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Umqondo wokuthi izingane ezincane zingabantu abazamazama kakhudlwana ungomunye wemibono eminingana echaza indlela izikhundla zomkhaya ezisithinta ngayo njengabantu abadala. Umbono odume nakakhulu, futhi cishe okuyiqiniso, ukuthi izibulo linesipiliyoni seminyaka eminingi njengesikhulu ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi libe umholi.
Ubufakazi besayensi kule ndawo bubuthakathaka. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ukuba khona kwezelamani (noma ukuntuleka kwazo) akunawo umthelela kithi. Ubufakazi bakamuva buphakamisa ukuthi igebe lobudala phakathi kwezelamani, isilinganiso sabafana namantombazane, kanye nezinga lobudlelwano phakathi kwezingane kubalulekile.
Ukuphikisana ngokuthi ubani ogibela isihlalo esingaphambili semoto noma olala kuze kuhlwe kubalulekile empeleni. Ukulwa nokuxoxisana kwezelamani kungasiza ngempela ukuhlomisa amakhono akho awusizo.
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Kunezihloko eziningi ezimangalisayo ku-inthanethi ezithi amazibulo maningi amathuba okuthi abe ngabaholi. Lo mbono uqinisekiswa ezimweni ezihlukene: abaholi baseYurophu u-Angela Merkel no-Emmanuel Macron, isibonelo, bangamazibulo, njengoba kunjalo nomongameli bamuva baseMelika uBill Clinton, uGeorge W. Bush noBarack Obama (noma bakhuliswe kanjalo - u-Obama wayenengxenye endala. -izingane zakubo angahlali nazo). Ezweni lebhizinisi, uSheryl Sandberg, uMarissa Mayer, uJeff Bezos, u-Elon Musk, uRichard Branson babengabokuqala ukuzalwa, ukubiza nje abambalwa be-CEO abadumile.
Nokho izifundo ezimbalwa ziye zachitha umbono wokuthi uhlelo lokuzalwa luyalolonga ubuntu bethu. Ngo-2015, izifundo ezimbili ezinkulu azitholanga ukuhlobana okubalulekile phakathi kokuhlelwa kokuzalwa kanye nezici zobuntu. Kwesinye isigameko, uRodica Damian noBrent Roberts baseNyuvesi yase-Illinois bahlola izici zobuntu, ama-IQ, kanye nohlelo lokuzalwa lwabafundi abacishe babe ngu-400 basesikoleni esiphakeme saseMelika. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Julia Rohrer waseNyuvesi yaseLeipzig nozakwabo bahlola i-IQ, idatha yobuntu kanye ne-oda lokuzalwa kwabantu abacishe babe ngama-20 e-UK, e-US naseJalimane. Kuzo zombili izifundo, kutholwe ukuhlobana okuncane okuncane, kodwa bekungabalulekile ngokubaluleka kwazo okusebenzayo.
Omunye umqondo odumile ohlobene nokuhleleka kokuzalwa ukuthi izingane ezincane zisengozini enkulu - kodwa lesi simangalo saphinde saphikiswa lapho u-Tomás Lejarraga wase-University of the Balearic Islands kanye nozakwabo bengatholanga kuhlotshaniswa okubalulekile phakathi kokuzamazama nokuhleleka kokuzalwa.
Ukuthanda abafowethu nodadewethu kuyasiza
Ukungabi nezibulo noma umphumela omncane akusho ukuthi indima yakho kubaphathi bomndeni ayikakubumbi. Kungaba uhlobo olukhethekile lobudlelwano bakho kanye neqhaza lakho esakhiweni samandla omndeni. Kodwa futhi, njengoba ososayensi bephawula, ukuqapha kuyadingeka - uma uthola ukuxhumana phakathi kobudlelwane bezelamani nokuziphatha kamuva ekuphileni, kunencazelo elula kakhulu: ukuzinza kobuntu. Umuntu okhathalela izingane zakwabo angase abe umuntu okhathalelayo kakhulu, ongenawo umphumela wangempela oyimbangela wokuzala.
Kunobufakazi bokuthi ubuzalwane bomndeni bunemiphumela efinyelela kude ngokwengqondo. Okokuqala nje, izelamani zingadala izinkinga zempilo yengqondo noma zivikele kuzo, kuye ngokufudumele kobuhlobo. Ubulili bezingane zakwethu nabo bungadlala indima emisebenzini yethu yakamuva, ngocwaningo oluthile olubonisa ukuthi amadoda anodadewethu abadala awakwazi ukuncintisana, nakuba kubalulekile ukungenzi ihaba ngezinga elingokoqobo lalo mphumela lapha.
Esinye isici esibalulekile umehluko weminyaka phakathi kwezelamani. Ucwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwa e-UK luthole ukuthi izingane zakubo ezisencane ezinegebe elincinyane leminyaka yobudala zivame ukuba nabantu abaningi futhi zingabi nemizwa - cishe ngenxa yokuthi kwakufanele ziqhudelane ukuze abazali bazo banake ngokwemibandela elinganayo futhi babenethuba elihle lokudlala ndawonye futhi bafunde ngabanye.
Kufanele futhi kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubudlelwano bobuzalwane nodadewenu abukho endaweni engenalutho - abafowethu nodadewethu bavame ukuba nobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu lapho bekhulela endaweni ejabulisayo yasekhaya.
Amandla omunye
Ukuqina kwemizwelo, uzwela, namakhono okuxhumana nabantu kungamandla asobala emisebenzini eminingi. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuba nengane yakini ozwana nayo kungaba inkundla enhle yokuqeqesha. Kodwa kuthiwani uma bengekho abafowethu nodadewethu?
Ucwaningo olwaqhathanisa izici zobuntu nokuthambekela kokuziphatha kwabantu abazalelwa eShayina ngaphambi nje nangemva kokwethulwa komgomo womntwana oyedwa lwathola ukuthi izingane ezikuleli qembu zivame “ekungathembeni, ukungathembeki, ukungafaki engozini, ukungaqhubi kahle. , abangenathemba nakakhulu futhi abaqapheli unembeza wabo.”
Olunye ucwaningo lwabonisa imiphumela engaba khona yezenhlalo yaleli qiniso - ababambiqhaza ababeyizingane kuphela bathola amaphuzu aphansi "obungani" (babengenabungane futhi bethembana). Nokho, ohlangothini oluhle, okuwukuphela kwezingane ocwaningweni zenze kangcono ekuhlolweni kokusungula izinto, futhi ososayensi bathi lokhu kubangelwa abazali bazo abazinaka kakhulu.