Ukubelethela esikhungweni sokuzalwa: bayafakaza.

Babelethela esikhungweni sokuzalwa

Siyini isikhungo sokuzalwa?

Kuyisakhiwo esiphethwe ababelethisi futhi endaweni eseduze nesibhedlela sokubelethisa ozakwethu. Abesifazane kuphela abane ukukhulelwa okungeyona i-pathological angazala khona. Umama akufanele alindele amawele, noma ahlinzwe ngokuhlinzwa ngesikhathi sokubeletha kwangaphambilini, ukukhulelwa kufanele kube sekufike isikhathi, futhi umntwana kufanele aphume ngekhanda. Uma umntwana esezelwe, umama angabuyela ekhaya ngemva kwamahora ayisi-6 kuya kwayi-12, futhi uyobe esethola ukwelashwa kulandele ekhaya. Thola uhlu lwezikhungo zokuzalwa ezingu-9 ezivulwe ngokokuhlola kuwebhusayithi ye-Haute Autorité de Santé. 

UHélène: “Ngezinga lokwesaba ukubeletha, ngasuka kweyishumi ngaya koyedwa!”

“Okwami ​​ukuzalwa akuzange kuhambe kahle. Umama wethuka, futhi wazizwa ehlaselwa umsebenzi wezokwelapha. Ngakho isibhedlela sasethusa kancane. UNicolas wafuna unyaka ohlukile kuwebhu, futhi wathola uZolile. Lapha, iphuzu eliqinile ukuthi umbelethisi wethu, uMarjolaine, ugxile ekubuzeni kwethu imibuzo. Ngangesaba ukungeniswa, ngesaba ukuhlinzwa ngaphansi kokuhlinzwa kwezinzwa. Nge-tattoo yami emhlane ongezansi, i-epidural yayingaqinisekisiwe. Ngangingazi lutho, ngafunda konke lapha. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, ngezinga lokwesaba ukubeletha, ngasuka kweyi-10 ngaya kweyoku-1! UNicolas wayetshalwe imali kakhulu; wayefika cishe kukho konke ukubonisana. UMarjolaine wasisiza ukuba sithole ukuzethemba: wasichazela ukuthi umngane angakwazi kanjani khulula ukufinyela namamasaji emhlane ongezansi kanye nezindawo ezisebholeni. Ngaliphumelela leli gama, nginovalo lokuthi ngizoqhunyiswa. UMarjolaine wachaza kabanzi ngezindlela ezingokwemvelo zokuqala umsebenzi: ukuhamba, ukugibela izitebhisi, ukwenza uthando, ukudla okubabayo, ukubhucunga isisu ngamafutha abalulekile. Ngenze konke, ngisho neseshini ye-osteopathy.

Ezinsukwini ezintathu emva kwethemu ehleliwe, ngathola i-ultrasound e-Bluets. Ngesikhathi ehlolwa, udokotela walahlekelwa isithombe. Bekuwukufinyela kwami ​​kokuqala okuqinile. Kwakusemini. Ngiye ekhaya ngiyokwenza ukuqala komsebenzi. Ngifakwe embhedeni wami ebumnyameni, ngiphilile, ngakwamukela ukufinyela. UMarjolaine wayengishayela ucingo njalo ngehora. Engilalele ngiphefumula, wayazi ukuthi ngikuphi. Ngo-18 ebusuku, wangicela ukuba ngize ku-Calm. Ngahlala kubhavu, ukuhlala lapho kusukela ngo-20:30 pm kuya ku-23:30 pm ngaphuma ukuze ngizame ukuma embhedeni, ehlezi, emile, enyakaza, ebheke eceleni… UNicolas wayengiphelezela njalo, engiphulula iqolo lami. Ngakusasa, wayekhathele! Njalo ngehora, ngangigadwa. Umbelethisi wayengekho eduze kwami ​​ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ngangimuzwa ekhona. Ungiqondise emizweni.

