Uyazi lokhu: awuzange ube buthakathaka kakhulu futhi ucasule othile, futhi inkumbulo yalesi senzakalo ikuhlukumeza eminyakeni eminingi kamuva? U-Blogger u-Tim Urban ukhuluma ngalo muzwa ongenangqondo, aqhamuke negama elikhethekile — «ukhiye».
Ngelinye ilanga ubaba wangixoxela indaba ehlekisayo kusukela ebuntwaneni bakhe. Wayehlobene noyise, umkhulu wami, manje ongasekho, indoda ejabule futhi enomusa kunabo bonke engake ngahlangana nabo.
Ngenye impelasonto, umkhulu wami weza nebhokisi lomdlalo omusha webhodi. Yayibizwa ngeClue. Umkhulu wakujabulela kakhulu ukuthenga futhi wamema ubaba nodadewabo (ngaleso sikhathi ababeneminyaka engu-7 nengu-9 ubudala) ukuba bazodlala. Wonke umuntu wahlala eduze kwetafula lasekhishini, umkhulu wavula ibhokisi, wafunda imiyalelo, wachazela izingane imithetho, wahambisa amakhadi futhi walungisa inkundla yokudlala.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba baqale, kwakhala insimbi yomnyango: izingane zakwamakhelwane zabiza uyise nodadewabo ukuba bazodlala egcekeni. Labo, ngaphandle kokunanaza, basuka ezihlalweni zabo bagijimela kubangane babo.
Laba bantu ngokwabo bangase bangahlupheki. Akukho okubi okwenzeka kubo, kodwa ngasizathu simbe ngikhathazeke kabuhlungu ngabo.
Lapho bebuya ngemva kwamahora ambalwa, ibhokisi lomdlalo lase libekwe ekamelweni. Khona-ke ubaba akazange anamathisele ukubaluleka kwale ndaba. Kodwa isikhathi sahamba, futhi wayelokhu emkhumbula, futhi isikhathi ngasinye wayezizwa engakhululekile.
Wacabanga ukuthi umkhulu wakhe usele yedwa etafuleni elingenalutho, edidekile ukuthi umdlalo unqanyulwe ngokuzumayo. Mhlawumbe wahlala isikhashana, wabe eseqala ukuqoqa amakhadi ebhokisini.
Kungani ubaba wangitshela le ndaba? Wagqama engxoxweni yethu. Ngazama ukumchazela ukuthi ngihlupheka ngempela, ngizwelana nabantu ezimweni ezithile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, laba bantu ngokwabo bangase bangahlupheki nhlobo. Akukho okubi okwenzeka kubo, futhi ngesizathu esithile ngiyakhathazeka ngabo.
Ubaba wathi: “Ngiyakuqonda okushoyo,” futhi wakhumbula indaba ephathelene nomdlalo. Kwangimangaza. Umkhulu wayengubaba onothando, wayekhuthazwa umcabango walo mdlalo, futhi izingane zamdumaza kakhulu, zakhetha ukukhuluma nontanga yakhe.
Umkhulu wayephambili phakathi neMpi Yezwe II. Kumelwe ukuba ulahlekelwe amaqabane, mhlawumbe abulawe. Cishe, yena ngokwakhe walimala - manje ngeke kwaziwe. Kodwa isithombe esifanayo siyangikhathaza: kancane kancane umkhulu ubuyisela izingcezu zomdlalo ebhokisini.
Ingabe izindaba ezinjalo azivamile? UTwitter usanda kuqhuma udaba ngowesilisa omeme abazukulu bakhe abayisithupha ukuthi bamvakashele. Babengahlali ndawonye isikhathi eside, futhi ikhehla lalibalindele ngabomvu, laziphekela lona amabhega ayi-12 … Kodwa umzukulu oyedwa kuphela owafika kuye.
Indaba efanayo ne-Clue yomdlalo. Futhi isithombe sale ndoda edabukisayo ephethe i-hamburger esandleni sayo yisona sithombe «sokhiye» kakhulu ongasicabanga.
