Lokhu ukuziphendukela kwemvelo umphakathi wethu obhekene nakho njengamanje futhi akunakuphikwa. Imindeni ekhulisa abazali yamukelwa ngokwengeziwe. Ukwamukelwa kwePACS (isivumelwano sobumbano lomphakathi) ngo-1999, bese kuba umshado wabo bonke ngo-2013, kuguqule imigqa, kwashintsha izingqondo. I-Article 143 ye-Civil Code iphinde icacise ukuthi “umshado wenziwa ngabantu ababili bobulili obuhlukile noma bobulili obufanayo. Phakathi kwezingane ezingama-30.000 nezingama-50.000 zikhuliswa ngabazali ababili bobulili obufanayo. Kepha imindeni enobungqingili inobuso obuningi. Ingane ingahle ivele emshadweni owedlule wobungqingili. Kungenzeka yamukelwe. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi yakhulelwa yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ukubambisana ngokubambisana", ngamanye amazwi, owesilisa nowesifazane banquma ukuba nengane ndawonye ngaphandle kokuhlala njengabantu abashadile.

"Ukusetshenziswa kwamalungelo obuzali ngabantu ababili bobulili obufanayo abahlala njengezithandani", le yindlela iLarousse ekuchaza ngayo ukuthandana kwabantu bobulili obubodwa. Kwakuyi-Association of Gay and Lesbian Parents and Future Parents okwathi, ngo-1997, yaba ngeyokuqala ukuqamba igama elithi “homoparentalité” uhlobo olusha lomndeni olwaluvela. Indlela yokwenza kubonakale okwakungaleso sikhathi kuncane kakhulu ebekiwe.

Ukhulisa ingane kube sengathi ngeyakhe. Umngane womzali wokuzalwa kubhekiselwa kuye njengomzali wenhlalo, noma umzali ohlosiwe.

Isimo sakhe? Akanayo. UMbuso awuwamukeli amalungelo akhe. "Empeleni, umzali akakwazi ukubhalisa ingane esikoleni, noma agunyaze ukungenelela kokuhlinzwa", singafunda engosini yeCAF, iCaf.fr. Ngabe amalungelo abo obuzali aqashelwe? Akuyona into engenakwenzeka. Kukhona nezindlela ezimbili ongakhetha kuzo:

• ukutholwa
• ukwaba amandla okwabelana ngabazali.

Ngo-2013, umshado wawuvulekele wonke umuntu kuvulwe uhhafu umnyango wokutholwa. Ngakho-ke i-Article 346 ye-Civil Code icacisa ukuthi “akekho umuntu ongavunyelwa ngabantu abangaphezu koyedwa ngaphandle kwabashadikazi ababili. Abantu abayizinkulungwane ezimbalwa bobulili obufanayo bakwazile ukwamukela ingane yabalingani babo. Lapho “kugcwele”, ukutholwa kunqamula isibopho sokuhlangana nomndeni wendabuko futhi kwakha isibopho esisha nomndeni wokutholwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, "ukutholwa okulula kudala ukuxhumana nomndeni omusha wokutholwa ngaphandle kwezixhumanisi nomndeni wokuqala owonakele", kuchaza isiza seService-public.fr.

Ukwabiwa kwamandla okuthunyelwa kwabazali, ngokwengxenye yawo, kufanele kucelwe kwijaji lenkantolo yomndeni. Kunoma ikuphi, "uma kwenzeka wehlukana nomzali wokuzalwa, noma uma kwenzeka lowo wesilisa eshona, umzali ohlosiwe, ngenxa yendatshana 37/14 ye-Civil Code, angathola amalungelo okuvakasha kanye / noma okuhlala", kuchaza I-CAF.

Ku-2018, i-Ifop inikeze izwi kubantu be-LGBT, njengengxenye yocwaningo olwenzelwe i-Association des Familles Homoparentales (ADFH).

Ngalokhu, waxoxisana nabantu abangama-994 abathandana nobulili obufanayo, abesilisa nabesifazane kanye nabesilisa nabesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane. "Isifiso sokwakha umndeni akuyona into enikezwa abantu abesilisa nabesifazane", singafunda ngemiphumela yocwaningo. Ngempela, “iningi labantu be-LGBT abahlala eFrance bamemezela ukuthi bafisa ukuba nezingane ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo (52%). "Futhi kwabaningi," lesi sifiso sokuba ngumzali akuyona into ekude kakhulu: abantu abangaphezu koyedwa kwabathathu be-LGBT (35%) bahlose ukuba nezingane eminyakeni emithathu ezayo, ingxenye ephakeme kunaleyo ebonwa yi-INED kubo bonke abantu baseFrance ( 30%). "

Ukufeza lokhu, iningi labantu abathandana nobulili obufanayo (58%) lizogxila kumasu okuzala asizwe ngokwelashwa, kude kakhulu nokwamukelwa (31%) noma ukubambisana kwabazali (11%). AmaLesbians, ngokwengxenye yawo, athanda ikakhulukazi ukukhiqizwa okuzosizakala (73%) uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izindlela.

IsiGungu Sikazwelonke saphinde savota ngoJuni 8, 2021 ukuvula uhlelo lokusiza lokukhiqiza kubo bonke abantu besifazane, okungukuthi kubantu besifazane abangashadile nemibhangqwana engqingili. Isilinganiso esivelele somthethosivivinywa we-bioethics kufanele samukelwe ngokuphelele ngoJuni 29. Kuze kube manje, Ukukhiqizwa Okusizwayo Kwezokwelapha bekugcinelwe kuphela imibhangqwana engabobulili obuhlukile. Enwetshelwe imibhangqwana engongqingili nabesifazane abangashadile, izobuyiselwa ngabezenhlalakahle. Ukuthola umuntu ngokwesivumelwano akuvunyelwe.

Ngokuqondene nombuzo wokuthi izingane ezikhuliswe emndenini ongabazali bobabili zigcwalisekile yini njengezinye, izifundo eziningi ziphendula ngokusobala "yebo".

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iNational Academy of Medicine yakhipha "inani elithile lokubhuka" lapho i-PMA inwetshwa kubo bonke abesifazane. "Ukukhulelwa ngamabomu kwengane ephucwe ubaba kuyisifo esikhulu esiqhamuka ngaphandle kwezingozi zokukhula kwengqondo nokuqhakaza kwengane", umuntu angafunda ku-Academie-medecine.fr. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo lucacile: awukho umehluko omkhulu maqondana nenhlalakahle yengqondo, noma impumelelo ezifundweni, phakathi kwezingane ezivela emindenini engabazali kanye nabanye.

Okubaluleke kakhulu? Mhlawumbe uthando olutholwa yingane.