Ukubaluleka kwenjabulo ekukhetheni umdlalo wengane

Kufanele kwaziwe ukuthi ingane ayijwayele ukwenza umdlalo "ngenxa yempilo yakhe", ngoba lokhu kusekukhathaza kakhulu kuye.¹. Kunalokho, kugxilwe emiphumeleni ehlotshaniswa ngokuqondile nomsebenzi womzimba, njengokujabula nokwandisa ukuzethemba, ngakho kuyisici sokudlala esidlisa ngokuyinhloko intshisekelo yengane kwezemidlalo. Ngokufanelekile, ukukhetha kwezemidlalo kufanele kuvele kumntwana hhayi kubazali, azi ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni engu-6 lapho ingane iqala ukusebenza ngokomzimba futhi ithanda ukuhlanganyela emidlalweni eqondiswa imithetho.².

Nokho, injabulo yezemidlalo ayikushiyi ngaphandle ukusebenza ngoba ingaxhunyaniswa ngokuqondile nokuhlolwa kwamakhono omuntu siqu engane. Kuvele ukuthi ngokuvamile bakuthola kujabulisa kakhulu uma ukudlala ezemidlalo kuhambisana nomgomo wokuzithuthukisa, futhi bahlobanise impumelelo yezemidlalo kakhulu nokubambisana kunokukhombisa ukuphakama kwabo ngaphezu kwabanye.¹.

Yiziphi izingozi ezingase zihilele ingane ukuba iqeqeshe umdlalo ngaphandle kokuzijabulisa?

Uma umzali engakhuthaza ingane yakhe ukuba ikhethe umdlalo, kungcono ukucabangela lokho akuthandayo, engozini yokuyibona ilulaza ngokushesha, noma yenza ngaphansi kokucindezelwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi abazali balindele lukhulu ngokudlala kwengane yabo kwezemidlalo, kuze kufike ezingeni lokuyicindezela.³. Ngisho noma ingane iqale ikhombise ukuwuthakasela lo mdlalo okukhulunywa ngawo, le ngcindezi ingagcina imdalela ukukhungatheka, isifiso sokuzidlula yena hhayi yena kodwa kwabaseduze kwakhe, futhi okungaba umphumela. ngenxa yokunengeka.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, imizamo eyeqile, ukusebenza ngokweqile kwezemidlalo - ngaphezu kwamahora we-8-10 wezemidlalo ngesonto⁴ - kungabangela izinkinga zokukhula enganeni kanye nobuhlungu bomzimba². Ubuhlungu obuhlobene nokuziqeqesha ngokweqile ngokuvamile kuwuphawu lokuthi ikhono lomzimba lokuzivumelanisa nezimo selidlulile futhi kufanele libe isignali eyisixwayiso. Ngakho-ke kunconywa ukuthi unciphise umzamo, noma umise ukuthinta okubuhlungu, ngisho nangaphandle kohlaka lwezemidlalo. Ukuziqeqesha ngokweqile kungase futhi kubonakale ngokukhathala okukhulu okungaqediwe ukuphumula, ngezinkinga zokuziphatha (ukushintsha kwemizwa, ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla), ukulahlekelwa umdlandla, noma ngisho nokwehla kokusebenza kwezemfundo.

Ekugcineni, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ngeke iwuthole umdlalo omfanele okokuqala. Kudingekile ukumnika isikhathi sokuzithola, futhi ungamkhangisi kusenesikhathi, ngoba lokhu kungaholela ngokushesha ekuqeqeshweni okujulile okungavumelani neminyaka yakhe. Ngakho-ke kungase kudingeke ashintshe ezemidlalo izikhathi eziningana, inqobo nje uma lokhu kungafihli ukuntula ugqozi nokubekezela.

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