Ngacabanga ukuthi leli khehla elimnandi kakhulu liya esitolo, lithenge konke elikudingayo ekuphekeni, nomphefumulo walo ucule, ngoba libheke ngabomvu ukuhlangana nabazukulu balo. Khona-ke ufika kanjani ekhaya futhi ngothando enze lawa mabhega, anezele izinongo kuwo, athose amabhanisi, ezama ukwenza yonke into iphelele. Uzenzela owakhe u-ayisikhilimu. Bese konke kuhamba kabi.
Cabanga nje ukuphela kwalobu busuku: ukuthi ugoqa kanjani ama-hamburger angadliwanga ayisishiyagalombili, awabeke esiqandisini ... Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ekhipha elinye lawo ukuze azifudumeze, uzokhumbula ukuthi waliwe. Noma mhlawumbe ngeke azihlanze, kodwa azilahle ngokushesha emgqonyeni kadoti.
Okungisizile ukuthi ngingalilahli ithemba uma ngifunda le ndaba ukuthi omunye wabazukulu bakhe wafika kumkhulu wakhe.
Ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu akunangqondo akukwenzi kube lula ukuzwa "ukhiye"
Noma esinye isibonelo. Isalukazi esineminyaka engu-89, sigqoke kahle, siye lapho kuvulwa umbukiso waso. Yini futhi? Akufikanga nesisodwa izihlobo. Waqoqa imidwebo wahamba nayo ekhaya, evuma ukuthi uzizwa eyisiwula. Uke wabhekana nalokhu? Kuwukhiye omkhulu.
Abenzi befilimu baxhaphaza "ukhiye" kuma-comedies anamandla amakhulu - khumbula okungenani umakhelwane omdala ovela ku-movie ethi "Home Alone": amnandi, anesizungu, angaqondakali. Kulabo abakha lezi zindaba, «ukhiye» nje iqhinga elishibhile.
Ngendlela, "ukhiye" abuhlotshaniswa nabantu abadala. Cishe eminyakeni emihlanu edlule kwenzeka okulandelayo kimi. Lapho ngiphuma endlini, ngahlangana nezithunywa. Walenga emnyango ephethe inqwaba yamaphasela, kodwa wangakwazi ukungena emnyango - ngokusobala, owayekhulumela wayengekho ekhaya. Abone ukuthi ngivula isicabha waphuthuma kuye, wangaba naso isikhathi, wavele wamubhaklaza. Wamemeza ngemva kwami: “Ungangivulela umnyango ukuze ngilethe amaphasela emnyango?”
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ezimweni ezinjalo kudlula isilinganiso sedrama, cishe izikhathi ezingamashumi ezinkulungwane.
Ngangiphuzile, umoya wami wawubuhlungu, ngase ngihambe amagxathu ayishumi. Ephendula ephonsa: "Ngiyaxolisa, ngiyaphuthuma," waqhubekela phambili, ekwazile ukumbheka ngekhoneni leso lakhe. Wayenobuso bomuntu omuhle kakhulu, edangele ukuthi izwe lingenaluzwela kuye namuhla. Ngisho namanje lesi sithombe simi phambi kwamehlo ami.
"Ukhiye" empeleni yinto eyinqaba. Kungenzeka ukuthi umkhulu wakhohlwa ngesigameko sikaClue kungakapheli ihora. I-Courier ngemva kwemizuzu emi-5 ayizange ingikhumbule. Futhi ngizizwa «ukhiye» ngisho nangenxa yenja yami, uma ecela ukudlala naye, futhi anginaso isikhathi sokuyiphusha. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ezimweni ezinjalo kudlula isilinganiso sedrama, mhlawumbe izikhathi ezingamashumi ezinkulungwane.
Ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu akunangqondo akwenzi isipiliyoni “sokhiye” sibe lula. Ngizozizwa ngi “khiye” impilo yami yonke ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene. Okuwukuphela kwenduduzo yisihloko esisha ezindabeni: “Umkhulu odabukisayo akasadabuki: hamba uye kuye uyokwenza ipikiniki. izinkulungwane zabantu».