Okuqukethwe
Sonke sibhekana nezikhathi zesizungu ngendlela ehlukile. Abanye bajabulela inkululeko futhi badlala ngothando nabanye. Abanye abacabangi nakukucabanga ngakho futhi baphila ukuphila kwabo bodwa. Nokho, abaningi bakubona kabuhlungu ukungabi khona komlingani. Le mizwa ingathuthukiswa eholidini elikhazimulisa uthando, inyunyana, umndeni - emshadweni wabangane.
Ihlobo isikhathi sokushiswa kwelanga, amaphathi olwandle, ama-cocktails ashisayo nemishado. Imikhosi emihle, izindawo zokudlela ezinokudla okumnandi nokudansa uze uwise. Siba ofakazi balezi zikhathi ezijabulisa kakhulu nezikhumbulekayo empilweni yabasanda kushada futhi singazijabulela ngempela. Ngombandela owodwa: uma singesodwa.
Uma kungenjalo, thina, yebo, singajabula umakoti nomkhwenyana, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukujabulela okwenzekayo. Kukhona imibhangqwana ejabule yonke indawo lapho ubheka khona. Konke mayelana naleli holidi kusikhumbuza ngesimo sethu esidabukisayo, futhi kubonakala sengathi yithi sodwa abangenaye umlingani amakhilomitha amaningi ...
Yini engakusiza ugweme ukucindezeleka? Kusihlwa endaweni yokucima ukoma ufuna i-adventure? Buyela ku-Tinder? Kodwa kuthiwani uma ungafuni ubuhlobo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ucindezelwe umuzwa wesizungu? Nazi izindlela ezintathu zokusinda zabashadile ngesikhathi somshado.
1. Ziphinde: “Kulungile ukuba wedwa.”
Akumele ube nomuntu. Uma ungenaso leso sidingo, kodwa ucabanga ukuthi «kufanele» uthole umuntu, mahle amathuba okuthi uzoba nothile ongenandaba nawe, unamathele ebuhlotsheni obungeke bulethe imfudumalo. .
Ukuba wedwa kunezinzuzo zako. Akudingekile ukuba ucabangele izifiso zomunye umuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukhululekile ukulandela amaphupho akho futhi uwenze afezeke. Lokhu kusebenza ekukhethweni kokudla, kanye nohambo oluya emikhosini - yebo, noma yini!
2. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala
Mhlawumbe umshado wabangane uzoshintsha inkambo yemicabango yakho, futhi uzonquma ukuthi ukhathele isizungu futhi ufuna ubuhlobo. Awu, kuhle! Mhlawumbe eduze kwakho sekukhona umuntu okwenza uzwele. Sekuyisikhathi sokuba nesibindi futhi umcele ukuba niphole.
Uma umuntu onjalo engekho, zama amafomethi amasha okuqomisana: amasayithi, "ukusheshisa ukujola". Zama ukuvuleka kakhudlwana, ukuxhumana kakhulu nabanye — mathupha kanye naku-inthanethi. Awazi ukuthi uthando lungaba kuphi.
3. Shintsha ukunaka futhi wenze umsebenzi wakho ozithandayo
Uma unesikhathi esiningi samahhala, ungaziphonsa entweni oyithandayo - ngokwesibonelo, buyela emsebenzini wokuzilibazisa. Awukafundi ukudlala izingoma ezinzima esigincini? Uhlale uphupha ngokuzama ukutshuza? Thola okuthile okuthandayo okuzokwenza ukhohlwe isizungu kuze kube phakade noma okungenani kuze kube umshado olandelayo wabangane.