Okuqukethwe
Isizukulwane Y, esaziwa nangokuthi isizukulwane ESILANDELAYO noma izinkulungwane zeminyaka, ezazalwa kusukela ngo-1984 kuya ku-2003, singabadali bezimpilo zabo. Lezi zigqila zokusebenza ezifuna ukuvelela zidala okwazo iqiniso. Nokho, ngaphansi kwesithunzi sempumelelo nenjabulo kulele ukwesaba ubumpofu kanye nokungakwazi ukuphila ngokugqamile. Ku-anamnesis - abazali abakhula buthule ama-peonies ezweni. Emaphusheni - abacebile nabadumile, okufanele balingane. Umkhangisi wemisebenzi u-Jeanne Lurie uhlonze izici zeGeneration Y ezingabalimaza.
1. Ukuncika emalini
Iminyaka yama-90s kwakuyisikhathi sokuhlukaniswa komphakathi ngezigaba, kanye neNyunyana enkulu yamaRiphabhulikhi ibe yizifunda ezizimele. Abamele isizukulwane ESILANDELAYO, yiqiniso, basebancane kakhulu ukuba babambe iqhaza ekubekeni imingcele emisha, kodwa baqonda ukuthi njengamanje banethuba lokudala ikusasa labo futhi benze imali ngokubona kwabo.
Ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo yaphela ngokuzumayo ukuba yihlazo futhi yaqala ukuthatha indawo eyinhloko esithombeni esingokwengqondo sekusasa lomuntu siqu. Ukwesaba okukhulu “kwabadlali bamageyimu” ubumpofu. Ukusebenza kuze kube seqophelweni lokulahlekelwa umfutho, ngaphandle kwamaholide namaholide (abazali bafundisa ukuthi imali kufanele izuzwe ngokuzikhandla), umjaho ongapheli kusukela kuphrojekthi kuya kwenye, ukuntuleka okuphelele kwesikhathi somuntu siqu - lezi yizinsika ezintathu ezingahlehlisa intuthuko. impilo yomuntu wesimanje othanda ukuphelela.
2. Ukulwela ukubukeka okuphelele
Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa yi-American Psychological Association, i-Generation Y yadlula isizukulwane X sangaphambili ekuphishekeleni okungaguquki kwesithombe sangaphandle esifanelekile futhi, nakuba bekucatshangwayo, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kodwa isaphumelela emphakathini. Izinga lokuziphendulela kuye lenyuke ngo-30%, kanti kwabanye - ngama-40%.
Lapha kufanelekile ukukhumbula inkolo yobuncane, kanye nobuso obuhle bamantombazane nabafana obuvela emakhazeni omagazini abacwebezelayo, amafilimu aseHollywood, ukukhohlisa kokuthengisa kwabakhiqizi bezimpahla nezinsizakalo eziqinisekisa ukuthi injabulo isekupheleleni ngokomzimba. Ngakho-ke - ukuqina kuze kube sezingeni lokukhathala kanye nokwanda kokuqala kwe-anorexia phakathi kwezingane kuma-90s.
Esikhundleni se-positivity yomzimba, engakaze ibe nezimpande emhlabathini waseRussia, kukhona inzondo ephelele ngomzimba "onamafutha", ohambisana nenqwaba yama-neuroses, ukudla kanye namaphilisi angabazekayo.
3. Ukucindezeleka nokulutheka
Ukholo lwesizukulwane Y: "Impilo yami yimithetho yami, impumelelo yinto esemqoka, umsebenzi umjaho, ngifuna konke ngesikhathi esisodwa." Futhi ngempela, kungani umuntu kufanele athande ukuphila ngemithetho yomunye futhi «angafuni lutho futhi ngolunye usuku kamuva»? Kodwa-ke, yisizukulwane ESILANDELAYO esithambekele kakhulu ekucindezelekeni, ekuzibulaleni kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo zokulutha, kusukela ekugembuleni kuya ekuthengeni, futhi lokhu akubali ukusetshenziswa kabi kotshwala.
4. I-Neurotic perfectionism
I-Perfectionism "njengenhlanganisela yezindinganiso eziphakeme kakhulu zomuntu siqu kanye nokuthambekela okweqile kokuzigxeka" kuvela ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka ngenxa yengcindezi - kuhlanganise nabo ngokwabo. Kuyabaphoqa ukuthi “bafanele” izimpilo zabo enanini elilokhu likhula njalo lemigomo yempumelelo. Ngeke umfihlele noma yikuphi, uthungelwa ohlelweni, futhi ukuphelela okuvamile kuyinjini yenqubekelaphambili.
Kodwa-ke, uma ibha ingafinyeleleki, futhi ingekho indawo yephutha, umuntu olwela impumelelo uba nemizwa. Kuseduze nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka. Izinkulungwane zeminyaka nazo ziba iziguli ze-psychotherapist, ezicwiliswe kakhulu emhlabeni wenkohliso kanye nempumelelo ecatshangwayo kangangokuthi balahlekelwe ngokuphelele ukuthintana namaqiniso.
5. Ukujabula okuvela kumphumela, hhayi kusukela kunqubo
Iminyaka eyinkulungwane abazi ukuthi bangaphila kanjani futhi bajabulele lesi sikhathi. Zihlala zikhona esikhathini esizayo. Bavula ibhizinisi, bathathe isikhundla esiphezulu enkampanini enkulu, bashicilele eyabo incwadi. "Imidlalo" ithola umthamo we-endorphin kuphela lapho ibhokisi lokuhlola eliphambi komgomo liphawulwa, futhi, maye, bayakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi indlela eya enjabulweni nayo iyi-buzz. Into ecasula kakhulu ukuthi umuzwa wenjabulo ovela kumphumela awuhlali isikhathi eside, njengokuthenga imodeli yakamuva ye-smartphone. Usuku noma ezimbili - futhi umgomo omusha uyadingeka. Kungenjalo - blues nesithukuthezi.