Okokuqala, kuyadingeka, uma kungenzeka ngokuphelele, ukususa okuzokhumbuza ubudlelwane obudlule. Lezi kungaba izithombe ezijwayelekile, izipho, izinto. Kungcono ukususa konke lokhu ngaphandle kokuzisola. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuhlala kudonsa iso, izinto zizovusa izinhlangano ezizogadla ngamanxeba angokomoya amasha. Udinga futhi ukususa izinombolo zocingo noxhumana nabo kwi-Intanethi (kahle, noma okungenani uqiniseke ukuthi i-akhawunti yakhe ithola okuncane ngangokunokwenzeka).
Uma kungenzeka, yekani ukuya ezindaweni enazihamba ndawonye. Isibonelo, zama ukungayi e-cafe lapho usebenzise khona isikhathi sakho samahhala nenkomishi yekhofi; i-cinema lapho ubuke khona amafilimu akho owathandayo; ipaki lapho othande ukuhamba khona kusihlwa, njll.
Ngalesi sikhathi, uzodinga kakhulu ukuxhaswa ngumndeni wakho nabangane. Ngakho-ke, ungabaxosheli kude nawe, kepha zama ukusunduza imizwa yakho emibi ngemuva futhi, mhlawumbe, ukhulume ngokwenzekile, ngenxa yalokho ubudlelwano nesoka lakho lakudala baqhekeka futhi baholela ekuhlukaneni. Abathandekayo bakho, njenganoma ngubani omunye umuntu, bazokwazi ukulalela futhi, ngokunokwenzeka, banikeze izeluleko eziwusizo ngalesi simo esikhona manje. Yiba nentshisekelo, mhlawumbe abathandekayo bakho nabo badinga usizo lwakho nokusekelwa, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukuphuma kuphela ezinkingeni zakho, kodwa futhi ubambe iqhaza empilweni yezihlobo zakho.
Ngalesi sikhathi se "self-flagellation" (njengoba izibalo zikhombisa, abantu bazibeka icala ngokuphindwe kabili, noma ngabe umqalisi wokwahlukana wayengakolunye uhlangothi) zama ukungazinikeli kuwe, kepha, kunalokho, wandise umbuthano wakho abantu obajwayele nezintshisekelo. Yebo, yebo, uzwisise kahle, akufanele unqotshwe yiblues bese usebenzisa ubusuku bakho “imifino” phambi kwe-TV, uzidabukele. Ngeke kube ngcono, ngikholwe. Kuzoba ngcono uma ungene shí emsebenzini noma uzitholele umdlalo wokuzilibazisa othokozisayo.
Unganikela nangesikhathi sakho samahhala kwezemidlalo, noma kungcono ukubhalisela iklabhu lokuzivocavoca, ijimu noma isigaba seyoga. Lapha awukwazi ukusebenzisa kuphela isikhathi sakho ngesimo sakho nempilo yakho ngokujwayelekile, kepha futhi wenze abantu obaziyo abasha.
Umbono omuhle kungaba ukuhlela iphathi ye-bachelorette nabangani. Ubusuku obujabulisayo nobunomsindo buzondiza bungabonwa. Izingxoxo ezisuka enhliziyweni, amahlaya amaningi notshwala obuncane (udinga ukuthi uqaphele utshwala ngangokunokwenzeka, kungcono ukwenza umthamo ube mncane ngangokunokwenzeka) kuzokusiza uziphazamise emicabangweni edabukisayo.
Ungaya futhi kwi-disco. Ukunyakaza okunesigqi, umoya okhululekile, ukubabaza ubulili obuhlukile - konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ubhekane nokudangala. Umdanso uzoba uhlobo lokukhululwa emizweni engemihle.
Ungazama futhi ukuya ngosuku lokuthandana. Okuhlangenwe nakho okujabulisayo, ingxoxo ethokozisayo nomuntu ongakajwayeleki izokusiza uzikhulule emaketangeni esikhathi esedlule futhi, mhlawumbe, uqale indaba entsha yothando.
Ukwehluka empilweni yakho "entsha" kungenziwa ngendlela ewubukhazikhazi: ukwenza ukugunda izinwele noma ukudaya izinwele zakho ngombala obukade ucabanga ngawo isikhathi eside, kepha awuzange ulinge ukunikeza izinwele zakho umthunzi onjalo, hamba uyothenga bese ugcwalisa ikhabethe lakho ngezingubo ezintsha, futhi-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuthi noma iyiphi intombazane inganqaba izicathulo ezengeziwe ezinezithende eziphakeme. Zitike kaningi ngokuthenga nokudla okumnandi namaswidi. Ungafunda ukupheka isidlo esiyingqayizivele, bese ujabulisa obathandayo ngaso.
Kepha kuthiwani uma kulungiswa okuncane efulethini? Ungabulala izinyoni eziningana ngetshe elilodwa ngasikhathi sinye. Lokhu, okokuqala, kuzodinga imizamo yakho nesikhathi, futhi zizophinde ziqondiswe futhi kwezakho kuphela futhi zivune wena; okwesibili, ngokwenza izinguquko kokuphakathi, ikhaya lakho lizoba ntofontofo; okwesithathu, ngemuva kwakho konke, ngabe wenza ukulungisa kungekudala noma kamuva, kwase kuba nesizathu esikhethekile.
Inketho enhle kakhulu kungaba ukushintsha indawo. Ungaqhubeka nohambo olude, noma ungavele uphume edolobheni ngempelasonto (umoya ohlanzekile nemvelo bangabaphilisi abangokomoya abahle kakhulu).
Chitha isikhathi sakho samahhala ngokuthakazelisa ngangokunokwenzeka, hamba uhambo lokuhambela kanye nemibukiso ehlukahlukene, vakashela imitapo yolwazi, hamba ezitaladini nasemapaki, ufunde ukujabulela izinto ezilula, futhi uzobona ukuthi umhlaba ugcwele imibala egqamile nemizwelo, futhi akukho indawo yosizi!