwane noma ezohwebo, isibonelo, izomvumela ukuthi aphawule ngalokho akubonayo ekhadini lakhe, lapho ekubeka khona, njll. Mtshele izindaba ngokuphindaphindiwe, ezivela emazweni ahlukene, ukuze anothise isilulumagama sakhe.
- Puphuthelwe ukufunda ngokungaqondile. Lapho umfundela indaba, sika umusho “uwenze izingcezu ezincane” bese umcela ayiphinde ngemva kwakho. Umusho owodwa kuphela esithombeni ngasinye wanele.
- Dlalani imidlalo yokwakha ndawonye noma qamba imidwebo enezinhlamvu ezincane futhi uphakamise ukuthi idlulise "ngaphansi", ibeke "phezulu", ifake "ngaphakathi", njalonjalo.
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