Kusukela ebuntwaneni, nganginomona abadlali, kodwa hhayi udumo lwabo, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi banikezwa leli khono lokucwilisa ubuntu bomunye futhi baphile impilo yomunye, ngokuzumayo bashintsha izindinganiso zabo, imizwa yabo, ngisho nokubukeka ... , ngangiqiniseka ukuthi lena indlela yokukhula komuntu siqu nentuthuko esheshayo.
Yini okufanele uyisungule? Ubone ubuntu obufanele - bufanele. Ungalidlali ngaphandle kuphela, kodwa futhi ngaphakathi, «imprinting» umlingiswa walo ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngokuphelele. Ukukhiqiza kabusha ingqikithi yalo muntu, mina wakhe, isimo sengqondo, isimo sengqondo emhlabeni kanye naye ngokwakhe, indlela yakhe yokuphila. Cabanga ngemicabango yakhe, hamba nomnyakazo wakhe, uzwe nemizwa yakhe. Thola umuntu oshisekayo (noma ongenasici, noma ohlobene ngokungenabugovu nabobulili obuhlukile, noma ohlakaniphile - owazi kangcono okudingayo) - futhi umjwayele. Yilokho kuphela.
Yilokho kuphela - ube umlingisi omuhle, umlingisi wangempela, umlingisi wezithombe zangaphandle nezangaphakathi, futhi maduze nje uzoba umuntu omkhulu.
Ngokwemvelo, uma lokhu kusezinhlelweni zakho.
Ngiyaqhubeka nokukholelwa esithembisweni sendlela enjalo yokukhula komuntu siqu, futhi anginamahloni nakancane ngeqiniso elibonakala lisobala lokuthi abalingisi ngokwabo (lapho bengekho esiteji, kodwa empilweni evamile) ababona abantu abakhululekile futhi, ngendlela, hhayi abaphumelele kakhulu. Osephenduke umlingisi akakabi ngumuntu omkhulu.
Abalingisi kuhle ukubathanda uze uhlangane nabo empilweni. Kodwa empilweni ba ... kahle, bahluke kakhulu, futhi bavame ukufana nabathakathi abangenankosi emakhanda abo. Kodwa-ke - udinga ukuthatha ubuciko bokuphindukuzalwa, abadlali bangempela abangababo, basebenzise kahle futhi basebenzise okuhle, hhayi ukuthanda bona.