Yeka ukuthi isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha kangakanani! Kuze kube muva nje, ubukade ubheke phambili ekuzalweni kwengane yakho, futhi manje usezoya ebangeni lokuqala. Abazali abaningi bakhathazekile ngokuthi bangazilungiselela kanjani izingane zabo isikole. Impela kufanele uxakeke ngalokhu futhi ungalindeli ukuthi yonke into izoxazululwa yodwa esikoleni. Cishe, amakilasi azogcwala ngokweqile, futhi uthisha ngeke nje akwazi ukunakekela ingane ngayinye.
Ukulungiselela ingane isikole ngumbuzo okhathaza wonke umzali. Ukuzimisela kunqunywa ngongqondongqondo futhi, ngezindlela eziningi, isisekelo sayo esingokwengqondo. Ukuze ufunde amakhono adingekayo ekufundiseni esikoleni, kwanele ukunikela imizuzu engu-15-20 ngosuku. Inani elikhulu lezincwajana zentuthuko nezifundo zokulungiselela zizosiza.
Kunzima kakhulu ukulungiselela ingane ngombono ongokwengqondo. Ukulungela kwengqondo akuveli ngokwako, kepha kukhula kancane kancane ngokuhamba kweminyaka futhi kudinga ukuqeqeshwa okujwayelekile.
Uzoqala nini ukulungiselela ingane isikole nokuthi ungayenza kanjani kahle, sibuze isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sezokwelapha esikhungweni se-psychotherapeutic u-Elena Nikolaevna Nikolaeva.
Kubalulekile ukwakha isimo sengqondo esihle maqondana nesikole engqondweni yengane kusengaphambili: ukutshela ukuthi esikoleni ufunda izinto eziningi ezithokozisayo, ufunda ukufunda nokubhala kahle, uzokwakha abangane abaningi abasha. Akunasimo lapho kufanele wethuse ingane yakho ngesikole, umsebenzi wesikole kanye nokuntuleka kwesikhathi samahhala.
Ukulungiselela okuhle ngokwengqondo esikoleni ngumdlalo "wesikole", lapho ingane izofunda khona ukukhuthala, ukubekezela, ukusebenza, ukuzijabulisa.
Enye yezinto ezibalulekile ekulungiseleleni isikole impilo enhle yengane. Kungakho ukuqina, ukuzivocavoca, ukuzivocavoca kanye nokuvimbela imikhuhlane kubalulekile.
Ukuze kube nokujwayela okungcono esikoleni, ingane kufanele ibe nobungane, okungukuthi, ikwazi ukuxhumana nabo bobabili ontanga nabantu abadala. Kumele aqonde futhi aqaphele igunya labantu abadala, aphendule ngokwanele emazwini ontanga nabadala. Ukuqonda nokuhlola izenzo, ukwazi okuhle nokubi. Ingane kufanele ifundiswe ukuhlola ngokwanele amakhono abo, ivume amaphutha, ikwazi ukwehlulwa. Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele balungiselele ingane futhi bayichazele ngemithetho yempilo ezomsiza ukuhlanganisa nomphakathi wesikole.
Umsebenzi onjalo nengane kufanele uqalwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi, kusukela eminyakeni emithathu kuya kwemine. Ukhiye wokuqhubeka nokuzivumelanisa nobuhlungu bengane eqenjini lesikole izimo ezimbili eziyisisekelo: isiyalo nolwazi lwemithetho.
Ingane kufanele ikubone ukubaluleka nesibopho senqubo yokufunda futhi iziqhenye ngesimo sayo njengomfundi, izizwe inesifiso sokuthola impumelelo esikoleni. Abazali kufanele bakhombise ukuthi baziqhenya kanjani ngomfundi wabo wakusasa, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ekwakhekeni kwengqondo kwesithombe sesikole - umbono wabazali ubalulekile ezinganeni.
Izimfanelo ezidingekayo ezinjengokunemba, umthwalo wemfanelo nokukhuthala azakheki ngokushesha - kuthatha isikhathi, ukubekezela nokuzikhandla. Imvamisa, ingane idinga ukwesekwa okulula okuvela kumuntu osondelene naye.
Izingane zihlala zinelungelo lokwenza amaphutha, lokhu kuyisici sabo bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokukhetha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane ingesabi ukwenza amaphutha. Ukuya esikoleni, ufunda ukufunda. Abazali abaningi bathethisa izingane ngamaphutha, amamaki aphansi, okuholela ekwehliseni ukuzethemba kwentsha kanye nokwesaba ukuthatha isinyathelo esingalungile. Uma ingane yenza iphutha, udinga nje ukuyinaka bese unikela noma usize ukuyilungisa.
Ukuncoma kuyimfuneko yokulungisa amaphutha. Noma impumelelo encane noma impumelelo yezingane, kuyadingeka ukuklomelisa ngokukhuthaza.
Ukulungiselela akuyona nje ikhono lokubala nokubhala, kepha futhi nokuzithiba - ingane uqobo lwayo kufanele yenze izinto ezithile ezilula ngaphandle kokuncenga (ilale, ibhulashile amazinyo, iqoqe amathoyizi ayo, futhi ngokuzayo konke okudingekayo esikoleni ). Abazali abasheshe baqonde ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani futhi kudingekile lokhu enganeni yabo, ingcono inqubo yokulungiselela kanye nemfundo isiyonke izokwakhiwa.
Kakade kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-5, ingane ingakhuthazeka ukuthi ifunde ngokunquma ukuthi yini ekuthandayo. Le ntshisekelo ingaba isifiso sokuba seqenjini, ukushintsha indawo, ukulangazelela ulwazi, ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okudala. Khuthaza lezi zifiso, zibalulekile ekulungiseleleni kwengqondo kwengane esikoleni.
Ukukhula okuzungeze ingane kuyisiqinisekiso sokuqhubeka nokufunda kwayo ngempumelelo, futhi wonke amakhono nezifiso ezikhona ebuntwaneni kuzofezeka empilweni yomuntu omdala, ezimele.
Yiba nesineke futhi ubonelele, futhi imizamo yakho nakanjani iyothela imiphumela emangalisayo. Ngikufisela inhlanhla!