Ukuzalwa ekhaya: Ubufakazi bukaCécile

7:20 am .: ukuqala kokufinyela

ULwesine, December 27, 7:20 am ngiphapheme. Ubuhlungu buvela ngaphansi kwesisu sami. Sengiqala ukujwayela, sekunesikhathi sisebenza silindele ukuzalwa. Kubuhlungu kunokuvamile, futhi isikhathi eside. Ngemva kwemizuzu emihlanu, siqala umjikelezo ofanayo futhi, futhi omunye, njll. Ngiyavuka, ngigeze. Iyaqhubeka, kodwa kancane kancane, ukufinyela nobuhlungu kuyahlangana. Amahora amabili ukuthi inkontileka… By the way… “Happy birthday my heart! Kodwa ungagcizeleli kanjalo! ”. Sinikeza izingane ukudla kwasekuseni, sizigqokise. Ngibe sengibiza uCatherine, umbelethisi. Uzobe ekhona ngabo 11:30...

Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ngikhipha uRené noRomy embhedeni. Yibo abazonakekela izingane ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Sisebenzisa ngokunenzuzo isikhathi esidlula phakathi kwezifinyezo ezimbili ukuze sihlele igumbi lokudlela. Senza indawo ukuze ngikwazi ukunyakaza ngokuthanda kwami. U-René uyafika futhi ahambe nezingane. Sihlala phakathi kwethu, sizungeza imibuthano, ngakho-ke senza ukuqoqa okuncane (phakathi kokufinyela okubili), ukuze nje "singacabangi" kakhulu, ukuvumela izinto zenzeke ...

11:40 am: kufika umbelethisi

UCatherine uyafika. Ubeka okokusebenza kwakhe ekhoneni futhi uyangihlola: “Phakathi kuka-4 no-5, akukubi…”, uthi. Ngokushesha kakhulu, ukufinyela kuyasondela, kushube kakhulu. Ngihamba phakathi kokubili. Ungeluleka ngokuthi ngizisekele ngokuncika phambili ngesikhathi sokufinyela… Ingane ingibeke emhlane, yingakho ukufinyila kuphelela emhlane. Lapho ngishintsha ukuziphatha kwami, ngokushesha ubona ukuthi umntwana uhlanganyela e-pelvis ... ngiyaqinisekisa, ngoba lapho, imizwa iyashintsha ngempela! Ungibhucunga umhlane ngamafutha abalulekile, u-Pierre uyangisiza ukuba ngisekele ukufinyela lapho ngincike phambili. Ngo-14:30 ntambama, Ekugcineni ngithola isikhundla sami. Sengiqala ukuba nenkinga yokuhlala ezinyaweni zami, ngakho ngihamba ngincike kusofa. Emadolweni akho. Kungivumela ukuthi ngigcine isikhundla sincike phambili. Eqinisweni, angisasishiyi lesi sikhundla...

13 pm .: Ngilahlekelwa amanzi

Lapho, ngokusobala, ngingena esigabeni esisha. Nginombono wokuthi yinde kakhulu, kanti empeleni, yonke into izohamba ngokushesha okukhulu. Kusuka kulo mzuzu kuphela lapho uCatherine ezoba khona kakhulu. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, wayehlale ehlakaniphe ngempela. Eduze kwami, yonke into ihamba kahle: indawo emva kokuzalwa, indishi yamanzi ashisayo (ye-perineum… injabulo!)… Ngiyavuma, angizange ngilandele yonke into, eh !! UPeter ubambe isandla sami, kodwa empeleni ngidinga ukugxila kimina. Ngizithulele kancane. UCatherine uyangikhuthaza, angichazele ukuthi kufanele ngiphelezele ingane yami, ngingayigodli. Kunzima kakhulu ukwenza ... Yamukela ukuyiyeka, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo. Ibuhlungu ! Ngezinye izikhathi ngifuna ukukhala, ngezinye izikhathi ngimemeze. Ngizithola ngiluma (ngokwezwi nezwi, ngingabonisi ulaka ...) ngokufinyela ngakunye, ngizama ukukuphelezela. Ngiyamethemba uCatherine futhi ngiphushe, njengoba engicebisa ("kuyakhulula ukuphusha ..."). Lapho ethi kimi: “woza, yikhanda”, ngicabanga ukuthi ikhanda liqala ukubonakala. Imilenze yami iyavevezela, angazi ngizibambe kanjani. Ngaleso sikhathi, angikwazi ukulawula okuningi… “Uma ukwazi ukukhulula, beka isandla sakho, uzosizwa!” Angikwazi, ngizwa sengathi ngizowa uma ngidedela usofa!. Ukufinyela… Ukufinyela okude okushisayo, kodwa okungiphoqayo ukuba ngikhiphe ikhanda (ukulidudula…), namahlombe… Emzimbeni, ukukhululeka okukhulu: umzimba uphumile. Futhi ngimuzwa ememeza… kodwa ngaleso sikhathi!

13:30 pm .: UMélissa ufikile!

Isikhathi ngu-13:30 ntambama… ngibamba ingane yami. Angazi nokuthi ngingayithatha kanjani kahle. U-Pierre umile “Ngu-Mélissa!”. Ingane yami iphilile. Ngimgone ezingalweni zami ... Amahora alandelayo. Asimgezi uMélissa. Siyayisula. Ngihlale kusofa, ngisizwe uPierre noCatherine. Nginakho konke ngokumelene nami, ngikunika ukuqabula, ukuphululwa. Lapho intambo iyeka, uPetru uyayinqamula. Ngibeke indodakazi yami ebeleni ngabo-14:XNUMX ...

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