Namuhla, nginezinkumbulo ezinhle zokuzalwa

Ngezithuba zabo-3 ekuseni, wangibheka futhi umsebenzi wami umile. Ikhola yami ibivinjiwe, kangangokuthi uMarjolaine, ngemvume yami, waqala inqubo yokudlulisa. Ngakhuphukela ewodini lababelethayo (elingenhla nje), futhi kwaqala. Ngakho ngakwazi ukuhlala nababelethisi bami eCalm. UGarance waphuma ngokushesha, ngemizuzu engama-30, ngo-4:30 ekuseni ngo-Ephreli 9. Lapho ngimuzwa eza,ngageza ngenjabulo. Sehla saya kuZolile siyocambalala, uGarance ephakathi kwethu. Salala kwaze kwaba u-9:30 ekuseni futhi saba nesidlo sasekuseni esimnandi. Umama weza ezosithatha ngo-12:30 ntambama uMarjolaine wasivakashela ngakusasa. Wangichazela okuningi zokuncelisa. Nganginokukhathazeka okuncane, ngaphandle kobuhlungu ku-coccyx izinsuku ezingu-10. Namuhla, nginezinkumbulo ezinhle zokuzalwa kukaGarance. Izifinyezo, akubuhlungu kakhulu kunalokho umuntu angakucabanga. Kufana ne-a igagasi elinamandla ongatshuza kuwo. Ngaphambi kokuba ngifike lapha, lapho ngihlela ukubeletha, ngacabanga ngobuhlungu, ukwesaba ukufa! ” i

Ingxoxo kaChristine Cointe

UJulia: "Ngabeletha emanzini futhi cishe ngaphandle kosizo ..." 

“Ngabeletha eCalm ngo-Ephreli 27. Ngangifuna a ukubeletha okungokwemvelo kakhulu. Ngangizethemba ngomzimba wami. Ngokuvamile, angikuthandi ukwelashwa komzimba. Benginephrojekthi yokuba ne- ukubeletha ngokomzimba kakhulu nobaba wakusasa futhi. Ngudadewethu owangitshela ngalendawo yokuzalwa. Senza imibuzo kuyi-Internet, bese siya emihlanganweni yokwaziswa. Futhi saqinisekiswa, sathola ukuthi kwakuyindawo enhle yokunikeza ukuphila. Awusakwazi ukulawula umzimba wakho noma iphrojekthi yakho kusukela ngesikhathi ufika esibhedlela… Bengifuna ukubeletha ngendlela engokwemvelo kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Umama naye wayenaso lesi sifiso sokubelethela emanzini, kodwa akazange aphumelele ukukwenza. Ngikholelwa ukuthi kube khona ukudluliswa kwalesi sifiso. Amanzi ayisici esingikhangayo. Ngangingenalo uvalo ngokubeletha ngaphandle kwe-epidural. Ngangifunde izinto eziningi ezangiqinisekisa… Nganginombono omuhle kakhulu ngokufinyela, nganginethemba elikhulu. Ngicabanga namanje ukuthi bengingenakho ukwesaba okwanele.

Ekugcineni, kwaba buhlungu kakhulu kunalokho engangikucabanga. Nganginezinsuku ezimbili ezigcwele zomsebenzi wangaphambi komsebenzi, ubusuku obubili bokungalali nokufinyela okuphindaphindiwe. Ngafika esikhungweni sokuzalwa sesivuleke kancane. Umbelethisi wangitshela ukuthi ngangingakasimi ngempela futhi wangeluleka ukuba ngihambe 'izinyawo' amahora amabili ukuze ngenze izinto zibe lula. Ngahamba ngahamba. Uhambo lwangaphandle lwahamba kahle, kodwa lapho ngibuya, kwakubi kakhulu, ngamemeza ngokufa kwami. Emuva esikhungweni sokubelethela, umbelethisi wangifaka kubhavu ukuze ngiphumule. Wangihlola isitho sangasese sowesifazane, okuwukuphela kwenkathi ngibeletha. Umlomo wami wesibeletho wawunwetshwe ngo-2 cm. “Kuphakathi kokuthi hamba uye ekhaya ubuye uma ungasasebenzi, noma usale khona sibone ukuthi kuhamba kanjani,” kusho yena. Ngabuyela emotweni, kodwa ubuhlungu babudlulele: ngangikhala njalo. Futhi ekugcineni, umsebenzi wenziwa ngokushesha, ngoba umsebenzi wangaphambili wawumude kakhulu. Angidalelwanga ukuphusha, ngatshelwa ukuthi ngikwenze lapho ngizizwa ngifuna. Esigabeni sokugcina, lapho ngizwa ingane yami ikhula, ngacela ukuya kubhavu. Futhi ngo-1:55 ekuseni, ngabeletha ingane yentombazane, emanzini futhi cishe ngokungasizwanga.

Ukube bengingakwenza kabusha, bengingakwenza!

