Okuqukethwe
- Isilwane esifuywayo esiwusizo enganeni
- Isilwane esifuywayo siqinisekisa ingane
- Indima engokwengqondo yesilwane esifuywayo enganeni
- Ingane ithola ukuphila nesilwane esifuywayo
- Ingane ithatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngesilwane esifuywayo
- Ingane ifunda ukwethembeka esilwaneni esifuywayo
- Ingane ifunda ukuhlonipha abanye ngesilwane esifuywayo
Isilwane esifuywayo esiwusizo enganeni
Ukunakekela isilwane esifuywayo kunikeza ingane umuzwa wokuba usizo. Uyazi ukuthi kuncike ekunakekeleni kwakhe futhi kuyakwazisa. Lezi kufanele nakanjani zivumelane neminyaka yengane. Uma engakwazi ukuzihambela yedwa, angase abe nomthwalo wemfanelo wokubopha intambo yakhe futhi ayigcine lapho esendleleni eya ekhaya.
Isilwane esifuywayo siqinisekisa ingane
U-Boris Cyrulnik, isazi sezifo zengqondo kanye nesazi sezimiso zokuziphatha, ukholelwa ukuthi lesi silwane "senza okuhle enganeni ngoba sivusa kuye umzwelo oshukumisayo, opholile futhi lokhu kudala kuye umuzwa wothando oluhlanzekile". Ngempela, isilwane singumngane, kubo bonke ubulula. Ukuxhumana naye kulula futhi kungokwemvelo futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubungane buphelile, okusiza kakhulu ukuqinisa ingane.
Indima engokwengqondo yesilwane esifuywayo enganeni
Ingane ngokwemvelo ithulula usizi lwakhe, izinkathazo zayo ngisho nokuvukela kwayo esilwaneni sayo esidlala indima ebalulekile ngokwengqondo ngokwenza kube lula ukuphuma kwemizwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokushesha uba yinsika ekuphileni komntwana: uhlala ekhona lapho simdinga, eduduza ngezikhathi zokudabuka futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, akahluleli noma alahle inkosi yakhe encane.
Ingane ithola ukuphila nesilwane esifuywayo
Ukuphila kwesilwane kufushane, kuvumela ingane ukuthi ithole izigaba eziyinhloko ngokushesha: ukuzalwa, ubulili, ukuguga, ukufa. Ubuye afunde okuningi ngemfundo: ngempela, uma bekhuzwa, ubuwula bekati noma benja busiza ingane ukuba iqonde ukuthi kungani eyakhe nayo ijeziswa.
Ingane ithatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngesilwane esifuywayo
Ngenxa yesilwane sakhe esifuywayo, ingane iyawuqonda umqondo wokuzibophezela. Yebo, kubalulekile ukuthi ahlukanise ngokucacile phakathi kokuthenga ithoyizi nokuthatha isilwane. Kungakho kusiza ngezinye izikhathi ukunganqumi ngokushesha kodwa futhi ukufaka ingane ngempela esinqumweni. Ngokwesibonelo, singakha kuye “i-adoption charter” enamalungelo nemisebenzi yomuntu ngamunye. Ukuze ihambisane nempilo yobudala bayo. Ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-12, empeleni, ingane ayikwazi ngempela ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo ngesilwane, kodwa ingakwazi ukwenza izenzo ezithile njengokusixubha, ukushintsha amanzi aso, ukusesula lapho ibuya ekhaya iphuma ohambweni ...
Ingane ifunda ukwethembeka esilwaneni esifuywayo
Ukwamukela isilwane kusho ukuzibophezela kwesikhathi eside (phakathi kweminyaka emibili neshumi nanhlanu ngokwesilinganiso). Yiphe ukudla, yitotose, nakekela impilo yayo, xubha izinwele zayo, shintsha udoti wayo noma ikheji layo, qoqa ubulongwe bayo… ubumnandi obuningi njengemingcele engenakuyekwa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo nokuzinza, isilwane sifundisa ingane umqondo wokwethembeka.
Ingane ifunda ukuhlonipha abanye ngesilwane esifuywayo
Ngisho noma sinothando kakhulu, isilwane sihlonishwa ngezindlela zaso siqu (ukundiza, ukunwaya, ukuluma) ezinikeza ingane imvume yezenzo zayo futhi ziyifundise ukuhlonipha ukusabela kwayo. Qaphela, kuye ngokuthi ubudala, ingane ayihlale ikwazi ukuhumusha izimpawu isilwane esimthumelayo futhi kufanele umsize ukuba ahloniphe isidingo sokuzola noma ngokuphambene nalokho ukuze adedele umusi kumngane wakhe.
Ingane iphinde ithande isilwane ngenxa yamandla esisinika yona. Isikhundla sakhe njengothisha, esivuza kakhulu nesivuzayo, naso sibandakanya kakhulu. Yilesi senzo esiphindwe kabili, esilinganisela kahle, esenza ukuhlalisana kwengane nesilwane sasekhaya kuthakazelise.