I-Psychology

Ngivame ukugxeka izingane (hhayi ngokuzwakalayo) ukuthi zona ngokwazo ngokuvamile azikwazi ukuthi zenzeni manje, zilinde othile ukuthi abone ukuthi zenzeni, zonke izinyathelo zidinga ukufundiswa. Ukuze ngingabacabangeli, nganquma ukubasiza ukuba bazenzele ngokwabo: ngiqhamuke nomdlalo "Vula ikhanda lakho".

Ngaphambi kokudla kwasekuseni kumemezele ukuqala komdlalo. Bafike bame belindele iziyalo lapho konke sekumi ngomumo ngabo futhi. Ngithi, “Kungani simile, siphendula amakhanda ethu, kufanele senzeni na?”, “Ngiyazi, kubeke emapuletini”, Kunjalo. Kodwa ube esethatha isoseji epanini ngemfoloko futhi ulungele ukulithumela epuletini elinamanzi ageleza phansi kulo. Ngiyama "Manje vula ikhanda lakho, kuzoba yini phansi manje?" Inqubo isiqalile… Kodwa okumele kwenziwe akucaci. “Ithini imibono yakho? Indlela yokubeka ama-sausage epuleti ukuze angasakazeki futhi futhi ukuze kungabi nzima ukubamba?

Umsebenzi uyisisekelo kumuntu omdala, kodwa ezinganeni akucaci ngokushesha, ukuxoxisana! Imibono! Amakhanda avule, asebenze, futhi ngiyawancoma.

Futhi ngakho zonke izinyathelo. Manje bayagijima, asidlale futhi futhi “Ungacabanga ngani ngathi?” Futhi ngiphendula ngothando, “Futhi ujike ikhanda lakho,” futhi wewu, bazinikela ngokusiza endlini ngokwabo!

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