Owesifazane ohlakaniphile akazange angenele noma nini, wavele walinganisa ukushaya kwenhliziyo yengane yami njalo ngehora. Uzakwethu wayesondelene kakhulu nami, wangibhucunga wangiduduza. Okuhle ngesikhungo sokuzalwa ukuthi uma usukhethile iphrojekthi yakho, awukwazi ukushintsha umqondo wakho, ngaphandle kwesimo esiphuthumayo. Ngendlela, ngesinye isikhathi ngathi ngifuna i-epidural, kodwa wangiqinisa umbelethisi, ngoba ebona ukuthi ngisenazo izinsiza. Ngabeletha ngabo-2 ekuseni salala sobathathu in the room, we ate at noon and at 15 pm we left. I found this release early… But I’m happy to have given birth like this. And if I had to do it again, I would do it again. ” the

Ingxoxo kaHélène Bour

UMarie-Laure: “Ngemva nje kokuzalwa, ngazizwa ngingenakunqotshwa.”

 “Ngabeletha ngo-2:45 ekuseni, ukuququda kubhavu, uMsombuluko May 16, ngizungezwe uMarjolaine, umbelethisi wami nomyeni wami. U-Elvia, 3,7 kg ngesikhathi ezalwa, akazange amemeze. Kwadingeka izifinyezo ezine kuphela ukumkhipha. Futhi emini, sase sisekhaya. Kwavela njengoba ngangicabanga. Ngesikhathi sokuxoshwa, amandla omzimba ahlaba umxhwele! Ngifunde okuningi ngokugijima kwe-adrenaline lapho umntwana ephusha; empeleni, iyasha kakhulu. Ngemva nje kokuzalwa ngazizwa engenakunqotshwa, njengeqhawe. Ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi ngiyiphile, yenza umqondo. Ubuhlungu buyabekezeleleka uma uzilungiselele.

Bengifuna ukubeletha okungenasidingo sokwelashwa

Nginezinkumbulo ezimbi zokubeletha kwami ​​kokuqala… Kulokhu, ngenze ukungaphinde ngikhumbule a inhlamvu yezokwelapha. Njengoba igama lisondela, ngahamba kancane futhi ngenza i-acupuncture ukuze ngivuthwe umlomo wesibeletho. Imiphumela ? U-Elvia wazalwa ngosuku olwandulela igama lethiyori. Bengingazi muntu obelethe lapha. Ngibuzile kuwebhu. Ngo-2011, ngahambela umhlangano wolwazi e-Calm (1). Ngalolo suku, ngathi kimi: indawo yamaphupho ikhona! Nakhu kukhona ubudlelwano bangempela bokuthembana. UMarjolaine wangibuza ngokushesha ukuthi ngiyavumelana yini noma cha ngokuhlolwa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, isibonelo. Lapha, sifunda ukuthi ukubeletha kuyinto inqubo ye-physiological, ukuthi kungenzeka ukusebenza ngalesi sikhathi. Ngaphandle kwama-ultrasounds, athathwe endaweni yangasese, angizange ngibone udokotela ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe. Ngababelethisi be-Calm, ukubonisana akusondelene kodwa isikhathi eside, ihora elingu-1 amahora angu-30 kuya kwangu-2! Ngikuthokozele lokhu ukwenza kube ngokwakho. Ekubonisaneni ngakunye, sizizwa samukelekile, esimweni somkhaya. Ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, uMarjolaine wayekhona kakhulu. Wayelalele ukushaya kwenhliziyo okuvamile, wangibhucunga ngenhla kwesinqe, wajwayela njalo. Lapho umsebenzi uqhubeka, ngazizwa ngimdinga nakakhulu. Ngizisize ngokukhipha imisindo ukuze ngiphumuze indawo ye-pelvis. Ngokuphimisela, ngikhuphuke kakhulu ku-treble futhi wangibuyisela kumisindo ye-bass. Ngangikwesaba ukuzola kwakhe, njengoba nganginjalo egajwe amandla okufinyeza uterine. When each arrived, my husband grabbed my hand! I was talking to Elvia, encouraging her to come down. At the time, we do not think, we are in a bubble, it is very animal. If we are thirsty, we can drink, if we want to get out of the water, we do it. At one point, I couldn’t take the water anymore! I went out to do suspensions. I have alternated with several positions. During labor, I did not ask about dilation. Marjolaine looked once. During a postnatal visit, she told me that three quarters of an hour before the birth, I was only at 6. The day after the birth, I had a visit from Marjolaine, then Thursday and Saturday. I feel less tired than for the first childbirth. We recover much better without chemicals in the body! ” the

Ingxoxo kaChristine Cointe

(1) Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe: http://www.mdncalm.org